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Author Topic: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?  (Read 26144 times)

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kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« on: February 05, 2011, 02:24:34 am »

mga mommies! Have u heard na po ba na kapag nagkaanak daw ng girl it means nagloko c mister? Or yung sinasabi nila pambayad utang daw sa mga ginawa ni mister? Narinig nyo na po ba ito?any opinion po? TIA
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2011, 02:29:26 am »

Yup, I heard this already. Pero siguro nagkataon lang din siguro yung mga ganito..
Ayaw kong maniwala na nagloko Tatay ko eh, super bait kasi niya sa amin.. Hehe  :)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2011, 11:13:03 am »

ako hmmm di ko alam kung maniniwala kasi ako panganay sabi mama ko nagloko daw before papa ko, yung friend ko naman girl baby nila kasi bago sila ikasal ng bf niya nalaman pa niya na may ibang gf yung bf niya. At yung sa tita ng hubby ko sabi naman nun kung ano daw ginawa ng tatay sa nanay na pananakit mangyayari din sa anak na girl ayun nangyari na nga.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #3 on: February 05, 2011, 01:07:07 pm »

Hindi naman. 3 kaming babae pero never naman nagloko ang papa ko. Nagkaroon ng ibang babae or anything like that.

And my FIL. I never knew him dahil patay na sya nung naging kami ni hubby. Pero notorious daw sa pagka babaero kwento ng MIL ko. As in hindi lang isa kundi madami sa duration ng marriage nila. Kahit nung malalaki na sila hubby.  I have 3 SIL. 2 of them are married and I could say matitinong lalake naman mga napangasawa nila.

Though in my experience, I believe in the karma of that. My bro have a child outside his marriage. And then years after nabuntis ang ate ko (my sister)at iniwan ng lalake. My bro took good care of her. Took responsibility. The oldies in my clan believed that was "bayad-utang" on what he did. T'was so sad to contemplate. Someone has to pay sa kasalanan ng iba. But that's how Life works. What goes around comes around, wether you have done good or bad. Pananagutan at pananagutan mo rin sa huli in a way na hindi mo inaasahan.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #4 on: February 05, 2011, 07:58:59 pm »

parang hindi rin naman sis ako panganay din naman pero never did i heard na nanloko si papa... share ko lang din mga comment nila kay hubby ko the time na im pregnant since he prefer to have a baby girl ang sabi ng mga nakakarinig nito siguro daw mabait si hubby kasi hindi sya takot sa karma dahil sa malakas ang loob nyang baby girl ang hingin kay Lord madalas daw kasi junior ang gusto nila... pero pag nag bibiruan kami ni hubby sinasabi ko din yan sa kanya na kakatayin ko sya once na nag loko at yung anak namin ang balikan  ;D
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #5 on: February 05, 2011, 11:24:59 pm »

wahhh! :)) hahaha. ako babae ako and totoong niloko ng dad ko mom ko. and now nagkaanak akong girl, nagaway lang kami ni BF dahil nahuli ko siya may kalandiang babae tapos boom buntis na ako. ngayon ko lang narinig to napaisip tuloy ako. sapul e.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2011, 09:26:57 am »

^lol. natawa naman ako s reaction mo mixx, nagisip ka tuloy bigla, haha..

ang alam ko, pag gurl daw anak "pambayad utang", not necessarily nagloko yung hubby.. kase pag sinabing 'nagloko hubby', ibig sbhin while married na diba?
explanation sakin ng mga nakatatanda (lol) pambayad utang sa pinaiyak or mga pinaiyak na babae nung dad even before pa siya ikasal..
gurl ako, and alam ko mabait naman daddy ko at never naman talaga nagloko or niloko mom ko, pwo alam ko before they even got married, may mga issues na sinolve muna nila (like other gurls na knclaim na sila pa ng dad ko, etc..but that's their story, need not expound, lol).. pwo habang lumalaki ako nakuuu super uber sa pagkaprotective nila saken, feeling ko kase nga they also believe dun sa saying na pambayad utang pagbabe.. 
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2011, 10:42:11 pm »

bka pag puro girl ng anak taz mdyo mdmi na at wala pang boy,,,siguro un yung pambayad utang
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2011, 11:09:42 pm »

i have 2 girls, and yes, i've heard of this so many times.  hindi naman kagwapohan si hubby but he is attractive to girls because of his wit.  pambayad utang daw dahil maraming pina-iyak na girls before. 
 
well, my say on this, i don't care whatever his past is.  all i care about is how to raise my girls to become better citizens, to be God-fearing persons, and to enjoy what life brings them.  whatever is their dad's past, they can just learn from it. 
 
what is important is now and the future.  we, as mothers, have an important role to fulfill in our daughter's lives.  they are not born to compensate any mistakes that has been done.  they are gifts to be cherished.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #9 on: February 08, 2011, 12:57:42 pm »

bukambibig lang ng mga matatanda yun. Siguro kasi sa totoong buhay babae  talaga ang laging talo pagdating sa pambabae ng lalake..

Yun yung sinasabi nilang "mabuti sa lalake walang mawawala, eh sa babae?"

Kung girl ang anak mo iniisip nila na baka maranasan ng anak na babae yung bad na ginawa ni daddy niya..

Sa akin, hindi naman siguro..babae anak ko at yung asawa ko naman hindi ngloko..Yung tatay ko alam ko ngloko :D at 5girls kami pero awa naman ng Diyos wala namang nangyayaring masama sa amin at hindi naman kami naaagrabyado..
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #10 on: February 09, 2011, 12:30:44 am »

so bale, lahat tayong nagpopost dito ay... nagloko ang ama natin! (sabay mama! si papa o, kasi nabasa ko sa sp. hahaha )
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #11 on: February 09, 2011, 10:29:14 am »

Eldest po ako, sumunod sa kin puro lalaki na. In my case my dad was really a good man and a father. He did played around but that lately when cellphone and texts we're so in. Siguro pantanggal lang ng boredom pero pag nanghihingi na ng load yung ka text niya ayaw na niya.. hehe ;D

Kidding aside I think this is just old wives tale. Depende pa rin sa husband/bf/lalaki kung magloloko pa rin sya. Kunsenya na rin nila yun, nag asawa sila tapos pag nag kaanak ng babae yung walang muwang na baby girl pantutubus daw nila... aba teka!!! >:( that's not fair.

Just got carried away  8) ???
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #12 on: February 10, 2011, 10:17:42 am »

hindi ko alam yung tungkol sa sabi-sabing ito until my husband told me.. sabi niya pa sa akin nung nalaman namin na lalaki si baby, "mabait kasi ako kaya lalaki baby natin." ako naman e napakamot ulo nalang sabay ganun-pala-yun look..

realizing, parang oo nga.. kasi ako panganay and my dad was a notorius babaero.. kaya sila naghiwalay ng mom ko is because he had a mistress.. when i met up with my dad in his hometown, i learned may anak pala sha sa mistress niya --- 4 girls din..

siguro nga totoo.. ewan..  :o
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2011, 10:23:55 am »

I dont think this is true though kung totoo nga ibigsabihin "mabait" ang hubby ko since we have 2 boys..  ;)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #14 on: February 10, 2011, 11:01:31 am »

This is false and purely pamhiin lang.

I have a baby girl and no issues (of 3rd party)  with my hubby ever since.

So lucky to have him :)
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