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kidsrepublik

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #45 on: May 11, 2011, 02:31:31 pm »

^^ good luck mommy
ako nung nagresign nung Feb and last day ko nung Mar 31 hindi na masyado makapag-SP, hehe!
super enjoy sa house parang ang dami mong gustong baguhin, pagandahin, linisin. tapos kasama mo pa whole day si baby, play, bath, eat, sleep. parang kulang pa ren ang oras sa isang araw. pro super enjoy kasi wala ng pressure from the corporate world.
re finances ok naman, mas nakakapagsave pa nga ako kesa noon na may solo akong pera.

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #46 on: May 20, 2011, 11:15:42 am »

Ako SAHM technically.

Maski ang office namin ay nasa groundfloor ng bahay namin, andito lang ako mostly sa upper floor where our home is, ng makasikaso ng bahay while doing office work on the side.  Inaakyat na lang ang mga kailangang pirmahan ko, o kaya, nag-i-intercom kung may incoming call, etc.

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #47 on: June 26, 2011, 11:33:09 pm »

i am a proud SAHM

technically nahihirapan ako sa pag aalaga kay baby specially pag nagyayaya mga friends ko ng gala pero nananaig pusong mommy ko pag nakikita ko yung anak ko kaya pa reply pa lang ako ng oo sakaila binabawi ko na. tsaka na muna ang pasyal and work, tututukan ko muna si meyer na malapit ng mag 1 y.o,ang saya na lahat ng milestone ni baby present tayo =)
even my mom was amaze at me kasi talagang priority ko si meyer, sa lahat ng pupuntahan ko kasama ko talaga siya. naku ang mahirap lang malingat ako ng sandali miss na miss ko agad si baby
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #48 on: June 27, 2011, 12:16:41 am »

Sad to say mababa ang tingin ng hubby ko sa SAHM. Ganun ang feeling ko tingin niya sakin. Nagiging stagnant daw ako ang hindi naggrow. I'd rather be stagnant sa career pero super close kami ni baby hanggang paglaki and natutukan ko yung paglaki niya than naka grow nga ako ang layo naman ng loob ng mga anak ko sakin.

Still bothers me.

I'll be working soon. Pero hindi dahil sa grow grow yan. Dahil sa pera. Ganun ka simple. At kung papapipiliin ako, kahit walang sweldo, 24/7 on call ka, mababa tingin ng IL ko pati asawa ko, SAHM pa rin ako.

Just my two cents.
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« Reply #49 on: June 27, 2011, 01:06:46 am »

^ I don't think lalayo ang loob ni baby sayo kapag nagwork ka, sis. Pero parang ang hindi lang maganda na mababa ang tingin nila sa sahm, kasi mahirap maging mommy, though very rewarding sya. Opinion ko lang din to :)

Iclear mo nalang din sakanila na kaya ka magwowork hindi dahil sa grow grow na yan. You'll work para magkaron ng sariling money at para din kay NJ :)
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #50 on: June 27, 2011, 07:43:40 am »

Thanks sis tin :) sana nga wag lumayo loob ni NJ sakin :( I know having a job is rewarding, tapos independent ka pa kasi own money, pero mas pipiliin ko talaga sahm. Kaso short ang sweldo ni hubby. Sa mga luho, needs ni baby etc. Hay. Oh well. Bahala sila. Hehe
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #51 on: June 27, 2011, 08:22:14 am »

SAHM din ako..nag decide kami na wag iwanan mga bata sa yaya lalo na at parang wala din matitira if ever work ako..plus the fact na delayed ang expressive language ng 3 years old son namin..
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« Reply #52 on: June 27, 2011, 12:52:14 pm »

^^ haha, talagang kasama ang luho ha :) hindi ka nyan makakalimutan sis. Sakanya ka pa rin naman uuwi diba? Basta, after ng work, spend time with NJ. Hahanap hanapin ka nyan. Feeling ko lang, mahirapan ka at first kasi maghahabol sayo ni NJ.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #53 on: June 27, 2011, 01:27:45 pm »

Huhuhu mas iiyak pa siguro ako sakanya hehe
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #54 on: June 27, 2011, 03:39:44 pm »

Another SAHM preesent here! Actually naging SAHW (stay at home wife) muna ako. After the wedding kase I stopped working na. No regrets, sobrang fulfilling. At mas enjoy talaga ako na sa bahay lang. They always say na mahirap ang maging nanay pero for me nagagaanan ako, kase although walang yaya si baby, me kasama naman kami dito sa bahay, kaya talagang si baby lang ang 'work' ko. ;) Ang sarap kaya ng di na kelangang makipag unahan sa oras kase papasok pa sa office, matatraffic, magma-makeup pa, mag-iisip kung san maglu-lunch, makikipag unahan sa hapon para di abutin ng traffic ulit! Hay, di ko talaga nami-miss ang office works! ;D

@sis ainge, sad naman na mababa ang tingin ni Hubby sa SAHM. Pero you're still lucky kase me available job agad for you. Personally, I don't think meron pa akong pedeng pasukan if ever we decide na magwork na ulit ako. And wag ka masyado mag worry, na-feel na naman ni baby mo ang maalagaan mo ng 24/7, di lalayo ang loob niya sa yo, lalo na't uwian ka naman. Madami din namang moms na nag a-abroad pero close pa din sa kanila. Di na uso ngayon yung nangyari sa movie na 'Anak' ;) Kase matatalino na ang mga bata ngayon.
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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #55 on: June 27, 2011, 05:34:48 pm »

@ sis ainge88: no offense to hubby sis ha, pero I think it's so unfair na ganon ang tingin niya sa mga SAHM. in your case sis, being 'forced' to work kahit ayaw mo, yun pa ang possible na maging reason ng pagiging 'stagnant' mo. Kasi siempre, when someone is doing something she does not want or love to do, yun yung taong hindi talaga mag-grow, yun yung taong stagnant, kasi you'll just be doing it for the money. Tipong papasok ka lang sa office, uuwi, tapos.

SAHMs grow and improve each and every day, and in a number of aspects. Tulad sa pagbudget ng pera, since nasa bahay ka, mas nalalaman mo yung talagang mga kailangan at hindi, so ang tendency alam mo kung paano ang tamang pag-allot ng pera. You also become more patient, hindi lang sa pag-alaga kay baby, kundi sa pag-handle ng iba pang issues sa buhay at pamilya, kasi you take things one day at a time. As a SAHM, you also always try and find things that make you a better woman, a better person. Like me, when I became a SAHM, I worked on improving my craft which is writing, and in turn, I started earning from it na din even when I'm a SAHM.

At the same time, tutok ka pa sa bawat aspeto ng paglaki ni baby. Yung mga bagay na otherwise hindi mo napapansin if you're working, mapapansin mo, kasi makikita mo all the subtle and big changes sa kanya. :)

But don't worry about your baby na magiging malayo ang loob sa iyo ni baby, hindi naman mangyari yon unless of course you fail to give time for him na. This time nga lang you need to make a conscious effort to always make sure na you'd have quality time together. :)

If it's proving to be too difficult for you na malayo kay baby, explain mo na lang kay hubby.  Kasi in the end, kung hindi ka magiging masaya and fulfilled sa work, hindi ka din magiging effective as a wife and mother, dahil magkakaron ka ng hang-ups, and he has to understand that.

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Re: Any SAHMies here?
« Reply #56 on: June 27, 2011, 09:30:07 pm »

Hay :( madidisappoint kasi sakin yun pag hindi ako nagwork :( pero he's not forcing me naman to work. Decision ko na rin yun to help with the finances and to save na rin for the future!

Pero sa dream life ko SAHM ako :(

Thanks for the words of encouragements mga sis.

Nagaaway kasi kami ni hubby pag eto ang topic.. Payag naman siya na hindi ako magwork pero nahihiya rin ako sakanya kasi nga parang disappointed siya :(

Kaya para iwas away na lang and para na rin makatulong sa finances, work na lang ako.

Pero SAHM ako by heart! Haha
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« Reply #57 on: July 18, 2011, 01:06:13 am »

^sis kamusta? so working ka na ngayon? ;)

SAHM here, 5 months na akong SAHM this coming 28th, oh diba? alam ko kelan ako nag last day sa office, hehe :)
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« Reply #58 on: July 18, 2011, 07:38:39 pm »

Next month pa sis :) inaayos pa papers ko and everything. hehe excited na hindi. hay :(

INaayos ko lang yung mga gawain ni yaya and sinasanay ko si baby sa formula, buti type niya ang gain. hehe

ako nag 1 year nung July :)
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« Reply #59 on: July 18, 2011, 10:02:53 pm »

joining ;D

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