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inkee

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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #255 on: May 05, 2012, 10:02:23 pm »

Makikisali.. .

Magulo kasi situati0n ngay0n. Lost ako ngay0n. C0ntact ko un sd na balik nalang kami
Kanila after i left his place. But n0w he can let us go back
raw if i agree to sign a legal document stating that i will
give our kids custody to him para next time raw i leave the
house di ko na pwd dalhin mga bata? puwede ba un? Di
kami kasal ha.

Then next tan0ng ko, if i ask for support in a legal way how
much mag file? How much rin ang makukuha k0ng
support for 3kids if his salary is 30k. N0t sure. Might be
less than that. Un isa 1yr old, 2yr old and 7yr old. Actually he
is bragging pa about the 6k he sends. I plan kasi to rent nalang
for me and the kids since he wanted me to sign custody
paper. Kasi di naman niya na gusto to work things between
us. This is no joke. 3kids pa naman. Di naman nila
pinili dalhin at mamulat to this kind of situati0n
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #256 on: May 06, 2012, 10:05:02 am »

sis parang di ata pwede ang ganon, yung 7yo mong anak pwedeng mamili kung san siya magstay pero sis sana maayos niyo pa yan, you have 3kids eh, para sa mga anak niyo. Ako sis gusto ko magkaayos kami ni sd para sa baby ko kasi ayokong lumaki sa magulong pamilya ang anak ko pero parang ayaw na niya at plano na daw nila ng new girl niya magpakasal pero ayokong maggive up, alam ko na ako nagtrigger sa kanya para gawin yun kaya i want him back, i know naman na di niya love yung girl, gusto niya lang na masaktan ako kaya gagawa ako ng paraan para magkaayos kami kasi mahal ko pa din naman siya at pag nagkaayos na kami hinding  hindi ko na siya iiwan at mas iintindihin ko siya, mas lalawakan ko pag iisip ko. Mas masaya pag kasama mo yung taong mahal mo at kumpleto ang pamilya mo, parang gusto ko nga mag counseling para mas tumibay relasyon namin pero sana mapabalik ko pa siya samen ng anak ko.
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inkee

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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #257 on: May 06, 2012, 04:30:17 pm »

With my situati0n i kn0w gusto ni sd mabuo yun family
namin. Hindrance kasi un m0m at kapatid niya. I kn0w
it their idea about the legal document. Its a shame that sd
cant stand or decide para sa kanya.
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Custody of minor illegitimate children and financial support
« Reply #258 on: May 19, 2012, 09:55:24 am »

hi,

Can someone pls help me or advise me on what to do with my ex-partner?we have 2 kids(7 and 3 years of age) and nasa kanya yung mga bata because ayaw niya magbigay ng sustento. Hindi ko naman kc kaya gastusan at buhayin ng mnga-isa mga anak namin. pero gusto ko na makuha mga anak ko. Ano po ba pwede ko mai-file na case sa kanya, if meron?

thanks and hoping for your response...
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #259 on: November 04, 2012, 03:28:14 pm »

Mga mommies. Pahingi naman ang advice..

21 yrs old ako, my son is 2. Single mom din ako. Never married. Pumapasok pa ko since 2yrs ako nagstop nung nagkababy ako. Wala akong source of income pwera nalang yung konti kong kinikita sa pag didirect selling ko.

Nagfile ako ng child support sa ama ng anak ko. Sinuportahan naman niya since birth. Pero lagi kami nagaaway (hindi kami nag live-in). One time sinaktan pa niya ko nung tinangka nyang kunin ang baby ko nung 3mos palang. Pinipilit ko makisama sa kanya talaga for the sake na mabigyan ng ayos na suporta ang anak ko. Pero ngayong May sya mismo nakipaghiwalay. Ayaw na daw niya., Kame na daw bahala sa gastos lahat sa bata. Ayaw na niya magbigay kasi hindi naman daw niya nakakasama yung bata.

Ngayong October nagfile na ko. Ang gusto ko kahit 5k a month, medical representative sya. Pang gatas at diaper lang. And once a week lang niya pwede makita bata, hnd pwede overnight. PWede ba yun? Ayaw naman niya kasi dapat daw hati kami sa lahat. O pwede bang hindi na ko hihingi sakanya tapos hindi na niya pwede makita ang anak ko?
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #260 on: November 04, 2012, 09:15:58 pm »

hmmnn.. I'm not a lawyer pero palage ko napapanood sa tv yung ke attorney Mel sa Tv 5 ,nasa family code daw na lahat ng bata 7 years pababa eh dapat nasa custody talaga ng ina, and sa supporta naman obligasyon ng ama ng bata na suportahan ang anak niya once na in'acknowledge niya na anak niya yung bata, ke kasal o hindi ang magulang. well, I guess you should as for a legal help regarding this matter singlemon & single_mama06.
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #261 on: November 29, 2012, 08:53:07 am »

INKEE: try to have terms about support. Since we are UNMARRIED, custody and primary parental authority is OURS regardless of age. Yung may less than 7yo condition is for married parents. Visitation lang ang mga sd, by law. Yung custody waiver, do not do that. He cannot compel you to do that. If you can be civil, try to do it, not only for support but for the emotional well-being of your kids. Hope you at least gets reasonable support.
« Last Edit: November 29, 2012, 08:59:36 am by sweet&spice »
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #262 on: November 29, 2012, 08:56:35 am »

SINGLE MAMA: support for the child is from BOTH parents. It need not be equal depending on who earns more and depending on needs of the child. List your baby's expenses and demand for support. If he was violent to you at any time, file a case for vawc and just include support.
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #263 on: January 19, 2013, 10:59:24 am »

Hi  :) My daughter's 5 years old and no support from her father since pregnancy, we're not married din. Nung one year old yung baby namin he sent tumataginting na 1k at bigla syang naglaho. Ngayon not married pa din sya, may isang anak and no permanent job, yung babae ang bumubuhay sa kanila.

The thing is, I'm trying to be friends with him, para sa anak namin, kasi marunong ng magtanong yung bata at naaawa ako. Never pa sila nagkitang mag-ama. He didn't grab the chance that I'm giving him, sya pa mataas ang pride. Now I'm thinking na magfile ng abandonment para maleksyon sya at matuto syang panindigan yung bata.

Anyone here who knows the process?

I'd appreciate your help. Thanks!

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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #264 on: February 07, 2013, 03:36:17 pm »

si SD naman po eh, hindi nagbigay ng pera, isang kahon na gatas at isang plastic ng diaper .. eh sumasahod naman siya ng 5k per payday kasi nung nagsasama pa kami, binibigay niya sa akin yung 3k tapos sa kanya yung 2k .. ngayon yna hiwalay na kami, ang binigay niya sa anak namin, ni hindi nga umabot ng 1k yung binili niya .. nung nag follow up ako kung bakit ito lang, sinabi niya sa akin na "anong ginagawa ng sahod mo" , nagta trabaho din po kc ako .. pwede pa ba ako mag demand sa kanya?  :-[
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #265 on: February 25, 2013, 10:12:43 am »

Ask ko lang, if pwede ba ako humingi ng financial support kay baby daddy kahit sa akin nakapangalan ang baby ko? sabi niya kasi, di siya magbibigay dahil hindi naman sa kanya nakapangalan ang bata. thank you.
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Re: Rights of an illegitimate child and his/her mother?
« Reply #266 on: February 08, 2018, 01:39:29 pm »

Ano nang nangyari sa case ni Avi Siwa?
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