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Author Topic: How to deal with Officemates  (Read 21945 times)

mumzeth

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #15 on: August 25, 2011, 05:28:51 pm »


kung baga, ako na ang mayor ng selda tres...  ;) 8)

naaliw lang ako.. :D wow BIG BOSS \m/ rock on \m/
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #16 on: August 26, 2011, 10:59:13 am »

This is me with my baby. kayo na ang humusga  :)

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #17 on: August 26, 2011, 11:14:14 am »

..talagang niloloko ka lang ng mga officemates mo mommy ics ganda ganda mo kaya..
anyway..may ganong tao talaga.. minsan kelangan sakyan mo nalang.
ako nga.. 17 kami dito at lahat sila lalaki...ako lang babae.. at may pagkaboyish din siguro ako noong dalaga pa ko kaya grabe sila mang-asar sa kin.. one of the boys nga tawag nila sa kin eh. mas tumindi pang-aasar nila sa kin nung nagka-asawa ako.. kung ibang tao lang siguro ako.. magmumura na ko sa inis.. pero dahil sa matagal na ko dito at sanay na.. OK na kahit ano..
pwera nalang ngayong buntis ako.. hindi na nila ko masyadong niloloko kasi nga.. baka makunan daw ako..
ayaw pa ko paniwalaan ng mga siraulo na buntis ako kasi medyo natagalan nga bago ko nagbuntis eh..  ;D
may ganon talagang tao.. pero nasa sayo narin yan kung pano mo ihahandle.. pag hindi mo kaya mga pang-aasar.. iwasan mo sila or ipakita mo sa kanila.. iparamdam mo na hindi mo gusto at hindi mo masakyan mga pang aasar nila  ;)
goodluck girl:)

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #18 on: August 26, 2011, 11:28:24 am »

nakaka asar naman yung mga ganyan tao. Baka naman kaya inaasar ka kasi may gusto sayo o nagpapacute sayo? minsan tama din yung bumanat ka ng konti para naman alam nila na foul na yung ginagawa nila at di mo na nagugustuhan. pumili ka lang ng magandang linya like kay mommy maarte na "O, yun na yun? natawa ka? O, uwi na. basta seryoso lang ang pagkakasabi mo at di ka matatawa. kasi yung mga taong ganyan kainsensitive parang bacteria. pag natawa tawa ka naku lalo ka nilang aasarin at di magigiging effective ang linya mo.
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #19 on: August 26, 2011, 01:43:01 pm »

This is me with my baby. kayo na ang humusga  :)



naku sis bulag ata mga ka office mate mo..sabihin mo sa sunod hindi si GMA ang kamuka mo kundi si LORNA T! haha nagkamali lang ng lagay ng nunal ;)

she was part of the group na sobrang lakas mang-asar.  unlike mommy nylej20, i wasn't blessed with the boobs naman (sis, pahingi! hehe).

hahaha natawa naman ako sayo dito sis, sure kung pwede nga lang ba mamahagi why not??


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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #20 on: August 26, 2011, 01:58:00 pm »

@ kweykerz thanks! hehe.

pareho pala tayo. only girl din ako dito. may pagka cowboy din ako pero minsan talaga may mga jokes na nakakapikon. hay! pero ayun. after ng cold treatment e medyo ok na. as if parang walang nangyari. balik lang sa normal.
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #21 on: August 26, 2011, 02:07:11 pm »

@ mamacharis hahaha natawa ako sa bacteria! nag-iisip nga ako ng pangganti e. kaso hayaan na lang natin. magkaka wrinkles lang ako kakaisip sa kanila. yung tungkol naman sa pagkagusto nila sakin kung totoo man, naku bahala sila sa buhay nila. in good terms na kami ngayon ni sd at mukang magiging ok na.  :)

@nylej20 Lorna T. panalo! hehe. pero wala pa din ako sa kalingkingan nun.  :P
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Re: Stressed sa officemates (Officemate #1)
« Reply #22 on: August 26, 2011, 04:40:51 pm »

nakakainis nga yang mga taong ganyan. inggit lang yan sayo kaya sya ganyan.

regarding the training, you shouldn't be down, sis! the fact na in-offeran ka na hindi ka c*m laude is exceptional. it means na narecognize ng company ang efforts and skills mo, and they want to develop it more. wag ka makinig jan, next time na sabihin niya yun, sabihin mo na "buti naman narecognize ng company ang galing ko" or something to that effect.  ;)

and wag ka na nga din maki-share sa bahay. mahirap na, hanggang sa bahay stressed ka pa din dahil sa negang babaeng yan.

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #23 on: August 26, 2011, 08:37:17 pm »

mommy ics maganda ka naman ah! (walang joke) nako po! insecure lang yung mga officemates mo ning! wag mo nalang isipin mo yung mga bully na officemates mo.. mga INSEKYORA sila! masyado kang maganda para mastress.. :)
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Re: Stressed sa officemates (Officemate #1)
« Reply #24 on: August 26, 2011, 08:50:03 pm »

hi mommy syndyela-

about kay officemate#1 hmm..
*i suggest makitungo ka nalang sa kanya ng civil as in kung may pag-uusapan about work don ka nalang makipag-usap.. dumistansya ka nalang..

*sabihin mo na sa kanya ng mas maaga na may makakasama ka na sa apartment na lilipatan mo.. or yung nakuha mong room ay pang 1 tao lang.. (magrason ka nalang)

*sa pagiging inggitera niya hayaan mo nalang ikaw lang naman ang maiistress and medyo natamaan ako sa pagiging laitera niya(medyo ganun ako. ahaha pero depende sa lalaitin kung karapat dapat) anyway kung manlalait sya na maririnig mo.. sabihan mo lang (diba medyo close naman kayo) na.. "ikaw talaga laitera ka!" sabay tawa.. daanin mo nalang sa biro..

*about sa training- inggit lang yun kasi ikaw inofferan e sya wala lang parang dinaanan lang ng boss mo.. so ayun insecure, sinapian sya ng crab mentality..

love your enemies.. :D ipagpray mo rin yung officemate mo.. para hindi ka mastress iguguide ka ni GOD.. :) GOD BLESS po!
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #25 on: August 29, 2011, 03:21:58 pm »

@mumzeth salamat!  ;D

kaso mga lalake yun e. hehe. unless mga bakla sila baka nga insecure.
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #26 on: August 31, 2011, 09:17:33 am »

alam mo mommy ics, sa palagay ko lang ha.. baka naman may gusto sa yo yung isa sa kanila.  then, just to cover his feelings for you, eh dinadaan na lang sa tukso.. tas nagkataon, yung mga kasama nyong guys dyan eh nakiki-ride naman... hmmm... ~_^ kasi, heller?! kay ganda mo kaya!

kasi kahit naman mommies na tayo hindi naman natin nacocontrol yung feelings ng ibang tao para sa 'tin.  di kasalanan maging HOT...

@mamacharis -- actually, may mga MAS mean akong banat na naka reserve.. di ko lang ginagamit kasi hindi naman talaga ako mean... pagka lang tinawag ng pagkakataon...  ;)

@nylej20 -- you mean, willing ka mag-share ng 'blessings' mo? pwede bang ipa-pick up ko na lang?! haha.. biro lang...  ;D

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #27 on: August 31, 2011, 02:20:00 pm »

@♥maarte♥ thanks! haba ng hair ko kung ganon. haha. ang masasabi ko na lang ay sorry na lang sila  ;)
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #28 on: August 31, 2011, 02:40:22 pm »

yes naman HOT momma rin pala ako! i love it! XD mabuhay ang mga HOT Mommas! ;)
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #29 on: October 01, 2011, 12:35:20 pm »

@ics

usapangg matino, maganda ka sister! ;) at yung nagbubully syao, may tinatagong inggit lang yun, siguro kasi pangit yung gf niya  ;D ;D ;D o insecure lang sya in some way sayo. o di kaya nasasapawan mo pagkalalaki niya, considering your height and gender..people bully most of the time because they've got insecurities. deadma mo sya, or sya a one line striking word para tumigil sya. sa office din, all girls kami sa loob but we get to work with boys outside. so when they try to intimidate or bully me the first time(imagine girl ako pero superior ang dating ko sa kanila, kaya try sila to intimidate me) i made my remark, so i said "pareho-pareho tayong nagtatrabaho, gawin nyo ang trabaho nyo, sumunod kayo kasi yun ang dapat, kung ayaw nyo problema nyo yun" sabay pointing to the bullying person, "ano may problema ka?" and i walked away..and i heard the boys, teasing him "ayan, nakuha mo" from then on never na may nagtry, at kapag nag-utos o nagpakisuyo na ako attentive sila. or minsan may sumusubok pero i just stand my post and look firm as if saying "ano?"  ;D ;D hehe...and effective, all respond the same way, looked at me straight too, then smiled tapos friends na sila with me when we get to work all together..and so hearing from away from boys group and girls group thaat have earned respect from them from day 1 i get to work with them. sa mga bully, never show any sign of weakness, saka ka na manginig sis, pag ikaw na lang ;D ;D ;) hehe..you are a beautiful showcase, maybe that's how he views you, inngit sya..kaya show him you are worth his envious feeling at sindakin mo sya to stay away from you, or else sa pagkakasyahin mo sya sa height mong 4'11", my mom stands that height, very mabibo, she was a teacher..and in our small town she used to be regarded, and well respected, kasi she tooked advantage of her height(easily get notice lalo sa mga division meetings nila) and used well her public speaking skills (lalo teacher sya)..so she was known to be the most and only sought after emcee during her time(she passed away two years ago). chin up sis, lalo maganda ka. you have no reason na mainis, smile more confidently pag tukso ka niya, and look him straight to the eye without the inis look. just be firm. ;)
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