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Author Topic: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???  (Read 103787 times)

Jaslene Caridee

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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2011, 10:32:33 am »

hi mommy! im actually in the legal profession.

you can sue your husband for concubinage pero there are elements na dapat present like binahay na si mistress and they are cohabiting as husband and wife. pag concubinage ang kaso may penalty na rin for the mistress :)

there are pending bills now proposing to amend the laws on concubinage and adultery (for the wife) kasi medyo double standard yong nasa penal code natin.  sa proposal it will now be called marital infidelity :)
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2011, 03:26:04 pm »

Hay naku gusto ko rin yung magkaroon ng law na ganyan!  Para naman magtino ang mga nagiging liberated na babae sa panahon ngayon... Tipong pwede ka namang maging liberated eh as long as hindi sa taong may mga asawa...  Pati na rin sa mga kalalakihang hindi marunong gumamit sa pagkalalaki nila :)  Sana, instead of pushing for divorce law dito sa Pilipinas eh yung ganyang tipo ng law ang gawin ng mga politicians... Law that would protect the basic unit of our society and government. 

Mag-post tayo sa mga twitter and FB accounts ng mga politicians :)
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2011, 05:05:30 pm »

Bago humaba ang istorya....you need to have a dialogue with your husband.  You have to consider your children's welfare....malaking iskadalo ito at maaring maka apekto sa mga bata.

Lagi mga bata ang una mong isipin.  Marami kasing kaso na wala rin nangyayari sa mga asawang may kabit.  Basta tuloy ang sustento ni hubby at sa iyo umuuwi okay lang.  Try to solve the problem muna...... tutal sex lang (siguro lang still don't know your story) naman ang habol niya sa kabila, pag hindi umayos si hubby then go to the next step...........magdemanda ka na...legal separation pero may sustento pa rin mga bata.  This is just an idea/comment.
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #18 on: August 09, 2011, 08:14:35 am »

ay gusto ko din toh gawin before eh, kasuhan yang mga mistress na yan... mga wlang puso..
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #19 on: August 09, 2011, 10:03:58 pm »

kung may ipapasa na batas as per mommy jazz's post.. i'll pursue law school ..why oh why di nila naiisip yan..
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #20 on: August 11, 2011, 08:07:36 pm »

Mga mommies, atin atin lang ito ha... share ko lang sa inyo...

May co-employee kasi ako na limang beses nagkarelasyon sa may asawa at nagconfide sakin.  Tinanong ko sya bakit lagi may sabit, bakit di na lang sya sa binata pumatol tutal single naman sya at may looks naman. Hindi rin niya maexplain kung bakit mas attracted sya sa may asawa.  Sabi ko tuloy, wag na niya antayin na maanakan pa sya at kaladkarin ng asawa nun lalaki or worst, mademanda.  Well to cut the long story short, I asked her na magpaconsult sya sa psychologist or counselor/ spiritual adviser which she eventually did.  Mga sis, have you ever heard the word "TransGeneration?"....kung meron daw sa ancestors mo na "prosti" and died without asking forgiveness sa sins niya, pwede matransfer yun sa susunod na generation.  Ewan ko if its all psychological or baka rin naman spiritually in need sya...but anyhow, I am happy for her coz as of this moment, she gave up her relationship with the married man and...... is now planning to enter the convent. (whew! thank God! ) Wish ko lang wag naman ang mga nananahimik na mga pari at semenarista ang mabiktima hehe  ;D  ;D
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #21 on: December 05, 2011, 09:53:12 pm »

what if the girl doesn't know that the man is married and nagkaron sila ng anak? makakasuhan parin ba yung girl??
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #22 on: April 24, 2012, 06:58:02 am »

@ akoposianna, yes, makakasuhan pa din sya...

I've just read an article yesterday re: infidelity.. i'll share lang  :) kaso di pa to approve... (and i doubt kung maaapprove ;D

Sexual Infidelity bill pushed
Posted by Admin on April 23rd, 2012



A House of Representatives committee has approved a bill that will impose punishment to those married people who will be proven to have sexual intercourse with someone not his/her spouse.
The House Bill 5734 filed by by Deputy Speaker Ma. Isabelle Climaco; Susan Yap (LP, Tarlac); Josephine Veronique Lacson Noel (LP, Malabon-Navotas); Teddy Brawner Baguilat (LP, Ifugao); and Linabelle Ruth Villarica (LP, Bulacan).
This bill eliminates gender bias on such crime and aims in protecting the sanctity of marriage. The bill defines sexual infidelity as an act committed by any legally married person who shall have sexual intercourse with another person other than his or her legal spouse.
Offenders are punishable by prision correccional, a maximum jail term of six years.
However, the crime cannot be prosecuted by anybody except upon the complaint of the offended spouse
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #23 on: April 24, 2012, 08:55:01 pm »

dapat kasuhan sila hehe kasi para magtanda sila

alam naman nilang mali pero go go go pa din sila hay naku...

sis akoposiANNA, oo magkakaron ka pa din ng kaso pag ganun kahit di mo alam...kasi di naman reason sa court un di mo alam di ba...

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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #24 on: April 25, 2012, 08:02:34 am »

what if the girl doesn't know that the man is married

I read this at the SP homepage
Sexual infidelity is defined as the act of having sexual intercourse with someone other than an individual’s legal spouse.

I think what it means is yung married person ang dapat kasuhan, hindi yung girl na naniwalang binata siya.

More here:

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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #25 on: April 29, 2012, 07:17:31 am »

@ sis akoposianna, sorry ha. Di ko masyado naintindihan sinabi ni hubby dati... Di pala puwede kasuhan yung girl kasi di naman niya alam na may asawa yung partner niya... "lack of knowledge eliminates criminal intent"  ;)
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #26 on: April 29, 2012, 04:24:09 pm »

ah oo nga binasa ko ulit un adultery/concubinage/bigamy link ng Philippine E-Legal Forum

ganito pala un:

Concubinage is committed by any husband who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or, shall have sexual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall cohabit with her in any other place (Article 334 of the Revised Penal Code or RPC).

ang difference ng adultery at concubinage: Adultery is committed by a wife (who must also be charged together with the other man), while concubinage is committed by a husband (who must be charged together with the concubine).

so akoposianna, pag ibinahay lets say ang isang girl ng lalaking may asawa at nalaman ni legal wife, makakasuhan si Mister at damay un girl dun sa kaso...

ang tanong na lang siguro dito sis akoposianna is kun nun nalaman ng girl na may asawa ay tinuloy niya pa din un relasyon...kun before, akala ng girl ay single si guy at he got her pregnant, eh siguro wala ngang kaso...pero if nalaman na ng girl na may asawa ang lalaki pero di pa din siya humiwalay ay ayun na talaga!!!
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #27 on: July 09, 2013, 01:01:56 pm »

mga sis, pasado na ba itong bill na ito?? pwede na ba kasuhan ang mistress for just simply having an affair with the married guy?? as in yung naging sila lang as bf/gf??
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #28 on: March 26, 2014, 09:27:06 pm »

Meet nyo muna requirements before you can sue your husband for concubiange:

Art. 334. Concubinage. Any husband who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or shall have sexual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall cohabit with her in any other place, shall be punished by prision correccional in its minimum and medium periods.

You can also sue the paramour for concubinage, not adultery.
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Re: pwede bang kasuhan ang kabit/mistress???
« Reply #29 on: April 04, 2014, 09:30:41 pm »

@ amieh I think the law right now says concubinage lang pero if the ''mistress'' will claim she didn't know walang pwede ikaso sa kanya. Aside from the fact that to make it legal is that there is eveidence presetned that they're cohabiting not just meeting up to have sex in motels.

Besides I don't think the punishment by prison/ correctional on its minimum and medium periods is not equivalent to the anguish given to the party in grievance. Not to mention the kids in the process wil be hurt most of all..
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