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mommyl_lorna_gee

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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #15 on: May 20, 2011, 08:32:06 am »



when i broke d news to my husband, he cried.... ders d denial dat his son is nt dat  ..nang kausap ako ng parents q at in-laws i showed dem na ok lang ako pero ng kami n lang ni hubby ang naguusap tlagang i cried and cried... sbi q i hve dis mother instinct na hindi naman tlaga ganun ang anak ko...stil in d end, i realized n higit s lhat ako ang dapat mgpakita ng tatag at lakas...my hubby wanted to hve a 2nd opinion sbi q ok lang wala nmang masama bka UST daw... even yung "quack doc" pinapatulan namin.. b4 kc ay pinapahanap niya (quack doc) kami ng "susi n sinauna" ggamitin daw niya un pra ky utoy, kc me naging pasyente cia n 2lad ng ky utoy at naging ok on d spot... after pagtatanong s mga mtatanda at kung san-san antique shops nakakita rn kami... maybe 1 of dis days bumalik kami dun at dala n ang susi but stil on sat ddiretso p rn kami s therapy...

we're trying everything for d best of my son. buti n nga lang at iisa p lang c Aerrol... sbi kc ni doc never na ipa-feel sa bata na 'ganun' cia kc once na mfeel my tendency n maging bayolente... treat d child as a normal un ang sinasabi ko sa ibang relatives dn..nilalakasan tlaga namin ang loob kht na nga ba wala kming sapat na pera, kasehodang mangutang kami at i-cut off ang ibang bagay... ganun tlaga...

time management dn kc ngwowork kami pareho ng hubby ko, kailangan eh... buti n lang at less hassle ang work ko, im a private tutor...tapos kelangan dn iorient ng ayos ang mapag-iiwanan sa bata at check dem frm time to time.... hayyy, ang hirap ngaun p lang bina-budget q n ang lahat... kc hindi naman puwede iasa lahat ang gastusin ng anak namin sa ibang tao. as a parent, unang-una na kami ang dapat magprovide nun... gudluck to me and gudluck to my family sa inyo dn po jan na tulad namin ay nagsstruggle... til next time... GOD Bless us :)
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #16 on: May 23, 2011, 04:01:08 pm »

Para masagot po lahat ng questions mo at para mawala lahat ng iniisip mo i suggest to better go to a professional to get the answers you want to hear. Its better na professionals ang sasagot sa lahat ng tanong mo at sila na rin magpapaliwanag kung ano ang dapat. For children's development its better to ask a developmental pedia. You can ask your pedia if they can refer a good devped. with them you can get the answers you've been wanting pati best treatment may it be clinical or domestic treatment. mahirap po kasi ipagsawalang bahala ang health ng bata. Remember that early intervention is really effective.
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #17 on: May 24, 2011, 09:29:03 am »


first day s therapy ni aerrol - s 1st day, evaluation and interview about d baby lang pla - wala p gnawa clang mga tasks, interview pra malaman daw nila kung anong level at structure ang dapat para s bata... 1 thou ang naging bayad namin.. d therapist asked all about d baby - nung pinagbubuntis ko cia, d medications and vitamins i took pati kung alcoholic at smoker ang hubby; ano ang environment n gnagalawan ni baby, sino mga kasi s bhay, sino ang nag-aatend s personal needs niya....

d interview also took about how sensitive ang baby ko... she asked all d related things to d senses of my baby, den, she said dat my baby is almost normal s lhat ng bagay n ginagawa niya... not mainstream... kc pag autistic child mxado mataas ang sensitivity s maraming bgay... thanx God...

for d 2 days im observing my baby, mabilis na ciang nakkasunod sa mga words ngaun, bwat araw my bagong word kami naririnig s kanya... but his focus is still d same...

we tried d 'quack doc' 2 days ago after dat un nga mxado mabilis na ang pick-up niya s mga words...ewan ko ba kung me effect yung ginawa ng 'quack doc' sa kanya or nagkataon lang.... kac s therapy niya wala pa or  hindi pa naman kami nkakapagstart ... at kung delayed man cia maaaring ngaun yung time na nagsstart na ciang mgprocess ng lahat.... is it true to all cases na pag delayed b talaga ang bata subject for special condition or therapy na agad-agad?

Thankx po for reading... Gudluck and Godbless sa atin mga mommies...

~I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me..~ :) :
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #18 on: May 29, 2011, 07:55:59 pm »

@mommyl_lorna_gee

I don't think it's true for all cases. Sometimes kids are delayed for many different reasons, which is why professionals are needed to evaluate the situation, do tests and evaluations and so on.

Yung gusto naman kasi is that whatever is done to help our children is the right thing, and sometimes you try different ways to find out what works.

It's hard to second-guess in your case, because you've already gotten several opinions so the best thing I think is to listen to what they're saying and decide.
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #19 on: August 05, 2011, 03:22:47 pm »

hi mga mommies...

it is almost 3months ang son ko sa knyang Occupational Therapy... ask kung merong progress? meron naman kaya lang very slow... until now hindi pa rin nakakasunod ng full instructions yung anak ko... but when you ask him like 'Aerrol, what color is this? ; What shape is this? ; What animal is this? ; What word is this?' nasasagot naman niya... pero yung Get the... and Give me... instructions hindi pa rin niya ma-follow... Sbi ng mga therapists niya and kami rin n parents niya, very high ang cognitive skills niya.. he can recognize and recite numbers up to 60, colors, animals, shapes, alphabets and even you spell out a word to him nababasa or narerecite na niya... im glad na sinasabi nila na ganoon ang anak ko, na may potential maging genius and everything...kaya sabi ko pag me session sila siguro ang mas tutukan n lang eh yung behavior niya, kung papano yung waiting skills and simple instructions eh masusunod ng anak ko...

nakapasok kami ng EBD program, dito s batangas ang local government namin ay nagpo-provide ng tulong para sa mga pamilya na can't afford ang therapy sa mga centers o hospitals.. nkaprogram un either 3 months or 6months depende sa case ng bata... 1 month ay nka-allot sa bata ang 10000 pesos kaya tlagang malaking tulong smen ang EBD kc kung kami lang hindi namin kakayaning bayaran ang 4 sessions every wik.. sbagay kung sariling-bulsa ang gagamitin 1 or 2 times na lang per week...so ngaun, if ever mkakatapos ang anak ko ng OT at makakadiretso na cia ng Speech therapy tlagang pinaghahandaan n namin ang magiging gastos... well puwede pa rin nmang i-renew yung EBD kaya lang matatagalan pa rin un kasi kelangan bigyan dn ng chance yung ibang patients naman..

nung i-observe ko sa center yung way ng pagtuturo sa mga bata at kung paano sila ihandle, i can say na kung fulltime and really dedicated for the case ng anak ang magulang kahit hindi na ipasok sa center, well, talo nga lang pagdating sa mga instructional materials pero parang hindi rin naman kasi ako nga ang ginagawa ko nag-iimprovise na lang ako ng puwede nmeng gamitin pag tinuturuan ko ang anak ko kasi yung ginagamit nila sa center na mga toys eh expensive...

hanggang sa muli mga mommies... be strong at laging manalig sa Panginoon...
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #20 on: August 05, 2011, 04:10:23 pm »

Hi Mommy. I haven't been here for a long time. I read the thread. I'm glad that there are lots of improvements with your son already. That's great that he can identify a lot already. My daughter is 4.5 already and she's starting to identify pa lang. Be strong. We know naman that no matter what, we'll love our kids just the same. Just to maximize his potential, tyaga lang with the therapies...and gastos na parang wlang katapusan.  :) Tutok lang din. Out of all the therapies that I tried,mommy therapy has been the best. We can do a lot for our kids that no other therapists can. Tyaga lang talaga.

Anyway, I have a blog. It's about our family's journey with Autism. Hope you'll have time to read it. We also started when my daughter was only 1.9. You'll see there everything that we went through and more. It's like a roller coaster ride. Check it out at www.autism-angel.blogspot.com

Happy reading. Good luck to all of us.
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mommyl_lorna_gee

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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #21 on: September 06, 2011, 08:46:54 am »

:)

good day mommies!

i read a lot of threads and articles saying about  CFGF diet for ASD cases but when i asked our therapists and doc it seems that they are not really restricted to what really the kind of food a child should eat or not... tinanong ko sila tungkol dito sa mga milk and dairy products at ang sabi nila eh hindi naman daw bawal... 'siguro' ay iwasan n lang daw tlaga yung milk n mxadong sweet. tingnan daw yung glucose content kung higher if so do not give dat to d child... other foods na sinabing bawal eh iyong naturally alam nating mga mommies na hindi pa tlaga puwede sa isang bata like sweet foods, soda.... ay, may sinabi rin pala sila na bawal daw ang hotdog, at foods na may mga preservatives... pero yung sa milk and dairy products they are not sure about it samantalang sandamakmak na yung nagsasabi na it can really help daw  tlaga sa case ng bata...

ang pasalamat ko n lang tlaga after i gave up my baby in his breastfeeding (2 years and 5 mos.) hindi tlaga niya nagustuhan ang kahit anong milk. sobrang dami ng milk kaming nabili but in the end mga pamangkin ko na lang ang nakinabang... i tried to give him also yung soya milk hindi rin niya nagustuhan.... so ngaun dahil  hindi namen tlaga kaya yung Foods in prior sa CFGF, ang ginagawa ko n lang ky aerrol ay more on kanin tlaga, meat, fish, egg, fruits (supertakaw) and veggies... s snack time niya tasty bread lang widout spread buti yung Gardenia bread meron lasa compare to others, minsan eh Skyflakes cracker, at fruits pa rin... ok lang ba yung YAKULT s kanya? jan lang tlaga umiikot ang kain niya sa loob ng 1 araw.  ang sweet foods naman niya ay pili yung mga gusto niya na ginagawan tlaga namen ng paraan na hindi maipakain s kanya like chocolate at icecream... salbahe kasi minsan mga relatives dahil un pa ang gustong-gusto ipakita s kanya pag nagkikita-kita kami... ganoondin s softdrinks.. kaya hindi tlaga maiwasan na s isang linggo 1 or 2 days nakakatikim siya ng mga ganyang foods...

aerrol is in his 4 months therapy minsan participative cia s knyang mga therapists minsan parang bored na...

till next time mommies... GOD BLESS US!  ;)


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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #22 on: September 06, 2011, 03:41:51 pm »

ano-ano ang therapies niya mommy?
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #23 on: September 08, 2011, 07:56:12 am »


@mommy riddermark  ;)

hi mommy! occupational therapy p rn c utoy. after dis sept 4 months na cia, i-evaluate ulit ni Doc if my improvement. If yes, he will proceed na speech therapy pag hindi pa full OT pa rin cia... meron daw nmang case na both OT and ST... s OT niya ang inaaral nila ngaun eh more on obstacle courses, ADL (snapping, buttoning and zipping; donning and doffing of shirt, short, socks; brushing of teeth), verbal commands... mataas ang cognitive skills ni utoy accdg to his therapists kaya they apply those to higher levels mga obstacles nga... .

im thankful kc iba p rin yung level ni aerrol, its not extreme.. his not 'bayolente'... maxadong mabait ang anak ko at napakahilig mag-aral... time will come na everything will be alright and normal to him... thanks GOD! kumusta ka po mommy? musta ang kid mo? we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us...

till next time po... :)

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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #24 on: September 12, 2011, 01:35:34 pm »

this coming wednesday may assessment ulit kami. i hope me good news akong marinig from his doctor. he has improved but could not identify yet. i mean there are those that he's familiar na but wouldnt identify outright. selective. so i dont think papasa yun sa doctor but i am hoping she'll give better assessment. at sana by this time malaman namin kung ano talaga. ASD lang kasi ang sinabi niya e.

keeping my fingers crossed.
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #25 on: January 11, 2012, 07:31:06 am »

hi mommies. im Teacher Li, a speech therapist in Pasig. as I was reading ur posts, I cant help but feel more motivated to work and teach my kids. God bless us all! :)
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« Reply #26 on: January 19, 2012, 03:00:33 pm »

if ever theres a crash course on OT or ABA or SPED or SP i'd do it!  doctor wants to see my second son also. im playing tough at the moment but im afraid i might break down later.
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #27 on: April 03, 2012, 08:58:44 am »

hi mga mommies... long time, no talk here hehe  :D been busy for my work... im starting to teach na ulit sa school dis time public naman... andaming adjustments...
how's ur family po? ur kids?

i am 3 months pregnant now... all i am looking forward is positive! dapat naman po d ba? lagi ko nireremind c aerrol na sooner magkakaroon n cia ng kapatid... he always kiss my  tummy!  :D Tart and I are both excited for what would be Aerrol when his bro/sis come out!

last February ang naging last session ni Aerrol sa therapy center niya. Almost 1year na  kami sa therapy session niya... last Feb din lang ginawa ang 2nd evaluation niya na supposedly ay nung 4th month niya... we are so disappointed with d results of his evaluation! sa sinabi ng doctor malinaw na halos wala cia inimprove! samantalang compare nung unang dating namen s kanya to evaluate i can say na 'kulang na kulang' talaga c aerrol s mga skills and speech... but now.... aerrol can read and spell any word, he can recognize lots of things, he can point and name what he wants(kahit na nga one - three words lang) but he can answers some questions completely in  sentences. when we command him like put on your shirt, short, brief.. get ur bag, ur cap.. give and get this/that, nakakasunod naman cia... his teacher, wala n nga halos maituro s kanya sa OT. nkakatravel na cia mag-isa and do wewee sa CR. hindi n cia nagda-diaper sa  bhay.. etc. tapos sasabihin ng doctor na ang inimprove lang ay point (.) something... how come dis doctor can measure the point something progress of d child like before in d area of language was 9 months old but in his 2nd eval was 10.2 months old!?! ni hindi nga nag-lasts ng 1 hour ang evaluation niya... and she directly said dat c condition of my son is really similar to Kris Aquino's son samantalang physically and how Josh talks kitang-ktia ng me abnormality ang layo sobra naman nun sa anak ko! We said also dat we are trying to enroll Aerrol in a regular day care school. We are goin to see for 1st to 2nd month if he can really goes along with d other children, if not den a spcl school will be pursued. but d doctor said 'no, no, bakit naman ninyo naisip na papasukin ang bata dun eh alam naman ninyo na kailangan talaga ng bata ng special education..." at dis point alam namen na hindi kami nakuha ni doctora sa ibig namin for Aerrol, and dat she's persuading something.  First evaluation ni Aerrol was communictn disorder, and to be considered ASD but nitong huling in all caps sa evaluation niya ay ASD... ASD with so many things na kaya nang gawin at sabihin ang anak ko ay talagang concluded na niya na ASD! The management of the center was poor! So many patients, so many programs na hindi na naiintindihan...uso rn ang pulitika, we are waiting for so many months para makapag-speech  na si Aerrol pero andaming mas binibigyan ng priority... sayang lang ang 10, 000  pesos in a month given to dem!

.Aerrol is time out muna sa therapy niya... . Start n lang ulit namen dis mid-April. Dis time sa ibang therapy center naman and doctor... sana dito makita namen ang tama para sa anak namen, at sana dis wil be the '2nd home' for him.

till next time moms. God bless us!  :)
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #28 on: April 17, 2012, 10:00:20 pm »

Mommies, anong rate ng Speech Therapy ng babies niyo? Para magka idea ako :)
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Re: Need ba talaga ng Therapy?
« Reply #29 on: April 23, 2012, 07:48:00 pm »

mine is 700/hr for speech and OT. both 2x a week.
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