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ravenwillis27

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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #90 on: August 30, 2011, 10:00:25 am »

^mommy ni kent - yung sa akin sis pwede pa sa 3 year old kid.  turning 4 na yung anak ko kasya pa din naman sa kanya.  ang brand is baby first.  bought it for 400+ sa baby company sa SM.
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #91 on: August 30, 2011, 10:34:44 am »

I'm considering buying one kasi punta kami HK and usually mas gusto ni baby maglakad kesa nasa stroller. Takot ako baka mawala siya pag hinayaan maglakad! Pwede na ba to sa 1yr and 3mos?? Tumatakbo takbo na rin kasi and hindi mapakali na nakaupo lang.

Thanks mga sis :)
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #92 on: September 21, 2011, 09:08:30 am »

@ainge88- the arm strap is adjustable naman, so i think it will fit your baby's arm
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Re: hand strap kids while malling
« Reply #93 on: September 22, 2011, 09:10:51 am »

@ainge:  please consider bringing an umbrella stroller if you're going to hk. it would save you a lot of trouble carrying a sleeping and tired baby. it is not advisable naman kasi na the child walks in a very crowded and foreign place, but a hand strap is still a good alternative for walking in less populated areas.
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Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #94 on: August 06, 2012, 09:48:52 am »

Hi mommies! I don't know kung may topic na ganito na dito. Mods, let me know if meron na po.

Bothered lang po ako. I have this Gold Bug baby Harness (bear)matagal ko na binili pero hindi ko ginamit sa anak ko. Until recently, we went to HongKong. By the way, he just turned 2 last July 28. I decided to use it kasi takot ako baka mawala ang anak ko since gusto niya walk or run everywhere. Ang hirap naman humabol lang ng humabol. I noticed pinagtitinginan kami, most naka smile. Sometimes tingin ko, tingin nung iba parang pet dog.

There's this one comment on my husband's niece's friend na "poor boy has a leash. I feel for him." It made me sad and a bit guilty. Mali ba yung sinuotan ko ng baby harness yung anak ko dahil takot ako na baka mawala sya? Ginamit ko lang naman sa ibang country, particularly sa disneyland and ocean park. Pero dito sa pinas hindi kasi nga sinasabi parang pet dog daw. :-(
 
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #95 on: August 06, 2012, 10:16:30 am »

sis je.anne21: I personally do not like using a baby harness. I've never tried it though, because I'm not comfortable with using one. And I have to admit that I share the views of those who say na parang pet dog yung bata, kasi pag titingnan mo naman talaga, parang ganun nga.

BUT, I realized na kaya ko naman sya hindi naiisipang gamitin is because 1. Though malikot yung daughter ko, hindi naman suuuuper. I can still chase after her, and napagsasabihan ko pa naman. 2. When I'm tired na makipaghabulan, we have a yaya naman na puede mag-'sub' sa kin sa habulan portion.

There really are super active kids, especially boys, mas curious sila magexplore and minsan talagang unstoppable. And if you don't have a yaya or a companion to help you chase after him when you're out, ay grabe, that would be super difficult - and dangerous to a certain extent, kasi baka nga biglang mawala yung bata.  So if you're using the harness because your kid is like that, as in unstoppable and you don't have someone to help you 'chase', then super  ok lang, wag mo na lang pansinin what other people will say. Dahil in that particular situation, KAILANGAN mo talaga yung harness, otherwise, there's the risk na kung saan saan mapunta yung bata. Kasi siempre kahit dedicated ka to looking after him, hindi naman 100% palagi ang attention mo. Kung walang ibang eyes to look after him aside from yours, paano na?

Pero, if you have a yaya or another person naman who can help you look after the kid, you can try not using the harness na. :)

Hope this helps. :)

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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #96 on: August 06, 2012, 11:12:20 am »

Hi KVsmommy! Thanks for replying. I also do feel the same, kaya nga I never used it. Nito lang huli talaga sa hongkong dahil sa dami ng tao and tama ka wala akong yaya na papalit sa paghabol habol. And wala talaga akong yaya dahil full time mom ako. I told my hubby din na in that moment, I dont care sa opinion ng ibang tao kesa pagsisihan ko pag nawala ko anak ko. Super tiring nga magkarga at maghabol. Kahit may stroller, mas gusto niya carry ko sya. Pero now that we're here na naman, wala na ko balak gamitin yung harness. Thanks sis for your time. Nakakatulong talaga pag may nasasabihan.
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #97 on: August 10, 2012, 09:42:21 am »

Hi Sis, share ko lang din thoughts go. Before kasi pag namamasyal kami ni hubby sa mall and nakakakita ako ng kids na may tali sa kamay naaawa ako sa bata. Lalo na nakikita mo na naglalakad naman sila ng maayos katabi ang mom nila. Nagmumukha nga silang pet dog. Kaya sabi ko noon sa sarili ko na hindi ko lalagyan ng ganun ang anak ko. Pero nung dumating na si 2nd baby ko and nagsipaglakihan na sila, napapaisip tuloy ako na bumili nung bag like na harness  ::)  3yo and 2yo ang mga anak ko, so isipin mo na lang kung pano ko sila hinahabol kapag magkaibang way pa ang pupuntahan nila. Although kasama naman si hubby sa mga lakad namin, super nakakapagod talaga. Kaso since mahal din sya and napagtatya-gaan pa naman namin ang maghabol, yun habol na lang kami. Pag super kulit binubuhat na lang namin. hehe.

Pero if your purpose is for your child's SAFETY wag mo pakinggan ang iba. Di naman sila ang mapapano kapag may nangyaring masama sa anak mo diba. 2yo is really makulit pa i think hanggang 4yo. hehe. Buti nga syo bag like yung harness, eh yung tali sa kamay super hate ko talaga. We can't please everybody sis pero atleast we know from ourselves kung ano ang purpose natin. Our child's safety is our first priority. ;)
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #98 on: August 10, 2012, 09:57:08 am »

Thanks mommy BlueAby! Tama ka. Pero i don't intend to use it anymore. Most of the time naman nakatago yung strap. So parang naka bear backpack si baby. cute lang tignan. Yun lang kasi pag maraming tao hinahawakan ko yung strap. Dun kami pinagtitinginan. hehe
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #99 on: September 06, 2012, 01:48:23 pm »

Hi sis. Natural lang sa mga kids na makulit and gusto lakad ng lakad kasi ngayon pa lang sila natututo. Phase lang din yan. Pag lumaki na ng konti, baliktad naman, mahihirapan ka na mapaglakad sila. Ako ayaw ko talaga yung baby harness kasi para mo na din kinulong si baby. Pag nasa mall kami or kahit pagnagttravel kami abroad, we use a carrier nung baby pa siya then stroller na ngayon. Then pag nagsawa na siya nakaupo, ready na ko tumakbo and humabol sa kaniya. Tinututukan ko na lang talaga. Nakakapagod sis pero part talaga yun ng development ni baby. Kailangan hayaan mo siya tumakbo takbo. Pag feeling mo madami ng tao, kargahin mo muna si baby hanggang makahanap ka ng spot na medyo maluwag.

Good luck sis
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #100 on: September 06, 2012, 01:58:36 pm »

Me naman, IMO ok lang harness.. Its very convenient for a preggy mom like me with a super kulit almost 3yr old boy.. He has a backpack with strap which we bought overseas. Its a backpack naman and i know my son enjoys using it. Even asking me wheres his monkey bag. (design of the bag)
I dont mind what others think pag nsa mall some find it cute some not, u could see naman sa reaction pero they wont be of help naman if terms of safety na nffeel ko when were out especially when were near escalator..

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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #101 on: September 06, 2012, 02:49:27 pm »

for me ok lang gumamit ng harness although i've never tried using one since hubby or yaya is always there naman to look after the baby...but in case kami lang ni baby, i really would not mind using it considering na boy ang anak ko at sobrang likot at bilis tumakbo  tapos ayaw pa magpahawak ;D wala akong pakialam sa opinion ng ibang makakakita, dedma na lang,  importante sa akin safety ng anak ko tutal di naman sila magiging kawawa at mamomroblema pag nawala ang baby ko
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #102 on: September 06, 2012, 03:57:57 pm »

for me ayaw ko talaga yung harness. mas gusto ko hawak yung kamay ng anak ko pag umaalis kami. this way we teach our children how to behave properly in public areas, and always be mindful/conscious of their surroundings. pag madaming tao kasi makakasagabal pa yung harness. and yung paghabol-habol is part of being a parent, isipin mo na lang form of exercise na din yun.

what we do (since pag lumalabas kami hindi kasama yung yaya ng anak ko dati) is walk hand-in -hand with our son. kung madaming tao like sa tiangge/ pag may sale nilalagay ng asawa ko sa shoulders niya ang anak namin para hindi na din siya mabunggo/matapakan. pero ngayon hindi na kasi hindi na siya kaya buhatin ng daddy niya. hehe pag kami lang lalabas ng anak ko dun kami sa hindi mataong lugar/mall.

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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #103 on: September 10, 2012, 04:15:19 pm »

i'm personally against these harnesses. i can't separate the harness idea from images of dog leashes. it causes people to stare at you and your child for all the wrong reasons. plus, i don't find it that safe. what if your child runs into the street? the harness could be long enough to let him or her get hit by a car. :(
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Re: Your personal opinion on using baby harness
« Reply #104 on: September 20, 2012, 04:29:30 am »

Before, tingin ko nga parang pet dog pag may harness. Pero after reading stories about sa mga baby na nawawala kapag nasa malls or groceries, natakot ako. Di ko kaya yun. And feeling ko, pag lumaki na baby ko, gagamitan ko sya ng ganun, kesa naman mawala pa sya..
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