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Re: I should stop Breastfeeding and stop my pills..
« Reply #30 on: June 12, 2010, 01:07:29 am »

hi sis yshaleigh alam mo same dilemma tayo before kasi ako ayaw ko din mag stop ng BF before kaso nga lang alam ko hindi na enough yung milk ko kasi nga konti nalang talaga and hindi na sya nabubusog so turo sa akin ng tita ko stop na raw kasi hindi na rin naman enough yung nutrients na nakukuha niya so at first mahirap talaga naiiyak pa nga ako kapag hindi ko sya na BF pero na realize ko din na its for the better naman kasi humina talaga mag milk baby ko as in 2 bottles nalang sya everyday kasi nga nag depend sya sa milk ko pampatulog niya kasi yun so nag stop na ako first sa gabi sya BF then mga ilang days pakonti konti nalang minsan madaling araw nalang thankful na rin ako kasi hindi ganun kahirap sya napahinto after 5 days siguro totally bottle feeding na sya ..... advice lang if talagang hindi mo kaya isipin mo nalang na its for the better nalang din hindi lang sayo pati sa baby mo kasi sya ang kawawa kapag nagkasakit ka diba? ..... hindi naman mawawala ang love ng baby mo sayo kahit hindi na sya
BF eh hope it helps ...... ;D
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when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #31 on: July 15, 2010, 03:31:30 pm »

i am giving my baby formula milk(Promil) and breastfeeding him as well, mixed feeding is what others call it. when i worked, my in-laws suggest that i must stop breastfeeding my son (who is 1yr old that time). I also wanted to stop it, but the problem is, hinahanap hanap talaga niya un.. as in he's into "suicidal" (walang tigil na iyak at pagwawala) pag hindi siya makadede saken.

sabi ng in-laws ko, makakasama na daw yung gatas ko, kasi daw almost a year na, plus the fact na pagod sa work and byahe and all that. we tried na lagyan na katas ng luya (nung first) yung breast ko for him to stop, pero wala din, dinedma lang niya yung lasa ng luya. on 2nd try, bawang naman, at first, umiiyak siya, (maanghang kasi yung bawang,diba? :o) and though nakakaawa, hindi ko talaga pinadede saken for that moment, pero few minutes later, ayun, dedma na din yung garlic!! ;D sabe nila, sili naman daw, which is i will never do because super kawawa naman yung bata.  :'(

the problem is, how can i make my baby stop from breastfeeding since, my in-laws said it would harm him(is it true???).

anyway, he's 1yr and 7 months old now.

thanks.  :)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #32 on: July 15, 2010, 04:05:07 pm »

hi mommy! Ganyan din son ko. Try ko  dati to stop him pero super iyak.kahit oras pa abutin,hindi sya titigil. Mine is sole breastfeeding. di ako naniniwala dun sa bad yung breastmilk beyond one year.kht sa mga formula, we can read on the box that bfeeding is the best for babies 2yrs and beyond. Sabi ng ob ko, bumababa quality ng milk kaya dapat mag vitamins and proper/balnce diet tayong mga breastfeeding moms.
by the way, my son is 2 yrs and 8mos already mommy.c",). Nasa daycare na sya and sya nagta top sa class nila na halos 4 and 5 yrs old na. plus hindi sya sakitin (sa awa ni Papa Jesus.).
Kusa din yan titigil. Sa case ko, 3x nalang sya nag mimilk tapos di na ganun katagal. Parang paantok lang. nung nag 2 siya, binibigyan ko sya anchor or sustagen. Ok naman pero hanap p din niya b.milk.c",).
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #33 on: July 15, 2010, 04:36:56 pm »

hello mommies! :) para sakin,  wait ko nalang na ayaw na magdede ng baby ko sakin. kung maaari nga 2 years and beyond daw. i don't think na makakasama yung milk natin, kahit na pagod sa work or byahe, basta pahinga muna before padede. im exclusively breastfeeding, 1yr and 1 month palang c baby ngaun. i pump before and after going to work. mas gusto ko nga sana na atleast 2 yrs siya bago bigyan ng formula, much better un diba? tipid hehe... read ka ng mga articles online, mommy, kasi xempre, iba pa yung panahon ng inlaws mo noon... :D
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #34 on: July 15, 2010, 05:06:17 pm »

ako naman po nung nasanay na si baby na dumede sa bote eh medyo nahinto na pagdede niya saken minsan na lang sya dumede saken pag gusto niya lang pero minsan kinakagat niya na or nilalaro hehe ;D ,.

ako i don't agree din dun sa sili pero ganun ginawa sa ibang pamangkin ko ./ pero di ko kaya yun atsaka kusa naman umaayaw mga bata sa dede ng nanay nila eh so tama si sis alench ,. just wait na umayaw ng kusa si baby  ;)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #35 on: July 15, 2010, 05:10:14 pm »

sis hindi yun harmful kay baby..sana nga at least 2years BF diba. Sabi lang ng matatanda un.Ako kahit pagod ako ngpapadede ako kay baby(wash muna syempre) kasi sabi ni pedia way din un pra marelax tau mwawala pagod naten.d din totoo yung sinasabi ng matatanda na napapanis ang gatas kasi hindi napadede maghapon.
Mahirap talaga awatin mga babies sa dede(hay future problem ko din yan). Wait na lang talaga na umayaw sila kasi kawawa naman kung may mga sili,garlic at luya things :)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #36 on: July 15, 2010, 05:38:08 pm »

thanks =)

siguro nga i just need to wait hanggang sa sya na mismo umayaw, pero for sure it would take so much time hehe =)

pinaglilibangan din kc niya yung dede ko, pampatulog, minsan talagang nilalaro lang ng daliri niya hangang sa makatulog siya, minsan parang "nagchacharge" lang siya sa dede, after nun, laro ulit. =)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #37 on: July 15, 2010, 05:43:53 pm »

ako nga sis nagiisip din na magstop na kaso dami nagsasabi na wag daw.hanggat meron gatas mgpadede.siguro ganun na nga lang gagawin ko din.9mos palang si baby.long way to go pa :)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #38 on: July 15, 2010, 06:03:54 pm »

thanks =)

siguro nga i just need to wait hanggang sa sya na mismo umayaw, pero for sure it would take so much time hehe =)

pinaglilibangan din kc niya yung dede ko, pampatulog, minsan talagang nilalaro lang ng daliri niya hangang sa makatulog siya, minsan parang "nagchacharge" lang siya sa dede, after nun, laro ulit. =)

yes just wait na lang po ,. hehe ganyan din baby ko nilalaro na lang minsan or minsa naglalambing dedede saken tapos maya ayaw niya yung dede naman sa bote gusto

sis  roch: naku tama yan hanggat sagana ka pa sa milk eh magpadede ka mahal gatas ngayon kaya mas ok yan
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #39 on: July 15, 2010, 06:13:05 pm »

yeah, there are times na parang ginagawa lang nyang appetizer yung dede ko, after a while he would point his finger sa side table ng bed, (dun kasi namin lagi nilalagay yung bote niya) then says, "dede". after nun, balik ulit saken.

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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #40 on: July 15, 2010, 06:27:33 pm »

hehe ,. ganun ata talaga pag nasanay na din sila ,. pero ako i'm happy pag nadede si baby saken lalo na nung maliit pa sya kasi yun yung bonding moments ng moms and babies eh ^^ ,. yun ang connection ;)
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #41 on: July 15, 2010, 10:29:07 pm »

ganyan din feeling ko mommy caramel. yung bonding namin ng anak ko pag nag bibreastfeed, iba talaga.un yung inaantay ko na moment lalo nung baby p sya.kasi kami lang un.c",)...
Di ko rin kaya na maglagay ng kung ano ano para mag stop bfeeding anak ko. I'll wait and wait nalang.pero may usapan kami na when he's 3, he'll stop.agree naman sya and i'll just need to "pat-pat" his pwet (hehe) daw when he wants to sleep.
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #42 on: July 15, 2010, 10:49:30 pm »

sis, baby ko pure breastfeeding. 6 months na sya ngayon. balak ko hanggang pag 2 years old niya, kasi diba sabi nila breastfeeding is best for babies up to 2 years. napakalaking tipid on the other hand.. advice din kasi ng pedia ;)

tama mga sis, super bonding moments with baby ang breastfeeding. we even play habang dumedede saken si baby.

pag pagod naman ako, i rest muna for awhile then drink ng water bago ko bigyan si baby ng milk!
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #43 on: July 15, 2010, 10:54:52 pm »

ganyan din feeling ko mommy caramel. yung bonding namin ng anak ko pag nag bibreastfeed, iba talaga.un yung inaantay ko na moment lalo nung baby p sya.kasi kami lang un.c",)...
Di ko rin kaya na maglagay ng kung ano ano para mag stop bfeeding anak ko. I'll wait and wait nalang.pero may usapan kami na when he's 3, he'll stop.agree naman sya and i'll just need to "pat-pat" his pwet (hehe) daw when he wants to sleep.


yes korek sis ,. naku baby ko bukod sa ginagawang pacifier dede ko eh gusto pa may kamot or pat-pat din ng pwet ,. mabisyo ,. pero masaya talaga pag nagbebreastfeed kasi quality time kay baby talaga ,. ^^
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Re: when is the right time to stop breastfeeding?
« Reply #44 on: July 16, 2010, 06:10:06 am »

ay mga mommies.. problema ko din ito... gustong gustong gusto ko na itigil breastfeed eh para makainom na ako nung slimming coffee at diet pills hahaha! Pero kahit anong try ko-- hindi ko magawa na hindi offer breast ko. Nakaka awa naman kasi baby ko... ayoko naman pahiran ng sili para lang tumigil sha. She will stop naman at her own time.

Saka tama kayo - Yun lang yung bonding natin mommies. Ako I feel like I am sharing this special bonding moment with her. Yung tipong ako lang makakapagbigay sa kanya ng security na yun.

This is such a selfless act of love on my part talaga. I will choose my baby over anything else pa din.
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