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je.anne21

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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #105 on: September 20, 2012, 09:12:50 am »

Sabi nga, kanya kanya lang tayo ng opinion o pananaw. Now, I see toddlers wearing backpack with harness. Cute! Hindi ko na sya na iimagine as pet dog. Yung ngang mga pet dogs nakadamit diba? Hindi ko naman naimagine ever na mukhang bata yung aso. hehe
Well, salamat sa mga opinion nyo mommies!
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #106 on: September 28, 2012, 12:20:58 am »

I know the benefits and advantages of a harness but I personally wont use it on my daughter simply because I dont like the way it looks on a child.

When we go out and madameng tao, we dont let my duaghter walk around. Kakargahin namin yan, either me or my husband. Never ipapakarga sa yaya. We dont let her out of our sight too and our yaya isnt allowed to roam around the mall with my daughter.
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #107 on: September 28, 2012, 03:52:10 am »

My sister in law bought a harness for my 3 year old son. I never used it hanggang sa nawala nalang siya. In my opinion, I am not comfortable na itatali ko yung kamay ng son ko just because malikot siya. Nowadays, madami na namang ways para maiwasan na mawala yung anak natin. Toddlers tend to get a lot excited kapag nasa mall. Lalo na kapag may makikita silang toys. Pero we can't really help it. Bata yan. Nakakawa naman kung naka leash sila. Tsaka feeling ko kasi, kahit na may leash yan e tatakbo at tatakbo parin yan. Mas prone pa na makakabasag sila sa malls kasi mahaba yung leash. Unlike kung hawak niyo talaga yung kamay niya e mas madaling i control.

And besides, kapag madaming tao sa mall, we prefer na kargahin nalang siya. Feeling ko naman kasi, yung mga nanay na nawawala mga anak nila, masyado lang engrossed sa pag shopping na hindi na namalayan na wala na yung anak nila. =)
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #108 on: September 28, 2012, 09:43:55 am »

When we go to the mall, nakaupo lang 2 year old son ko sa stroller pero daddy niya nagtutulak. Pero pag lumayo si Daddy, sasama sya kakargahin na lang sya ni Daddy. Ganon kami pag nasa mall.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #109 on: October 16, 2012, 08:47:16 am »

for me, ok lang yung naka strap si baby.  at least I know, she will not get lost.  no matter what others say, ako ang maloloka pag nawala ang anak ko, hindi naman sila eh  ;)
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #110 on: October 16, 2012, 02:36:57 pm »

Ive tried using harness sa eldest ko dati when she was around 3 i guess. Mahilig kasi syang tumakbo at umikot kung san san especially pag nasa mall kami na kahit sa yaya e nakakawala sya. Mahirap syang hawakan coz kids their age want to be free  ;D Lagi akong kinakabahan so on the spot, i bought a harness. They call it 'tag-a-long'... I used it. Some people looked at me na parang saying na "bakit nakatali yung bata?" but some are smiling na parang saying "ok yan ah"... But i dont care what they say basta hindi out of sight ang kid ko. Mahirap na. But pag tapos na kami mag shopping for her clothes, tinatanggal ko na harness. Few times ko lang nagamit yun coz she's so bright - she knows how to remove it na!  ;D
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #111 on: November 27, 2012, 03:28:23 pm »

I use toddler harness on my son when I am not wearing him.  yung tipong backpack na isusuot ng son ko and may mahabang tali.  I have one very energetic toddler kaya we want him to wear that.  My POV, sa dami ng nawawalang bata at nakikidnap sa mall, I'd rather have him wear one than risk losing my child.  That's just me.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #112 on: November 27, 2012, 04:03:27 pm »

I'm a pro in this issue too, kasi ginawa naman talaga siya for safety, kaya nga safety harness ang tawag and hindi fashion leash :p di bale ng sabihin nila na parang aso or what kasi kapag nawala naman ang baby ko hindi naman sila ang maghahanap no :) POV ko lang naman.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #113 on: December 03, 2012, 09:21:11 pm »

^agree ako sis. :)

It's better to be safe and sure than sorry. POV ko lang naman po.hihi It really doesn't matter kung anong sabihin ng ibang makakakita kasi not everybody naman e alam yung reason mo so keber na lang sa kanila kasi wala naman silang maitutulong if ever. Toddlers tend to get very excited and makulit sa mall. Kahit kargahin pa, hindi maiiwasan na gugustuhin niyang bumaba para magexplore. And kahit may kasama ka pa, mahirap pa rin lalo na pag madaming tao. Atleast pag may harness, di makakalayo sayo si baby pero siyempre you have to keep up with your baby para naman di kayo naghihilaan.hehe Wag na lang pansinin ang sasabihin ng iba na negative, atleast assured ka na di mawawala si baby.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #114 on: December 04, 2012, 11:36:51 am »

While it has its advantages, nahihirapan akong hindi ma-imagine na parang leash yung safety harness, lalo na if you're walking side by side sa mga tao na may dala rin pet, with almost the same thing to hold them down/prevent them from running away. Ang sa akin kasi, kung alam mong madaming tao (sale or holiday season) sa mall, at maglilikot lang baby mo, wag mo na lang isama. Lalo na kung shopping talaga ang objective mo pagpunta ng mall (as opposed to strolling lang, na mababantayan mo maigi ang kid mo).

Just my two cents. :)

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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #115 on: March 09, 2014, 12:05:37 pm »

Iba-iba naman kasi ang mga bata.meron mga pumapayag na hawak/karga parati,meron din mga naghuhulagpos.kung ang anak nyo nakukuha sa hawak lang,di na kailangan ng harness,good for you.mahirap lang na komo ok ganung technique sa inyo e feeling nyo ibang tao dapat ganun din.meron din mga pagkakataon na di maiiwasan mapunta sa crowded places (hello airport) so minsan may advantage talaga pag ginamitan ng harness ang bata.better safe than sorry.yang mga nagsside comment na yan e malamang pag nawala anak mo e sisisihin ka din kasi di nyo ginagaya style nila sa pagaalaga ng bata.ever assuming na what works for them would work for you too.

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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #116 on: March 10, 2014, 04:45:54 pm »

I used those harness with my 2 older kids. I say it's better to be safe than sorry. Kids are kids. May tendency na maging malikot. And with kidnappings happening left and right, especially in malls, mahirap na. I wouldn't hesitate using those again when my baby won't like to be confined in her stroller anymore.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #117 on: March 10, 2014, 11:30:56 pm »

I will also use this pero yung backpack type siguro. Kiber lang din at tama, hindi naman sila ang maloloka pag nawala si baby.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #118 on: October 02, 2014, 03:38:11 am »

I used to dislike the idea of this strap thing kasi yung dog image na binibigay nito plus constraining your kid. But ever since twice nawala/naiwan/or akala ko nasa tita, lolo or lola ang anak ko di na ako nag dalawang isip pa. I have a 4yo son whom we describe na parang vaccum kasi sya hihigop ng e energy mo. I dont have a yaya to run after my son kapag mamasyal kami dalawa. At sa panahon ngayon ang hirap hirap na..malingat ka lang minsan nasasalisi na yung anak mo. And i know i will regret that day at di ko mapapatawad sarili ko kapag nangyari yun. Like kapag nasa toyshop kami..minsan o madalas habang nagbabayad ako he will roam around. Atleast  kapag suot niya yung backpack na may tali, i know nasa tabi ko lang sya. Plus kapag nag bobonding siya with his grandparents wala nga kasi yaya..syempre hindj na naman ganun kabilis tumakbo mga yon, ayleast kahit pano bantay pa rin sya at di niya tatakasan mga lolo lola niya pag nsa mall sya. Which my son mostly does.
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Re: hand strap/harness kids while malling
« Reply #119 on: October 06, 2014, 02:07:43 pm »

been using this all the time...really dont care kahit pinagtitininan kami, its my daughter and i know her very well so alam ko na need ko gamitin yun, not because i dont know how to discipline her to obey, but kids are kids, they tend to break rules all the time...and mahirap ng magsisisi, as you all said, better to be safe than sorry... :)
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