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Author Topic: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?  (Read 104153 times)

shalee

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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #15 on: October 06, 2008, 04:15:23 pm »

@shalee.. thanks sis.. last question.. practical lang ba na humingi ako like 50% ng salary niya, since hindi kami dadaan sa court it means kami lang magiisip ng amount ng support niya.. tama ba?

pwedeng pwede sis.... basta pumayag sya.... :) dont 4get na ipanotarized ha..... ;D
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« Reply #16 on: October 06, 2008, 04:17:41 pm »

thanks sis! ;)

katumbas pala ng financial support is custody din wah parang ayoko nun..

isa pang question sis shalee :) si baby kc asa surname ni SD, meron cyang support since birth until today since ok naman kami ni SD.. pero pag naghiwalay na kami at hindi na ako humingi ng financial support pag hindi ko ba pinakita si baby pwede ba niya kong idemanda?
« Last Edit: October 06, 2008, 04:20:45 pm by mommykris »
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shalee

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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #17 on: October 06, 2008, 04:35:57 pm »

katumbas pala ng financial support is custody din wah parang ayoko nun..


ganun talaga sis syempre if u have the right 2 ask 4 financial support si SD aman my right sa custody kay baby.... :( unfair nga naman un 4 SD

pag hindi ko ba pinakita si baby pwede ba niya kong idemanda?

nope... di ka niya pwede idemanda sis, BUT pwede niya itigil ang support kay baby :(
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« Reply #18 on: October 06, 2008, 04:59:30 pm »

thanks sa patience magreply sissies! at least ngaun me idea na ko! pwedeng pwede ko pala itago sa kanya si baby.. ok lang kahit walang financial support!  ::)
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« Reply #19 on: October 08, 2008, 02:49:02 pm »

mommy kris, ano balak mo?? sabay tyo?? hehe.. mukhang tyo mgkaramay ngyon kc ayoko n mpranoid sa mga celphone n halos makipagpatayan sa akin wag ko lang mkita..

gusto ko baga na ipakita si baby..game kb? wow, talagang nanghihingi ako ng go signal?? hehe.. mdyo mahina pa kc loob ko gumawa ng desisyon..

pro the thing is, sana one of these days, msampal ko manlang sya!!! hay, sana nga!!
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« Reply #20 on: October 08, 2008, 03:44:51 pm »

ahahaha sis natawa naman ako sayo :D sige go na tayo oh.. racing! kung cnong unang lumambot ang puso kay SD talo! :D  ;D  ;D
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« Reply #21 on: October 08, 2008, 04:02:25 pm »

sige game ako dyan! patigasan tyo ha.. hehe.. naku bka matalo ako.. pro hindi, dpt unahin ko game ntn!! hehe...
naku sis... u mean talagang off kina kay SD??
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #22 on: October 08, 2008, 04:48:45 pm »

katumbas pala ng financial support is custody din wah parang ayoko nun..


ganun talaga sis syempre if u have the right 2 ask 4 financial support si SD aman my right sa custody kay baby.... :( unfair nga naman un 4 SD

pag hindi ko ba pinakita si baby pwede ba niya kong idemanda?

nope... di ka niya pwede idemanda sis, BUT pwede niya itigil ang support kay baby :(

I dont think its custody talaga. kasi under the philippine law children under 7 years old under sa custody ng mother, maybe visitation rigths but not custody. And they can visit under your roof not on any other place, baka itakas niya yung anak ko no.
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #23 on: October 19, 2008, 03:48:06 pm »

ganun pala yun, based lang sa kung how much ang kayang ibigay ng SD.  Hay naku, wag na lang! baka kulang pa pambayad sa yaya yung maibibigay niya! hampas lupa yung SD ko e!  :)
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« Reply #24 on: October 21, 2008, 05:47:35 pm »

sakin naman bahala ng maghirap pa sya lalo basta bigay niya dapat kung ano yung dapat para sa anak ko
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #25 on: October 21, 2008, 06:35:41 pm »

I've been there na sis - Nasa mother parin ang full custody ng bata and pag 7 na ang bata, pwede sya mag decide kung gusto nyang makita o sumama sa father - which unlikely naman mangyari - unless na hate ka ng bata kasi naging abusive ka sa kanya...  ???

Anyway... What me and my lawyer did was computing all expenses from childbirth till present (that includes milk, vaccines, medicines, education, school, house rental etc...) tapos iba yung monthly support pa na 15,000 PHP (depende sa income kasi ng ama). Eh since nasa Mindanao sya at low ang standard of living, pinag bigyan namin basta dapat sagot niya ang highschool at college education ng bata (dapat may kasunduan at notarized yan).

There are cases na hati talaga - example pag di naman talag stable yung ama. pwede hati, depende parin sa diskarte ng lwyer nyo. Kaya important na malaman nyo anong source of income niya.

May asawa na kamo? Eh ano ngayon? Eh karapatan ng bata na pinag-uusapan. Pag ayaw niya mag sustento, ipakulong nyo nalang - file a case - abandonment naman and child abuse.  Ok din yun para mabulok sya sa kulungan  ;D

But seriously, kung kaya naman aregluhin, gawin nyo. wag nyo na ipaabot sa court. But please naman, do not deprive your child's right na ma-acknowledge ng ama... Pride na yan mga mommies. It may not affect you now... pero someday your kid will. Lalo krisis na ngayon. Di natin alam ano ang future. Mas mabuti na may naka handa...

Yun lang...
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« Reply #26 on: October 23, 2008, 04:02:28 pm »

sino lawyer mo sis?  :)
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #27 on: October 24, 2008, 12:45:40 pm »

alam nyo mga sis ako din matagal na nanahimik sa rights ng anak ko kasi di sya sinusustentohan ng daddy niya lahat ng hirap sa expenses even sa pagaaral akin,may asawa nako pero syempre malaki ang karapatan ng anak ko..lalo sa nabasa ko game nako kasuhan ang daddy ng anak ko
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #28 on: October 28, 2008, 10:40:19 am »

hi there mommies...actually i have the same situation of u all..and the thing is acknowledged pa ng asawa kong hilaw ang baby ko...and umabot kami ng almost 4 years in a relationship...before we get thru sa 4th year namin..we have this problem na umabot na sa...u know..hiwalayan...and we live in those years n parang mag boyfriend life...we're not living each other...and hangang sa ako ng ako ang mgbibigay sa anak ko and may point naman n hati kami in all...and minsan cia naman lahat...like that..pero totally out of ten, 1 lang dun ang nagawa niya...and even problems namin nadadamay na with his relationship niya with his son...i dont know ano sasabihin ko sa anak ko kapag hinahanap cia..and im planning to file a case against him...he's taking up a bar exam last two years ago...and trusted din naman ako kasi i know naman na alam niya ang rights n dapat sa amin at dapat n ibigay niya right...but di niya naagampanan yun...and thru that di cia mgiging abogado hanggat andito ako at wala cia ni singkong duling or any support na binibigay kahit sa bata na lang eh...as in totally wala...ayan nagagalit nnaman ako  >:( minsan nga naiiyak n lang ako kapag naiisip ko yun eh...give me some advises naman oh...
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« Reply #29 on: October 28, 2008, 02:01:21 pm »

ganun pala yun, based lang sa kung how much ang kayang ibigay ng SD.  Hay naku, wag na lang! baka kulang pa pambayad sa yaya yung maibibigay niya! hampas lupa yung SD ko e!  :)

haahhaa sisssie natawa ako sa post mo ahahah
HAMPAS LUPA!!!!

SIMULA NGAYON GUSTIO KO NG IPALIT ANG "SD" SA "HL" hehe

WINNER!
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