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mariadj

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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #15 on: December 15, 2010, 06:13:41 am »

masunod nga yung mag ginawa ng ibang sis natin dito, gusto ko rin magkaron ng burning ritual para maalis ko na sa bahay and sa life ko yung mga material things and virtual things na will remind me of him
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #16 on: December 17, 2010, 11:10:52 am »

Okay, so these are the things that so far, I did:
1. I returned all remaining things that got muddled with my clothes (eg. yung luma nyang shirts, yung extra bimpo);

2. I segregated his and our old pics and placed it in a box, on top of my cabinet. Di ko pa naman sinusunog kasi baka magtanong si baby later on, at least, honest naman ako, para lang ituro (you got his color...you got some these features, but the more important things, like love and character, you got from me. yes!)

3. I have not texting/emailed/called him for 2 weeks (weeks pa lang ulit).

4. I have not viewed his or his gf's accounts in the internet, for the same period of time. I have blocked him and his entire family from my fb account.

Yun pa lang. Eventually, I know, hahaba na yang time na yan. Yung weeks, months na rin, tapos years na rin. Tapos, I'll lose track kasi, it doesn't really matter.
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #17 on: December 18, 2010, 02:31:35 am »

o far 1week ko pa lang di nabubuksan yung fb niya at fb ng wife niya... and because of that nawalan na rin ako reason mag fb kaya pati account ko hindi na ako updated.

havent texted him since dec.10- siya humingi pabor siya pa yung galit, pagod na ako
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #18 on: December 21, 2010, 06:58:32 am »

sama na rin ako.... may natitira pang gamit sya sa house ko.... family pix namin i'll burn it na lang, naalis ko na family niya sa account ko pero inapprove ko ulit kasi akala ko it would set me free to  face e them mali pala ako, lalo ata nadistract ako, hindi pala sa lahat ng bagay dapat mo sila makita.... nagsisisi tuloy ako kung bakit ko pa pinaalam yung bahay ko now alam na nila, kailangan ko nanaman magipon at umalis nanaman kami ng mga anak ko....

bitter pa rin ako akala ko hindi na....

mas mahirap mag move on pag nakikita ko mga anak ko naaawa ako at the same time my 2 boys remind me of him kasi kamukha nila....

pero ganun na lang tanggapin na lang.... pagod na pagod na ako sobra :'(
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #19 on: December 29, 2010, 08:59:12 am »

its nice to read all of your stories...somehow I reminisce what happen to me in the past...I was separated for 5 years now but back before nung bago pa lang kami naghiwalay..sobrang depressed ako nun.I quit my 4 years job coz I cant stop thinking about him( no proper eating,puffy eyes coz of crying everytime I think about him) esp most my officemate knew him.Grabe inabot ng 1 year nasa depression mode ko(I almost commit suicide) but I attend some counselling and go to church(it really helps).I realized I need to be strong for our baby(6yrs.old now).I need to move on and give my daughter a good foundation in life. We both need to survive though I'm stilll longing for a complete family..I know God has something or someone  who will value us.

I decided to work in callcenter to get busy and be stress so wont able to think about him and it works..I totally move on and move forward...

Now I'm working abroad and just here for vacation..I will do my best to give my baby a good life.

Goodluck to all of you!!!  We can do it....
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #20 on: December 29, 2010, 03:18:56 pm »

pano yan mga sis bumalik ka-live in ko??? kaso di ako mapanatag parin sa kanya.... may nakapagsabi sa akin paalisin ko na lang daw saka ko na tanggapin kung pakakasalan na ako at makapag-isip na magpakasal na kami....
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #21 on: January 03, 2011, 01:37:53 pm »

hello mga mommies,newbie po ako post na din po

nagstart ako actually dry run kung baga aug 2010

- di na check fb niya or mga kamag anakan or friends (na madaming post na negative remarks patungkol sa akin)
- nov. nagpalit na ako nang num and erased his 3 numbers! (no copy at all)
-i even blocked him in my fb account and other accounts i have
-he even sent me message before mag 3rd bday ang bebe namin nong dec 2010  but i erased it,ayoko magdrama na at mag paapekto sa mga emails niya,kung gusto nyang magsuporta he knows the  savings account of our child he can drop it there if he  WANTED to  :-X
 -no cares if he got a new wife/family
- pray and pray for him that no matter what, you want to forgive him though you dont know how to start to forgive...the true is our almighty god will do the HOW'S  ;D
-pray hard for your child's future
-new life these year!
-new chapter!
-new outlook of life!
-new positivity traits!
-new personality!

god bless po sa ating single mommies!
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #22 on: January 05, 2011, 12:46:13 am »

christmas nagtext si sd, greetings and he asked forgiveness which i dont really expect from him. he never say sorry kahit noon pa.. i replied, ayaw ko sana but my mom insist to invite sd sa house.. but sd did not reply

new year he texted me na kalalabas niya lang ospital. we just exchange greetings and thats all. .
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #23 on: January 05, 2011, 02:26:59 pm »

christmas nagtext si sd, greetings and he asked forgiveness which i dont really expect from him. he never say sorry kahit noon pa.

new year he texted me na kalalabas niya lang ospital. we just exchange greetings and thats all. .

congratulations sis! matatag ka. for the sorry, and the hospitalization part? ---- magaling ka! congrats ulit. nerves of steel ah..

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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #24 on: January 05, 2011, 06:54:44 pm »

1. deleted SD among my FB friends
2. SD texted that he deposited money on my account for baby, I did not reply but did not return the money either. nag avail ako ng diamong peel package sa Facial Care out of his pension haha
3. Returned his Chrristmas gifts for baby and me which he bought during out of country trip with GF(duh! iniinsulto mo ba kami SD?). Next day pinadala ulit sa house ang package..aba sinoli ko ulit. subukan lang niya ipadala ulit lilipad na yun lahat sa muka niya.
4. I did not reply to his Chirstmas and New Year text greetings and his "kumusta" texts (na twice lang niya naisip gawin in a month).
5. Sinusumpa ko hindi ko na siya kakausapin kahit text or call or email tutal pag tinext ko naman siya before about baby by mood lang kung magreply siya. Iwanan kung iwanan. Kanya-kanya kung kanya-kanya!

Congrats sa mga single mommies who keeps on moving forward! God bless us=)
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #25 on: January 18, 2011, 09:18:13 pm »

Hello mommies! Gusto ko lang kayo iupdate sa moving on process ko. I am still in the same company and team with SD and GF. I can proudly say I am so much better now and have been moving on. Masaya ako dahil andami ko new friends sa office at naeenjoy ko company nila. Never ako sama sa group pag andun si SD at GF because I do not want any interaction with them. I have never talked to SD since my last post here in SP and have not returned his calls and text. Kay GF, masasabi ko na wala ako naramramdaman na galit sa kanya. Kaya ko na makipagngitian sa kanya pag nakakasalubong ko siya at tila siya ngayon ang naiilang sa akin. Kay SD naman, may  galit ako hindi dahil sa nangyari saming dalawa kundi dahil sa pagpapabaya na ginawa niya sa precious kong anak. Pero pinapasaDiyos ko na lang lahat. No more wishing him any badluck.

Sobrang nag eenjoy ako dahil dati kay SD lang ikot mundo ko. Ngayon iba-ibang tao ang nakakasabay ko umuwi at kumain. Iba-ibang tao ang nakakakwentuhan ko. Si baby ay lumalaking bibong bibo at mabait. tanggal lahat pagod at hirap ko. Hay laking kawalan kay SD. tsk tsk. Isa pa mga SP moms I feel lucky baby because I have a good paying job. I have money/salary to support baby and me. Tumingin kayo sa kalsada madaming mag ina ang nasa lansangan at namamalimos. I am lucky na hindi kami ganun ni baby at may pambili kami pagkain kahit pa hindi magbigay si SD. I feel lucky because madami ang gusto magkaanak pero hindi mabiyayaan pero ako eto at may anak.

ANother thing, I am dating again. Although hindi ko pa balak makipagrelasyon. Date-date lang. Time really heals all wounds. I feel thankful because baby is barely a year old and I have moved on this far already. I am so blessed. God night SP moms. Sarap matulog sa tabi ni baby. Hmmmm... :D
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #26 on: January 19, 2011, 06:16:06 pm »

Mommies bumangon pa ko kagabi para mag add sa last post ko. unfortunately hindi ko din na add dahil nagloko internet. Gusto ko lang magthank you sa inyong lahat kasi napakalaking tulong ng site na ito sa pagbibigay sakin ng strength and guidance. Maraming maraming salamat sa mga payo niyo. Kung hindi ko nagpopost dito dati at hindi kayo nag advice malamang tigok na ko ngayon or taong grasa na sa kalsada=)

With special mention kay mommy funnyarte na talagang namang idol na idol ko sa mga post niya. Iniyakan ko (actually hinagulgulan ko) ang mga posts niya. SUper relate kasi. AT syempre kinapulutan ng maraming aral. God bless all of us. lalo na ang mga dakilang single moms. Kaya natin ito!

Words are not enough to thank you guys. Basta thank you.
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #27 on: January 19, 2011, 10:29:27 pm »

OT: talaga lang na special mention. :$My posts may have been moving, but your accomplishment now is amazing! As I said, i'm so inggit. Haay sana rin ako na soon! As you said, gawa lang ng gawa. Malay natin, last one week na lang, and I'm so over it and them na. Hehe.
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #28 on: January 21, 2011, 08:25:19 am »

false alarm pala!! ;D

balik ako dito hehe!!
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #29 on: January 21, 2011, 09:45:03 am »

@sis torn.. saludo ako sa yo sis...Go! Go! Go!
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