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Author Topic: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?  (Read 26142 times)

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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #15 on: February 10, 2011, 11:07:41 am »

boom!!!! bakit puro c mister lang mga sis?? mister ko matino baby namin boy....pero hindi lang daw na dahil sa nagloko c mister, pwede rin na si misis ang nagloko nung time na wala pang asawa at anak....ayon sa "kasabihan" na marami naman naniniwala dahil madami ring patunay kahit pano....hindi lang si mister ang dahilan kung bakit baby girl ang panganay mo... minsan kahit matino si mister at c misis ang hindi may possibility parin na girl ang panganay....kaya hindi mo pwede isisi lahat sa lalake dahil may may babae rin na nagloloko...kung ano man ang mangyari na sinasabing PAMBAYAD UTANG. Depende daw sa mag-asawa kung sino ang nagloloko kung c misis o c mister same as ang panganay girl, minsan nakokontra ni misis kung maloko c mister or vice versa kaya boy or girl....much more PRAY TO GOD para hindi maranasan ng mga baby natin ang sakit na naranasan ng iba dahil sa panloloko....
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #16 on: February 10, 2011, 11:13:56 am »

may iba pa pala ang hiling is BABY GIRL at sa tindi ng dasal na bibigay kaya wala sa nagloko c mister o c misis noon....pero mostly kung isa sa mag-asawa ang manloloko ng panahon na binata o dalaga pa sila mostly ang stismis sa tabi-tabi..." PUSTAHAN TAU BABAE PANGANAY NYAN PAMBAYAD UTANG"
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #17 on: February 10, 2011, 11:15:21 am »

kasabihan nga na pag girl daw ang unang anak, pambayad utang.  which means either may niloko or na-agrabyado si hubby before.  ;)

kaya nung nalaman namin na baby boy ang first baby namin, sabi ni hubby... ayan, mabait ako ha!  ;D
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #18 on: February 23, 2011, 09:36:02 am »

its not true :)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #19 on: March 01, 2011, 10:29:23 pm »

hahaha! Sana mabasa tong thread na to ng mga hubbies na girl ang 1st born. Buti na alng boy ang baby namin! Hahhahaahah.  :D

But im sure it's not true, all babies are blessing fr God, kung ano ginawa ng father nila (or mother),labas na sila dun. I believe in karma though.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #20 on: March 02, 2011, 12:56:01 am »

though marami ang naniniwala sa kasabihan na yun, parang hindi naman totoo.. kase nasa genes ng magasawa yun diba.. wala sa kung sino ang nagloko or hinde.. eh pano kung puro lalake anak myo, ibig sabihin ba nun agad hindi nagloko si hubby/wifey? kasabihan lang yun.. nasa tao lang kung paniniwalaan nila yan at kung iaapply nila sa totoong buhay nila yan.. opinion ko lang po to..
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #21 on: March 02, 2011, 09:27:26 am »

para namang timang yung mga nagsasabi ng ganito!
kakasura!!!
kung naging babae man ang mga baby natin well Dios ang nagbigay satin nyan at wala ng ibang reasons other dan dat (well opinion ko to)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #22 on: March 02, 2011, 09:30:01 am »

hahaha! nabanggit ko to kay hubby, ang sagot ba naman saken eh, "oh? siguro nga." batukan ko nga!  >:( hahaha! pero seriously, not true. hubby's really faithful eh.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #23 on: March 03, 2011, 08:29:02 pm »

walang basehan ang ganyang paniniwala. malabo :P ::)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #24 on: April 27, 2011, 12:36:52 pm »

in my own experience.hindi naman totoo yun. eh bakit si hubby daming naagrabyado before kami kinasal pero 3 boys kids hehe ;)
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #25 on: April 27, 2011, 01:20:31 pm »

not true, kasi si sd, puro lalaki sila....but i know super palikero ang dad niya. even left them for another girl/s.



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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #26 on: April 27, 2011, 08:08:52 pm »

panakot ko yan s hubby ko. hehe lagi ko sinasabi sakanya na girls yung kids niya so be faithful kung ayaw mu makarma haha..siguro effective naman haha..o baka faithful naman talaga hubby ko hehe not yet sure eh bago palang kami hehe..saka 3 girls na nga kami magdadagdag pa.haha
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #27 on: April 28, 2011, 01:19:16 pm »

we women should not repeat this kind of talk since this is discriminatory and demeaning to us.

sometimes we just don't realize it so, we toss around comments like these and our daughters (and sons) hear us, thinking it's ok.

look at this pamahiin for instance. "pambayad utang", even in jest, is nothing to celebrate. and we brand our daughters this?

"effect" of pagloloko ni hubby is us giving birth to our daughters?

there are a lot of talk, pamahiin, jokes discriminating against girls and women and yet, we women repeat these stuff. we should be more aware.

my comment may be too serious here but please consider the effect on the self-respect of our daughters. 

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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #28 on: April 28, 2011, 02:13:28 pm »

Hello! Marami na rin ako narinig na mga ganitong coment regarding to na kapag ang anak ninyo ni hubby is girl yun daw ang pambayad utang. For me, I never agree into this kasi sobrang offensive ata yun sa part ng isang bata at sa part natin na mga mommies bilang isang babae.

Maybe there is an implication na kaya sinasabing pambayad utang ang mga anak na babae eh dahi mga mali nating ginawa sa ating kapwa at dahil na rin sa bad karma na ang pwede umani eh yung mga anak natin. 

So whenever na meron nagsasabi sa amin noon na meron na pambayad utang kami kasi meron kami anak na babae I feel so disappointed kasi feeling ko ganun ka kitid ang utak noong tao na yun.
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Re: kapag nagkaanak ng girl dahil nagloko si hubby?
« Reply #29 on: April 29, 2011, 12:13:53 pm »

@magilas: nakaka-demean nga, and we treat as a joke. as a loving father kasi, sometimes, the only thing that could make them mend their ways (for being unfaithful) is the fear of karma repeating on their daughters. daughters for most fathers, have a way of melting their hearts, and the natural instinct of protection is inspired out of them.

the pambayad utang concept may have been a product of traditions before of an arranged marriage, or in the concept of "dowry" for some culture. sadly, there are some poor places in the country, na out of desperation, do really "pay" out of their debts, thru their daughters.

maswerte naman ang mga daughters natin (kung magkakaroon), dahil being females ourselves, we would want to give them the freedom to choose their own partners. ang fear lang natin, is that hopefully, they meet and fall in love with the one who loves them dearly, and who they love in return.
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