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ryuu

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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #30 on: October 29, 2011, 09:05:24 pm »

binu-bully rin ako sa office.. sakang kasi ako maglakad (eversince).. ok lang naman nung una kasi nae-explain ko naman nicely na inborn na yung pagkasakang ko.. kaya lang, paulit-ulit at nakakarindi na minsan.. lalo na yung mga officemates ko na lalaki.. gagayahin pa nga nila.. minsan, it stings.. sasabihin ko nalang, "perfect walkers nga kayo.'' then i'd walk away.. trabaho nalang yung iniisip ko..
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Anong gagawin mo sa co-worker mo na lagi kang sinisiraan?
« Reply #31 on: June 13, 2012, 01:30:27 pm »

Hi mommies and daddies as well.. you might want to give me a piece of advice.. ayokong sumabog dito sa opisina namin dahil sa isang taong lagi akong nakikita at lagi ding naninira ng iba.. grrr..  >:(

Dati kasi siyang ahead sakin (as of position).. But then I was tranferred by our President into a group na talagang important sa company.. eh dahil dati niya kong utusan kaya ngayon, may factor siya ng di pag-aacknowledge sa kanya..take note: HINDI KO TALAGA SIYA BOSS.. sa team namin, nagkataon lang na mas mataas ang position niya (ng isang level lang) but i'm not reporting to her.. nakakainis!!! ngayon, nalaman ko sa friend ko mga paninira niya.. (mga ayaw mautusan, maingay, mapapel, etc.) haist.. gusto ko patulan o i-report sa management pero baka kasi maging oa ang dating ko..

Advice please..  :(
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Re: Anong gagawin mo sa co-worker mo na lagi kang sinisiraan?
« Reply #32 on: June 13, 2012, 02:40:40 pm »

naku sis me mga ganyang tao talaga. hindi ko nga rin alam kung anong achievement ba yun nakukuha nila sa sa pagda down ng tao or pagtsi tsismis. makikitid ang utak ng mga taong ganon.

if i were you dedma lang. Pag binigyan mo kasi siya ng time eh lalo lang yang mag eeffort na siraan ka. but siyempre me limitation narin naman na nakakasira na talaga ng pagkatao mo. confront her and i assure you hindi makakapag salita yan sa harap mo at hindi niya masasabi sayo un mga paninira niya.

intindihin na lang natin na kaya sila naninira ng tao kasi sila mismo eh sira na rin and dun sa paninira sa  ibang tao nila nalalabas yung frustrations nila sa sarili nilang buhay.
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Re: Anong gagawin mo sa co-worker mo na lagi kang sinisiraan?
« Reply #33 on: June 13, 2012, 03:01:02 pm »

diba nakakairita?? haist.. lagi pang pumupunta dito sa area ko (may mga friends kasi siya na malapit yung table sakin) at super kwento.. kahit alam naman niyang alam ko yung mga ginagawa at sinsabi niya.. hindi na mahiya..
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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #34 on: June 13, 2012, 03:13:39 pm »

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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #35 on: June 15, 2012, 05:19:39 pm »

Sis, be happy at front of your officemate/s that will kill her surely inside..

madami talagang ganyan, minsan nakaka-tempt nang patulan. but dont go down on their level unless you enough reason to na. or pwede naman magsumbong sa HR kung hindi na talaga kanais-nais ang ginagawa nila diba? IMO, work lang. let them ma-stress out dahil sa inis / inggit / at insecurities nila sayo. In the end, hindi ikaw ang hindi makatulog sa gabi kung hindi sila.. wala din silang peace of mind gaya mo, you can easily feel at ease with anyone pero sila hindi, kase may hatred sila sa tao..

remember mas kawawa ang taong ganun. plus points pa nga tayo kase naiinggit at binibigyan nila tayo ng panahon at oras, be happy with your haters sis.. famous ka na! hehe :)

basta as long wala kang ginagawang masama, you dont have to feel bad.
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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #36 on: June 16, 2012, 09:46:26 am »

^ sinabihan ko talaga siya that if she needs professional settlement, we can invite the managers.. eh di siyempre mas nagwala.. concern lang naman daw siya.. sabi ko kung concern siya talaga, eh di dapat she told me everything to my face.. in the end, nagsorry na din siya.. hai naku.. kakastress.. pero life is short.. ayoko mabitter..
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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #37 on: June 16, 2012, 10:05:24 am »

^eh bitter nga talaga sya :)

It happened to one of my friends once sa office, since were into forwarding company where all people are literal --busy! yun friend ko ask assistance dun sa ka-officemate niya to borrow their processor for a while kase may importante sila mabayaran, hala kamusta kay ate nagwala at sumigaw ng bongga! kala mo nasa palengke sila. to think supervisor pa sya haha walang breeding! ang sagot ng kaibigan ko??? "Wag moko sigawan nasa office tayo at wala sa palengke,. mabait ako pero kahit supervisor ka dito kaya kitang pisain pag nagalit ako sayo" -- nakakatawa ang visor after, sorry ng sorry hahah!

sometimes kase yung mga epal nating mga ka-officemates, pasikat lang yan.. nakakaimbyerna din pero let it pass! hayaan mong sila maimbyerna sayo! :)
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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #38 on: June 18, 2012, 08:41:35 am »

^ ay sinabi mo pa! minsan nagtataka ko ano ba napapala nila pag nambubuwiset sila ng tao.. nakakairita talaga..  >:( pero wala akong magagawa, may mga tao talagang papansin.. yung sa kahit anong paraan naghahanap ng attention.. hai naku talaga..
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How To Deal Oficemate masyado ipokrita
« Reply #39 on: July 11, 2012, 11:03:13 am »

mga sisiess kayo ba may officemate na ganito,, kala mo sino sya may pinag mamlai sa buhay ei wala naman
lahat ng tao halos papasok sa palda niya, singhal klage minsan wala na a biro.hay naku minsan lang kaknis umiiwas ako pansinin sya kasi ayaw ko mag ka memo ,, sya halos lahat ng tao ka memo niya na hehe

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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #40 on: July 11, 2012, 11:25:59 am »

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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #41 on: August 10, 2012, 03:26:54 pm »

Officemate 1 – Prove to her na kahit walang honors sa school kayang maging mataas sa field na pinili niya. Hayaang mong laitin ka niya. I am sure may mga officemates na hindi rin gusto ugali niya. At ‘pag hindi siya tumigil sa kalalait. Smile. Hindi kayo magka.level. Hindi siya professional. You are a Threat to her then make her feel na talagang tinik ka sa lalamunan niya. Say “NO”if sasama siya sa boarding house na pina.plano mo, bawal na ang plastic ngayon.

Officemate 2 - Aabangan ko 'yan ;D
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #42 on: October 10, 2012, 07:38:27 pm »

Marami talagang ganyan sa office.  Akala mo perfect sila.  Ako what I do, I am civil towards them.  Pero I don't get close and umiiwas ako sa kanila especially pag break time and uwian.  Usually dun lang ako sa station ko.  I focus on my work.  I see to it that I only spend my precious time with my officemates na has respect for other people.   :)
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Re: How to deal with bully office mates?
« Reply #43 on: October 15, 2012, 12:17:10 pm »

@ics, ang ganda mo kaya..mga bulag talaga sila..ako nag dito hindi naman ako binubully pero sila yung mismong hindi ako kinakausap kakausapin lang ako pag kailangan, saka mga plastik na tao hindi ko lam kung mag ingitera sila..kaya ang ginagawa ko na lang searching na lang ako sa net at dito sa sp may matutunan pa ako kung pano
magpalaki ng baby..hindi na lang ako nakikijoin sa mga usapan nila nakakapang init lang ng ulo

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Re: How to deal with Officemates
« Reply #44 on: December 17, 2012, 10:46:37 am »

really there are people who will put you down.
sabi ko nga sa friends ko..makulay ba masyado buhay ko
para gawan nila ako ng tsismis?! haller get a life.ang boring kasi ng buhay nila
i do what i want to do basta happy ako at alam ko tama naman.
i dont care what people will say..mapapaligaya ba nila ako?! hindi naman diba. ::)
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