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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #75 on: August 02, 2011, 10:14:54 pm »

100% agree! tell it to our face that we are lazy mommies once they have lost their kids sa Mall!
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #76 on: August 02, 2011, 11:52:10 pm »

thanks mga mommies for this thread. i got several inputs as expected. Well, i'll visit ASAP those stores u mentioned for me to get a strap for my kid. Everyday, he goes out with grandparents lang kasi as he goes to school already attending a toddler class. Better be very safe kami ng husband ko. Horror story ang eksenang tumakbo na naman sa kalsada ang aking anak. At ayoko na rin maulit pa ang takbuhan at habulan namin sa loob ng mall all the time.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #77 on: August 05, 2011, 02:03:51 pm »

@ilovegabe: i completely and absolutely agree, on all points! we don't use the harness/handstrap as much anymore na rin because he understands now, pero pag biglang dumami yung people, or parang he's being a bit too likot, i use it on him.  when one is tired, and has very limited adult people to rely on (ergo...herself only), a harness is a welcome and important invention. i really don't care either if ever i am looked down by people who is not put in the same predicament as mine, but i have been approached so many times by strangers asking where to buy my baby's handstrap.

i realized that my son was aware of things when he had his strap, that:
1. he can wander, but within a limited distance;
2. whatever happens, at the end of the line, mommy is there;
3. he may like something, but it's still better to compromise, and ask mommy's permission first, since i can steer him away from items/areas that i don't like him to see.
4. and, it keeps him safe!  8)
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #78 on: August 24, 2011, 09:46:28 pm »

when i showed my hubby a picture of the harness/handstrap.. he immediately disagreed.. sabi ko for safety purpose.. then he said hindi na kailangan..  nasanay kasi siya sa japan, safe.. sadly dito sa pinas hindi :( bahala siya.. basta if baby's already malikot at ako lang mag-isa.. ihaharness ko siya.. madalas mawala bro ko sa mall, sa church sa simbahan.. kung saan saan pa before.. at lahat kami lagi hirap maghanap.. so inistrap siya.. ayun ok na
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #79 on: August 25, 2011, 02:58:27 pm »

for me disagree ako dito....pwede naman hawakan ang ating mga anak  kapag nasa mall tayo.....at lagi natin tingnan.feeling ko kasi parang pet lang talaga sila pag may strap.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #80 on: August 26, 2011, 11:17:44 am »

nag hahanap po ako san makakabili nitong strap...kase kelangan talaga npaka likot ng anak ko, mas ok na yung ganito kesa naman mawala siya.like ng mga napapabalitang walaan ng bata sa mall.mas nakakatakot.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #81 on: August 26, 2011, 12:09:26 pm »

meron bang straps on both ends? para pati si mommy nakastrap din sa kanya.. hindi magkukang doggie si baby hehe.. ganun kasi gusto ko.. embelish ko na lang para cute pa din ;D
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #82 on: August 26, 2011, 02:44:59 pm »

sis sis loneylou may harness na benta OL mukha lang siyang bag sa likod, sabi ko order ako (+ other pa na order ko) naalala ko, di ko pa natatanong hubby ko regarding doon kung ok lang sa kanya

on POV nung dalaga pa ako, ang pangit tingnan dahil may nakita ako sa rob galle, parang aso yung bata kasi yung strap sa mismong leeg nakalagay at ang dulo hawak ng yaya  >:( (kasi naka uniforme di ko nakita kung nasan ang parents ng bata),  pwede naman sa kamay or even sa damit bakit sa leeg pa, sabi ko sa sarili ko kapag nagka anak ako di ko gagamitan ng ganyan

pero now na may baby na ako na super likot kapag nasa mall na kami hes 18mos old and basta nalang sumasama kung kanino, at nabasa ko sa isang thread dito na naranasan na nila na mawala ang baby nila sa mall, etc, napapaiyak ako, ayoko kasi maranasan yun, dahil minsan kahit anong ingat natin di natin masasabi ang panahon, kung papipiliin ako gagamitan ko siya ng strap as long as na hindi magmumukhang katawa tawa ang anak ko sa paningin ng iba, naiisip ko din if ever mawala ang anak ko, sino ba ang magdudusa? meron si sis loneylou na bag style siya, gusto ko kumuha, for safety purpose, wala na ako pakialam sa sasabihin ng iba kung napapangitan sila o hindi, or sabihin nila na dapat wag isama sa mall ang bata kung mamimili or dapat tutok, ang mahalaga sa akin hindi mawala ang anak ko, kanya kanya tayo ng POV, pero in the end tayo pa rin ang masusunod kung ano man ang sa tinging natin makakabuti sa mga anak natin na kahit sa paningin ng iba ay hindi maganda.

eto pala mga sis ang OL ni sis loneylou

Any one interested in buying Safety Harness po.






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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #83 on: August 26, 2011, 03:28:23 pm »

well we all have our say on this. pero for me ayoko talaga. naka-survive naman kami na wala nito, hindi din namin sinasama yaya ng anak ko pag lumalabas. and umaalis din kami ng anak ko na kami lang 2 minsan (wala si daddy).

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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #84 on: August 26, 2011, 04:22:43 pm »

for me i'd definitely use the safety harness for my youngest when shes old enough to wander by herself. Nasubukan ko na kasi nawala sa mall ang eldest ko, i never wanted that to happen again. It feels its the end of the world for me. But now shes already big, 10yrs old na.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #85 on: August 26, 2011, 04:43:47 pm »

i agree also in using straps.. i bought one as well in the US, parang bag lang din na may harness. At this stage na super likot na baby ko, might as well use it on her. Better be safe. I dont even entrust her to the yaya pag nasa mall. Since may narinig na kong modus operandi from an officemate na muntik na makuha sa yaya yung anak niya. Ako talaga humahawak sa baby ko and most of the time gusto niya maglakad ng maglakad and ayaw magpa-karga or magpasakay sa stroller. Mas nabibigyan ng freedom yung baby ko to walk around without compromising her security.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #86 on: August 28, 2011, 02:46:19 pm »

i find hand-straps very convenient and i've recommended it to my friends.  you can use both your hands in doing something, while being assured that your kids are just nearby.  my kids can fend for themselves, but i don't want to risk losing them.  we must admit that when in public places, there are really times that our attentions were caught by some other things around us.  even for just a slight moment, our kids can wander off to someplace.

the first time we used the hand-strap was when we went to hongkong.  it really helped a lot since we went to a lot of crowded places, especially going to and fro the airport where hubby and i have to hold our baggages.  with hand-straps, they were just tagging along while both our hands are pulling our luggages. 
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #87 on: August 28, 2011, 03:01:28 pm »

yung straps ba sa harness makapal? baka kasi madali lang din gupitin ng "bad guys"... never seen one pa kasi.. sa pics lang.. :-\
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #88 on: August 29, 2011, 01:42:52 pm »

it's not easy to cut sis.  may 4 year old could not even un-strap it.  and hindi naman masyandong mahaba.  it's about a meter long pero stretchable.  just tell your kids that nobody should un-strap them except you.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #89 on: August 30, 2011, 07:40:34 am »

mga sis, pwede paba ang strap na to sa 3 year old?
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