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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #30 on: February 03, 2011, 12:10:37 pm »

Hi mommies. Update-update. Katulad ni sis torn wala na din ako kapakipakialam kay SD at GF. Walang kuwentang mga tao kasi sila. hehe. Kahit mag text pa si SD hindi na ko reply. At wala na din ako plano makihalubilo kahit sa family niya. Nagsimba kami last sunday. Nadapa si baby sa tapat ni lola "hilaw". Tinayo nila si baby. Tinulak naman sila ni baby dahil hindi sila kilala. Naawa ako sa lola. Pero sorry na lang sila. Loko-loko kasi anak nila e. Mangasim na lang sila.hehe bad ko. I do not want any connection with SD and them. World is so much brighter and lighter magmula nung maglet go ako.=)

God bless all of us single moms. ;D
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #31 on: February 03, 2011, 01:19:32 pm »

Bilib ako sa inyo mga single moms. Sana makaya ko rin.  :) I'm on my 7th week already. When I told my bf about my condition, (Jan.22) he started blaming me kung paano nabuo baby namin. Sinadya ko daw mabuntis, he felt betrayed (blah,blah). Honestly, unexpected tong si baby since I thought I was safe the last time. Kaya ayun, til now dinededma niya text ko, di na siya tumatawag and he even resigned sa current work niya to get rid of me and our baby dahil gusto daw niya lumayo. Masakit, syempre. I thought mahal din ako ni bf at may pinagsamahan din naman kami ng almost 2 years pero kinakaya ko para sa magiging baby ko. Kung ayaw niya sa akin at sa baby ko-bahala na siya, basta i made a promise na mamahalin at aalagaan ko tong baby kahit wala siya.

Current plans ko to ditch him off my life:

- Change cp #, e-add, update fb security  setting, iblock ko siya sa lahat!
- Hindi na ako magbe2g na magtext siya sakin.
- Hindi ko na siya pipilitin kung ayaw niya sa amin ng baby. He's too coward at walang kwenta. he don't deserve all the love that i gave him. Dapat sa kanya, kinakalimutan.
- Magmove-on ng walang hatred. Masama sa buntis ang mag-isip ng mga nega.
- Mag-enjoy lang ng mag-enjoy. Actually, ang iniisip ko na nalang is how to tell my family about sa condition ko. For sure, they'll get disappointed pag nalaman nilang buntis ako at tinataguan ako ng dad nito. Basta, si God na ang bahala sa amin ng baby ko.

Goodluck sa atin.. :D  Godbless you all! :D
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #32 on: February 04, 2011, 11:08:14 am »

hirap naman nyan.....  :-\ di ko talaga magawa hindi siya e text o tawagan man lang
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #33 on: February 22, 2011, 06:27:53 pm »

Hello mga mommies..

Sobrang na-inspire naman ako sa mga posts dito..

Yan ang dilemma ko.. hindi ko alam pano mag move on..  I posted my story on one of the threads.. pero after reading this, siguro nga it's time na ayusin ko sarili ko.. punong puno pa ko ng takot ngayon.. kasi 2 na ang babies ko.. hindi ko alam pano ang magiging life namen pag natuloy ang paghihiwalay namen ng daddy nila.. another thing is may mga isip na sila.. hindi ko alam pano iexplain lahat..

wala pa man akong nagagawa.. eto ang plans ko..

1.  no more texting either to beg, to make lambing, or para mangunsensha
2.  no more talking and asking what went wrong and what can i do to make the relationship work
3.  focus on self, kids, and work

sana may courage akong gawin un lahat.. i need support...
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #34 on: February 23, 2011, 12:29:09 pm »

No communication at all. Hmm. it's been 8months na. Successful. :)
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #35 on: March 02, 2011, 01:52:55 pm »

sali ako! :)

after i broke off with SD, i never contacted him na. kahit na nung nanganak ako and all that. i never replied to his calls and text (nila ni mudrakels niya)

i wake up everyday feeling happy and not alone

i wake up everyday and able to tell myself I AM A STRONG WOMAN for my daughter

and i can say when i decided to leave him, the next day i've moved on na.

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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #36 on: March 02, 2011, 11:15:51 pm »

ako minsan naiisip ko pa rin siya, kasi minsan pumupuslit pa rin sa dreams ko eh, pero and wish ko talaga as in mawala na yung feelings ko at totally mawala na siya sa isip ko
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #37 on: March 03, 2011, 11:50:44 am »

hi sis mariadj, sis inde ata posibleng mawawala sya totally sa isip mo kasi di ba everytime na makikita mo si baby your baby is a reminder that you once loved that man. ang dapat mangyari is mawala na yung pain at hurt kahit na sumagi sya sa isip mo :)

kaya yan sis! aja! ;) have faith.
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #38 on: March 03, 2011, 12:34:33 pm »

pasali ako
naiiyak ako  :'(
grabe huhuhuhuhuhu
.......
gulong gulo ako today....
though im not a single mom kasi may new BF/partner na ako si SD ko kasi nageemail ng nag eemail ng patawarin ko na daw sya at magbabago na sya... etc2
nagugulo ako hindi ko alam ang gagawin ko napapaisip ako ayoko mawala ang curret partner ko...
pero sa ibang banda baka sisihin ako ng baby ko kasi ako ang nakipaghiwalay sa dadi niya kasi hindi ko na talaga nakayannan ang lahat....

baka sabihin ng baby ko paglaki niya bakit hindi ko binigyan ng chance ang dadi niya at ang isa pang kinakatakutan ko panu kung isang araw hanapin sya sakin ng baby ko anung sasabihin ko
huhuhuhuhuhuhu
di ko alam ang gulo gulo huhhuhuuhuu
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #39 on: March 03, 2011, 01:41:00 pm »

hi sis pinoytamil! halos magklaage pala ang baby natin.

as for your concern, if i were in your shoes maguguluhan din ako.

pero sis yung concern mo dapat is kung mahal mo pa ba si SD kasi kung inde na...wala na dapat prob. for me kasi inde fair sa baby mo na magstay kayo together para lang sa kanya. kelangan me love sa isat isa. ialng beses mo na ba nabigyan ng chance itong si SD mo? kasi kung marami rami na... i think you should think twice. although i believe that people change, naniniwala rin ako na inde lahat kayang magbago especially kung inde tama yung reasons nila why they want to change.

sis inde man masyadong concrete yung advise ko as to what you should or should not do, ito na lang. ipagdasal mo sis. ipagpray mo ke God na i-enlightne ka niya at bigyan ka ng wisdom to decide what you should do.

:) if you need makakausap sis you can pm me :) im willing to be a souding board :)
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #40 on: March 03, 2011, 05:02:30 pm »

I failed...
SD left the house with all his stuff last sat.. I had the courage to not txt him ng sunday and monday.. Pro d ko naresist yung urge ng tuesday at wednesday.. Ang ending.. Nagpalit na ata ng sim.. Hay.. Step 1 ba ulit?
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« Reply #41 on: March 08, 2011, 11:30:25 pm »

@ winnie_the_martian

thank you sis....

tsaka thanks din kay sis
                     
                         FUNNYYARTE

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« Reply #42 on: March 23, 2011, 11:33:27 am »

I am really touched and inspired with your stories girls ;)) Let me share mine. Actually I was just turning 18 when I got pregnant. My ex then was just 4th year high school. He was so irresponsible and he never gave the support I needed. We first hid it with our families. But when the semester is over, my step dad confronted me if I'm pregnant and I said yes. I told my ex about this and promised me to finally say it to his parents. My family and I waited but there was no progress so they took me to Bulacan to separate us. I continued my relationship with him secretly and he kept on saying promises and all of those were broken. A year passed and nothing still happened so I broke up with him. When I return to our province, I continued my relationship with him again but then I learned he had sex with 4 women so I broke up with him. That was the end of it. That was year 2009. And now it's March 2011, I am already graduating from college ;)) I raised my kid well with the support of my family and friends. Without him, and without the support of his family. They never gave a damn on us. But look at me now. Now I can face the world with pride and smile in my face. Though we never had a communication after our break up, I am happy now because of my achievements. I MADE IT!
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #43 on: March 23, 2011, 01:19:12 pm »

OT: congratulations natsumiika! ang ganda naman ng story mo.  :o
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Re: Challenge to Single Moms..Let's move on together...
« Reply #44 on: March 23, 2011, 02:48:32 pm »

3 mons na since SD broke up with me and:
 
-hindi ako nagtext nor nagcall sa kanya ever
-deleted him and his family from any of my contacts
-everytime nagtetext siya hindi ko pinapansin (yes i can still remember his number, kasi naman siguro mahirap makalimutan yung ilang years narin na palaging nagtetext sayo)
-even his sisters kapag nageemail (obvious naman na sila) close ended answers ko. eg. kumusta si baby? ok lang
-hindi ko na rin nakikita FB profile niya kasi nga i blocked him
 
I dunno with other single moms but siguro if you really have the will to move on kaya naman. Ako nga even with all these, until now masakit parin.  :(
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