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hi mommies,

ask ko lang ano mapifeel nyo if walang plans si hubby on your bday? tama lang ba na magalit and magtampo ako sa kanya? four days na kaming magkagalit dahil dun.. :(

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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2011, 09:01:07 pm »

hi sis sakin if nangyari yan then nandito hubby ko.. im sure na ma uupset ako... it doest matter kung kami lang dalawa yung magkasama or kasama namin baby namin tatlo lang kami as long na alam ko na pinahalagahan niya yung bday ko meaning mahal niya parin ako...

pero if wala.. malamang mag tampo din ako..
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #2 on: March 31, 2011, 09:18:09 pm »

sis, if sa akin ginawa yun, naku! malamang hindi lang tampo, world-war III yun! ;D ako kasi yung tipo ng tao na small things, ok na ako so like sis εїз" Mrs.Pisces "εїз, it doesn't matter if kami lang 2 or with the kids, basta pinaghandaan man lang niya, yung tipong may ibang putahe man lang for lunch or yung greetings by 12:00am or magfifile sya ng leave on my birthday just to be able to spend the whole day with me... ;)
what happened pala sis? if you don't mind me asking... :)
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #3 on: March 31, 2011, 09:20:32 pm »

hi mommy ms. pisces, andito nga siya pero wala talagang plan..kaya i'm so disappointed that day. naupset talaga ko kase pag special occasions, lagi xang ganun parang ordinary day lang sa kanya sa lahat..though may binili xang ipod touch for me, and yun  na daw yung gift niya sakin..sakin naman ok lang, pero ako nagrequest nun sa kanya na buy that ipod for me. wala man special something on the day of my bday. nagleave pako from work, and nagleave din siya pero wala talaga e..sa sobrang inis ko talagang inaway ko siya nung gabi.dahil i felt taken for granted. haay, sana mag effort man lang siya kahit konti para mafeel ko i'm special to him.
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #4 on: March 31, 2011, 09:25:45 pm »

yun  nga sis, nagleave nga pero wala e..nagpapaalam pa nga na magcomputer with his friends e..kaya upset talaga ako.. and nalala ko before kase nagkwento siya sakin na pag anniv or bday ng ex niya, naghahanda siya angd nagpapainom sa mga friends niya, and nag buy pa siya ng super big na stuff toy para sa ex niya, samantalang sakin, never nyang ginawa yun..unless kung magrequest ako ng something, dun lang siya kikilos at bibilin..minsan nga sapilitan pa e..kaya sobrang nangigigil ako sa glit nung bday ko..dahil di ko man lang nafeel na special ako..for 3 years ganun siya, never nagplan sa mga special occasions, e napuno na ko kaya inaway ko na siya talaga..
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #5 on: March 31, 2011, 09:27:41 pm »

Depende. Siguro mas magagalit ako kung nakalimutan. Pero yung wala siyang plan, i-assess ko muna where he's cming from. Nagtititpid ba siya? May money ba siya? Is he like that kahit noon pa...
I don't want to be selfish kasi.
Kung may na=fe=feel akong coldness even before my birthday, ay tska ako magwawala.
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #6 on: March 31, 2011, 09:44:33 pm »

Nainis ako at first. Then then on my following Bday ganun nanaman, and the next, and the next, hanggang sa normal na sa akin. That's because his family isn't to gimmicky about that. Pag may bday sa kanila, wala lang. He came from a good family and there's nothing more I can ask for. Hindi lang siya sentimental sa mga bagay like birthdays. Pag yung mga kids ang may bday dapat may celebration kahit konti, unless (like recently) exam day and mommy's busy too kaya simple dinner out nalang.
He allows me naman if I want to go out and celebrate by myself or with my friends. Pero kasi ako, I enjoy going out alone so gimmick ako magisa. Spa, shopping eat at restos serving food I like which my Hubby doesn't. Ayun, happy ang birthday ko. If there's someone we can leave the kids with, I'd ask him out.
I don't need for him to make plans kasi pag bday ko, I want to go to places I like and do want I want. Eh pag magkasama kami, it's his call on where to go which sometimes isn't what I have exactly on mind.

Masasama ko ba siya sa kikay spa? Can I make him eat Thai and Indian foods? Can I make him watch girl movies? It's my birthday so gimme money nalang so I'll be happy. :)
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #7 on: March 31, 2011, 09:51:29 pm »

hi mommyjazz, actually nagplan ako ng magattend ng mass in the morning then eat at resto, kaya lang walang nasunod. kaya ako disappointed. For three years that we are together, he haven't plan for anything..before ok lang sa kin..di ko na pinapansin kase masisir alang araw ko..kaya lang this year, first bday ko that he is already my husband and my baby na kami, first time to celebrate sana may bday with them, kaya lanag wala talaga..kilala pa naman niya ko na very sentimental for those kinds of occasions. maxado lang siguro akong tampuhin kaya ako ganito.. :(
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #8 on: April 01, 2011, 12:45:21 am »

nag sorry na ba sya sayo sis?
hindi kaya natatakot na syang gawin yung mga ginawa niya sa ex niya? hmmmm...

dapat sis kausapin mo si hubby mo..

yung last na bday ko feb.26 hindi rin kami umalis ni hubby nag work pa nga ako eh..

alam ko kasing wala syang money..

then yung umuwi ako

nag aappreciate ko yung inabutan niya ko ng gift actually dvd lang naman yun pero one of my dream kasi yun hehe bawbaw noh.. pero supper appreciate ko kasi kahit wala syang pera naghanda pa sya para sa amin tatlo ng anak ko.. so super happy na din ako then hindi niya ko inutusang mag wash up or mag asikaso sa baby ko kasi bday ko nga daw..

so okay na yun sakin..

pero sis for almost 5years na nagsasama kami ngayung last bday ko lang sya nag bigay ng gift sakin at naghanda atleast for me..

siguro nagsawa na kakatampo ko last valentines kasi wala manlang syang binigay sakin yun naiyak ako nun.. sinabi ko sa kanya na ang panget niya hehe wala man lang syang kalambing lambing..

then kinabukasan nun feb.15 inaya niya ko mag inum sa terrace pag uwi ko may set up na pala syang gumamela sa terrace with matching langgam na itim pa.. hehe..

kaya sis siguro mas okay po na kausapin mo.. pero hindi pagalit.. yung palambing na tampo...

mas ramdam yata ng mga guys yun pag ganun kaysa sa magagalit ka mas naiinis sila...

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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #9 on: April 01, 2011, 12:16:04 pm »

For me, mas magtatampo ako kung di man lang ako i-gre-greet ni hubby on my birthday. Ok lang sa akin if ever wala sya plans na maghanda or to go out on my birthday (although di pa naman 'to nangyayari).  Di ako nag-e-expect. Kung may plan sya, thank you. Kung wala naman, ok lang din. Mas mahalaga sa akin 'yung birthday greeting and birthday kiss and hug ni hubby. hehe.
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #10 on: April 01, 2011, 02:16:32 pm »

ako sis magtatampo ako kung hindi man lang ako nagreet pero yung asahan syang magplano for something special malabo yun kasi guys are not like us hindi sila mahilig sa mga plano plano na ganyan. better yet ayain mo sya to do malling or have some special dinner to celebrate some occasion. Ganun kasi ginagawa ko sa hubby ko eh.  :o

Nung mg BF/GF pa lang kame ni hubby ni hindi kame ng celebrate ng 1st year anniversary namen pero where together for the wholeday yun naman ang importante db?  ;)
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #11 on: April 01, 2011, 04:06:48 pm »

hi mommies, yun, nagsorry naman na siya..babawi daw this coming sunday since 3rd birth month din ng baby namin..actually, ako ang nagplan kung ano gagawin namin sana sa bday ko kaya lang di nasunod, wala naman xang ginagawa that day tas napuno pa ko, kase super pangaasar ang ginawa sakin on my bday. sabi ko nga sa kanya, ibigay na niya sakin yung day na yun, isang araw lang na walang asaran..buti nalang ok na kami..namiss ko din siya dun sa days na di kame naguusap e.. :)
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #12 on: April 01, 2011, 04:35:36 pm »

hi sis ExcitedMommy! Welcome to SP!

buti naman okay na kayo ulit ng mister mo. at kahit hindi mo na birthday, magce-celebrate kayo. it's better late than never di ba?  ;)

to answer your question, initial reaction ko talaga, magtatampo ako.  :(

ako kase yung tipong inaabangan lahat ng special days namin ng asawa ko. Anniversary, Monthsary (yes, until now, i greet him tuwing 9th of the month) and birthday niya. Lagi akong  may card for him. Kung hindi ko mabilhan ng card, i write him a letter.

Nagtatampo ako pero like Mommy France,  I also consider kung bakit hindi siya nakapagplano for me on our special day and/or my birthday. I know my husband, I know if ever hindi siya makapagplano, for sure hindi niya yun ginusto. Kaya madalas yung mga pagtatampo ko ginagawa ko nalang tampururot.  ;D
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #13 on: April 01, 2011, 04:46:32 pm »

sis excited mommy .
ako dati sis nung mag bf palang kami,there is ALWAYS something special sa mga birthdays namin and anniversaries.kanyakanyang surprises.
nung naging magasawa na kami,okay pa din naman,may surprises padin kahit small things lang.
pero dumadating talaga yung time siguro na parang wala na lang.siguro dahil sa dming iniisip,mga problems.nung una nakakapagtampo,pero eventually okay lang,naintindihan ko na. and hindi na big deal sakin kung my plans or what.pero hindi nawawala yung pagstrike ng midnight eh sya yung unang babati sakin.hindi mahalaga material n gifts,sa ngayon it's the thought that counts na,kasi family na kayo eh,committed na kayo sa isat isa. ang masama eh yung hindi niya naalala.
wag mo sirain mood mo sis,normal lang yan.. :)
part yan ng buhay may asawa sis. ;)
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Re: What will you feel if hubby didn't plan anything for your bday?
« Reply #14 on: April 01, 2011, 05:16:36 pm »

  hi sis ExcitedMommy, ako naman kung di ma alala ni hubby ang BIG DAY ko, syempre magagalit ako, di ko rin sya kakausapin
pero so far di pa naman nangyari sakin yan, kasi kahit valentines day may gift talaga yan sakin,
gaya na lang nung last feb 14, he bought a frame sa blue magic at sa frame na yun may letter that explains how much he love me( hehe) at pag birthday ko naman tinatanong niya ako kung ano gusto ko  (pero sagot ko lang eh, kahit ano) hehe, may hiya factor pa kasi, pero pag BIG day ko lagi yan simba tapos may handa na sa house, yung simpleng handa lang :)

kaya sis, try mo kausapin si hubby mo mag heart to heart talk kayo, at daanin mo rin sa lambing mas effective pag lalambingin eh  :)
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