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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #15 on: December 16, 2010, 10:34:37 am »

i think sis related nga yon sa post partum depression

tita ng kaibigan ko nabaliw eh.ang kwento nabinat daw ayun tahimik hindi masyado nagsasalita tapos pag dinuduyan yung baby nauuntog per wala syang reaction
after a year nagpakamatay.nagpakalunod sa dagat.scary :o sabi nila yun ang dahilan
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #16 on: December 16, 2010, 10:44:17 am »

hala??? talaga mami kassandradenise??? scary naman yun,what happen sa baby?? :-\ :-\

yun kea talaga dahilan oh dahil sa post partum deppression??? meo nakakaalarm yun ha?? dito kasi sa province ng husband ko ganun din may 3 na parang medyo crazy,yun daw dahilan...hmmm!!! :-\ :-\
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #17 on: December 16, 2010, 11:08:40 am »

ayun, maagang nawalan ng nanay..

pero ako nun sis 1week din bago naligo
ok lang naman sa akin yun kasi mahirap nga kumilos masakit ma-CS ;D
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #18 on: December 16, 2010, 01:14:31 pm »

NSD ako.. I gave birth on a saturday night, tinanggal dextrose ko ng monday so that same day naligo na ako.. I'd like to believe na matino parin pag-iisip ko. :)
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #19 on: December 16, 2010, 02:07:31 pm »

pag province kasi pamahiin nila yan...pero ako, normal delivery ko, naligo ako a day after ko nanganak..sinabihan naman ako ng OB na i can have shower na daw eh..di naligo ako mabilis lang para lang mawala yung feeling mo na mabaho at malansa ka..
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #20 on: December 16, 2010, 06:48:11 pm »

sakin hinde siguro totoo kase sa hospital ako naligo sa medical city di ba may hot water sa shower.. yun ang pinang paligo..  :) sabi naman kz ni Ob ko ok lang basta wag lang malamig.
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #21 on: December 16, 2010, 11:38:40 pm »

totoo ang binat, pero i dont think taking a bath would be a cause.

i'm a FTM and i've already posted a thread about how angry i was at everyone in my house for not letting me take a bath for a week. (yung iba 1 month pa.) here's why i WANT to take a bath:

1. "may sugat ka, NSD or CS, may sugat ka. Hygiene is important. "
- you know what happened nung di ako naligo? nangangamoy yung lochia ko. pagkadalaw sakin ng boyfriend ko, naaamoy niya yung ano ko. oh diba. funny? NO :( it's embarassing. also to have visitors and make beso while you are fishy and oily at the same time. think of that.

2. "being dirty can lead to many things"
- nangati ulo ko. actually nagkalisa pa nga ata ako after a few days ng di naligo dahil lahat na ng kung ano mang bagay kumapit na sa ulo ko. ayaw ako ikiss ng boyfriend ko. that's how disgusting it is alright! :(

3. "you are the ONLY person likely to be with your baby"
- would you want your child to recognize you with your un-bathed smell? :) -- yan ang sinabi sakin ng OB ko when she was debating with my mom about baths. yung babies natin very keen ang smell and they associate that with their moms. also, if you are dirty, you are contaminating your child. please, nanggaling ka sa delivery room/operating room. dont tell me you ar 100% sure that its clean :)

4. "your milk... it does spoil you know."
- especially to those who are breastfeeding. yung milk natin abundant sa 1-2 weeks ng baby and malamang tutulo sa katawan natin yan. it may smell fresh and clean pero when it lasts kahit 1 day on your body? NO it's not "gold" anymore. :D My dad could smell me from 6 feet away.

yan ang ilan lang sa incidents na nangyare sakin when i gave birth and i seriously would not want others to experience the same thing. here's how we go.
1. when you say "maliligo", make it quick. yung lamig kasi kalaban natin and yun yung nakakasinat.
2. do not use the tub pa. substances can still enter our vaj. or even your wounds kung cs kayo.
3. use unscented/mild soap on your private area. -- i tried the ph care cool wind the very first bath i took... oh my god, gumuhit sa sugat ko yung anghang! :) very funny experience and i will not do that ever again!
4. use warm water sa stitches, it feels better than trying the cold one.
5. change your pads every few hours. dont wait for it na umapaw! the stench, kakapit yan sa pubic area especially if you have hair.
6. when i delivered my child, they did not shave me. pero nung nafeel ko na magaling na sugat ko, i took the effort on shaving kasi yung smell ng lochia kumakapit sa pubic hair. sorry if its too much info but its true. :(

-yan palang naaalala ko mga sis. so please. :) pamahiins can be dangerous too!
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #22 on: December 17, 2010, 12:41:20 am »

sis, they say kasi na yung guava mas madali magpa-heal ng wounds. hindi naman po mahapdi with all the leaves, iba lang yung smell pero hindi naman yung "eew" type na smell... ;)

re smell nung lochia, i go with the suggestion of sis mixxotrophic, change your pad regularly. then punas talaga ng body sis, not really that you have to take a bath. you can also wash your privates naman eh, warm water nga lang talaga & i also use nga pala yung betadine feminine wash, para din sa mabilis na pag-heal ng wound (NSD kasi ako). also, if you are going to breastfeed, wipe mo muna ng cotton with water para sure malinis.

i would agree na post partum yung sinasabi nilang nagiging lokaret  ;) kasi nga if that goes untreated, hindi talaga maganda ang nagiging effect...
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #23 on: December 17, 2010, 01:25:30 am »

@mommy moi, yes. totoo yung guava na pinakuluan kasi nakakadry ng sugat yan. ang ginawa sakin pinakuluan tapos icocover, yung steam nun, umupo ako sa ibabaw nun para sa wound didirekta, medyo masakit nga lang. mahapdi. tapos pag medyo tolerable na yung heat, ipanghuhugas siya. and then yung leaves, ipapatpat sa wounds. :) super ok. hindi masakit. feeling mo nga lang albularyo ka.
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #24 on: December 17, 2010, 01:33:12 am »

^ ay oo nga pala... pinagawa rin sa akin yung umupo sa ibabaw, ilang beses pa! ::) in fairness, effective naman & for me, tolerable na yung pain. mantakin mo bang pagkatapos mong manganak! wala ng bobongga sa sakit!!!  ;D kaya nga even with my bunso, mega hanap ako ng guava leaves nun! ;) at least sis, na-experience na natin maging albularyo kahit minsan lang sa buhay natin! ;) see what being a mom can bring?! ;D
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #25 on: December 17, 2010, 01:39:17 am »

pinagtiyagaan ko mommy moi yung pagiging amoy lola dahil sa bayabas na yan. :)) pero oo effective talaga bilib ako. teen mom ako kaya syempre napaka "uncool" ng lahat ng paniniwala nila. pinagaaral nila ako ng nursing tapos yung mga natututunan ko kinokontra nila. :)
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #26 on: December 17, 2010, 01:43:50 am »

^ ;D the irony of things nga naman sis! but i guess, it's all worth it (kahit lahat na ng pamahiin!!! ;)) lalo na you are already with your baby & you see that he/she is doing well! :D
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #27 on: December 17, 2010, 11:38:14 am »

@mixxotrophic: yun nga po eh,kahit naman regular menstruation kahit ba magpalit ka ng pads medyo malansa padin amoy kaya talagang nagpoprotesta ak osa MIL ko hahaha  ;D ;D maarte pa naman si hubby ayaw na ayaw niya amoy pawis o mukha akong losyang hahaha.. ;D

another thing pa tama ka jan,lalo dito sa province nila Pampanga,dyos ko para kang iniihaw ng buhay from 9am til 5pm sa sobrang init ng araw kahit kagabi naligo ako kinabukasan napaka oily at lagkit na ng buhok ko (makapal pa naman buhok ko) tsaka itchy kasi magkaka dandruff..mahapdi pa naman pag ganun.. :-\ tapoz yung mga alikabok dumidikit sa buhok ko  :-[ :-[

nabasa ko din somewhere over sa net na ang baby's nga daw dahil di pa masyado nakakakita,ang pag smell ang ginagawa nila para ma knows ka nila,eh hello kung mabaho ka kawawa naman c baby,kakalabas lang sa world mabaho agad ang unang na recognized na amoy,icipin pa na ang baho ng mom niya hhaha.. :P :P

mga frends and relatives exited pa naman dumalaw tapoz mukha kang malagkit kahit mag pabango kapa it will just worsen your smell,pero good thing pwede naman daw mag sponge bath eh db?? at basain yung head?? sana lang pumayag mga tao dito  :'(
di rin ako makapg shave mami eh kasi di ko na makita at maabot,but ill do that after i gave bith para di mangamoy at mangati..

@moi angels:panu pong umupo sa ibabaw? di ko magets? anung procedure??? tsaka yep ph care ako na cool wind now pero ayoko itry mahapdi yun as tested by mixxotrophic eh hahaha..kaya bumili kami nung betadine wash
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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #28 on: December 17, 2010, 10:05:41 pm »

nun bagong panganak ako nun, un tita ko nagsabi sa akin na 1 week after pwede na maligo then maligo ng pinagpakuluan ng dahon ng bayabas.. ganun din sinabi ng MIL ko..

if i can remember, tinext pa nga si hubby ni MIL na mag pajama raw ako at mag medyas kasi baka mabinat..

un about na maloloka, kasi nag aasikaso ako ng para sa binyag ni baby, eh naambon, sabi wag raw ako paambon kasi maloloka raw ako, totoo raw un eh.. same thing rin nun new years day, kasi picture picture ako sa labas, sabi ng kapitbahay namin, mag sumbrero daw ako.. totoo raw un..

ginawa ko na lang para walang iisipin pang iba. siyempre punas punas ako saka hugas ng private part, pero maligamgam un tubig. hindi rin ako nagshampoo ng buhok nun for 1 week..

nun kinuwento ko naman sa tita ko na nakaligo na ako na may pinakuluan ng bayabas, mga 2 times ko ata ginawa, sabi niya, ok na raw un, dapat nga 1 beses lang..

normal delivery nga pala ako

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Re: is it true na pag naligo ka after mag give birth maloloka ka??
« Reply #29 on: December 17, 2010, 11:17:03 pm »

@moi angels:panu pong umupo sa ibabaw? di ko magets? anung procedure??? tsaka yep ph care ako na cool wind now pero ayoko itry mahapdi yun as tested by mixxotrophic eh hahaha..kaya bumili kami nung betadine wash

sis, diba pakukuluan yung guava leaves sa malaking kaldero, after nun, get the kaldero with the water then put it sa bathroom. yung sa akin, i had a plastic stool like this then nilagay sa ilalim nung stool yung kaldero. upo lang ako dun sa stool for 5mins para lang nagpa-steam. after, yun din ang ginamit kong pampaligo, i just added water para hindi bitin maligo. ;)
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