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Katie

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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #45 on: May 29, 2011, 03:48:29 pm »

busy kami sa paghahanap ng yaya at pregnancy ko nun. then biglang na-realize ko...hindi pala siya yung type na guy na mamahalin yung mga kids ko, from prev relationshio, in a way na gusto ko..for sure, may kanya kanya tayung way kung panu magmahal, pero iba kase yung acceptance sa mahal talaga.. kaya, nasabi ko, buti nalang, hindi pako nagpakasal, kundi, it may have made things more complicated.

there could be a reason why until now, i havent found my partner yet, but fpr now, masaya naman aku..

i think kung masaya naman kayu kahit hindi pa kasal, its much better than to be married but living a miserable life together...
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #46 on: June 03, 2011, 05:24:46 pm »

I am pregnant din at marami ang nagtatanong kung bakit ayaw ko pa magpakasal although gusto na niya. First, I am too young to get married, I just turned 21 this year, I should still enjoy being single. Second, wala pa kami budget to live together. kawawa naman si baby, baka masundan lang agad. Third, gusto ko ng ideal na wedding, at sa panahon ngayon, we're broke. uunahin ko na muna yung anak ko. Last, natatakot ako na maging attached agad, I know naman na when I am married, wala na urungan.
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #47 on: June 07, 2011, 08:14:35 am »

By the time nalaman namin na buntis ako namanhikan si bf at ang pamilya niya sa bahay pero nagka complicate kasi ayaw ng mother ko ang bf ko tapos na inuslto ng mother ko ang family ni bf kaya ayon nagalit agn family ni bf.. nagalit ang both families namin tapos na apektohan kami kaya nag.break kami ng mga 2years. Recently lang kami nag.balikan but still ayaw parin ng family ko ang bf ko kaya nag.tanan kami..heto nasa bahay kami ni baby nila pero we both decided not to get married yet kasi we dont have any money yet wala pang work si bf ( forcedleave) tapos we agreed na sa dami na nangyari sa family at sa amin dalawa we need to see first if this is real na or not. Mahirap kasi na mag.pakasal wala ng balikan tapos ayoko din na maging miserable wife. Gusto namin dalawa we fix everything first para happy ang marriage namin. 

ssshhhh...atin lang to ah...si bf kasi parang hindi pa makawala sa barkada niya at inuman ...kahit all barakda niya is married na lahat sila lahat lalake is always parin inuman galore at umuuwi ng 1am.grrr  heheh kaya ayaw ko muna talga..
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #48 on: June 07, 2011, 02:07:13 pm »

nice thread!.. pa-join na din ako mga mommies..

just like other mommies here bonggang budget din ang main reason kaya hindi pa kami nagpapachurch wedding ni hubby.. tho' nagcivil wedding na kami before i gave birth to our 1st baby... we both want na makasal sa church but sa panahon ngayon practical na lahat ng tao! tama kayo, as long as your happy with each other, loving and trusting each other super GO na yun! saka na ang church wedding .. magfocus na lang muna kay baby tutal uso naman yung hindi muna nagpapakasal eh!  katakot din dahil madami ako kakilala bongga ang kasal pero after a year or two ayun nag-iipon na ulit, pero this time hindi na pangkasal ang iniipon kundi pang annul... heheh!!

siguro for me kung gusto nyo din magpakasal wala naman masama kung civil lang din muna, you don't need much money .. kami kasi kinailangan lang namin ng isang ninong at ninang then parents ko at nagbayad lang kami sa atty., that's it! legitimate ang baby ko... saka na lang kami papakasal sa church kasi gusto ko maging little bride ko is yung baby ko din! heheh!
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #49 on: June 10, 2011, 11:33:03 pm »

Hindi niya ako mapakasalan because he's married for 7 years and meron silang 7years old na son. For 2 years na mag bf-gf kami I just found out na he's married 2 weeks after I gave birth. Tinago ng in-laws ko yun sakin...
Actually na pikot kasi yung bf ko. After nung civil marriage nila, back to normal lahat. Never silang nag sama as mag asawa. Until now hindi parin matanggap ng bf ko yung pamimikot sa kanya even yung anak nila hindi rin niya matanggap. Nakakaawa nga yung bata kasi wala naman sya kasalanan sa away ng family ng girl and ng bf ko. The annulment is in process palang... kaya ayun.  :'(
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #50 on: June 12, 2011, 04:04:15 am »

waaaa...puro budget ang problem.  Sa situation namin ganun dn, walang budget for my dream wedding. At eto siya age kong 25 mag aapat na ang anak namin eh wala pah dn kasal pero puno naman ng pgmamahalan. Yun naman ang importante siya lahat. Drating dn yang kasal nah yan at kung di man,para sken kompleto na ang life ko at happy naman ako. hehe!
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #51 on: June 12, 2011, 05:58:01 am »

@sis einjel   naka apat kana sis...na takot na nga ako sa isa kaya ayaw muna dag.dagan pa hehe
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #52 on: June 13, 2011, 04:45:56 pm »

mommy einjel - makakaapat ka na ?!.. nakuu ako medyo kinakabahan, feeling magkakaron na ko ng pang 2nd baby.. happy na medyo bothered kasi 1yr old pa lang si panganay..

dream wedding ko is garden wedding... ayoko ng simple gusto ko bongga dahil once in a lifetime lang toh, tapos sa 1 and only man of my life pa kaya gusto ko engrande talaga.. haay! tapos yung little girl namin ang magiging little bride ko hehe!.. nice.. pero gusto ko kasi pag kinasal kami eh super wala na ko intindihin pagdating sa house at sana may regular job na si hubbu by the time na ikakasal na kami...
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #53 on: July 02, 2011, 02:07:22 am »

 8) pa join naman sa thread na toh

kaka 1year lang ni Sky. Minsan nga hinhintay ko na pagusapan namin yung wedding,pero feeling ko wala syang pake.. Kesyo darating daw kami sa right time..sabagay nagdadalawang isip ako lalo na pag nagaaway kami ng sobra..nag fflashback lahat ng galit ko sa kanya, so di din maiwasan na makapagisip ako na mabuti nga na di muna kami kasal.anlabo noh...haay
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #54 on: July 04, 2011, 10:28:15 pm »

Main reason siguro namin... hindi ko namang masabing Budget kasi ako hindi ako nag hahangad ng BUngang Kasal same with my Bf /hubby pinaka main siguro namin were still trying to know each other kahit na sabihin naming almost 5years na kami.. living in together.. nandun parin talaga yung mga time na nag tatalo kami... sabi ng mga matatanda normal lang daw yun.. pero i rather know him better wala naman akong pakialam sa sinasabi ng iba.. if hindi kami kasal kaysa naman makasal kami then pag sisihan naming pareho .. it doesnt mean na hindi namin mahal ang isat isat were perfectly fine.. okay bonding namin.. pero siguro yun talaga main reason namin, pero more than 10x na yata akong inayang magpakasal ni Bf ko.. ako yung umaayaw... siguro may phobia ako sa mga nakikita kong gustong kumalawa sa marriages pero hindi nila magawa kasi wala namang divorce dito sa pinas.. if mag papaannul naman super magastos hehe..
so okay na rin siguro itong ganito kami.. maybe when the right time come.. at naramdaman ko na at nasabi ko na sa sarili ko na sya na FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.. baka.. :)

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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #55 on: July 04, 2011, 11:24:54 pm »

mga mommies pajoin po..
samin din po main reason budget..dati po super nagmamadali ako magpakasal n kame kaso ngayun na may baby na hndi ko n siya maxado priority iniisip ko nalang para sa baby ko nalang.. at tsaka dati nga po mga mommies super nahihiya pako pano 1 time nagkaprob kc c hubby sa line ng fone niya so sbi niya call daw ako sa head ofis and then nun viniverify n ako ask nila ano ko daw c jef(name ng hubby ko) and then sabi ko sa taga head ofiz husband ko nga bigla b naman ako sinabihan n panu ko daw mgiging husband i single daw nkadeclare sa husband ko..bgla ako hindi nakaimik sa cnbi niya nashock ako sobra.. hindi kaagad ako nkpagreact nhiya naman ako.. uu nga naman my point siya nklgay nga naman n single kc wala nga naman unmarried sa status n application nla.. late ko n nag sink in sa utak ko n mgreason out sa cnbi ng taga head ofis.. after nun incident pgpinapatwag ako ni hubby umaayaw n ako..
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #56 on: July 07, 2011, 09:55:59 am »

mga mommies, hindi ba kayo  nagfa-family planning? lalo na yung baby pa ang anak.
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #57 on: July 07, 2011, 11:13:18 am »

main reason is budget.. ;D pero will planning na to do it by late next year..
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #58 on: September 28, 2011, 07:58:13 pm »

nakakabwisit yung mga taong tanong ng tanong,alam naman nila sagot...sa akin naman ang gusto ko kahit sa huwes lang ok na,pero yung asawa ko masyadong mayabang.kasi yung mga nakakabata niyang kapatid eh maganda ang mga kasal.ayaw patalbog,ibibigay daw niya ang gusto kong kasal.kasi aminin na natin girls may dream wedding tayo lahat di ba??
alam niyo kung ano ang sinasagot ko sa kanila??


"BAKIT BA INIP NA INIP KAYO SA KASAL KO,MASYADO KAYONG EXCITED.AKO NGA KALMADO LANG"
 
yun titigil na sila,kainis parang sila ang ikakasal,mga excited masyado.as if naman invited sila.yung mga taong gusto ko lang makita sa wedding ko ang makikita ko dun at hindi buong barangay ang makita ko dun,lalo na mga tsismosa.ban sila,kasi kahit anong ganda ng kasal may pangit pa rin silang masasabi...
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Re: For unmarried couples: what is the reason to not marry yet?
« Reply #59 on: September 28, 2011, 10:06:43 pm »

 Hi Mommy's :)

 For me the main reason kung bakit hindi pa kami nagpapakasal is we're too young pa and ayaw nming magpakasal dahil lang sa nagkaanak na kami tska wala pa kami money pra magpakasal :) hehe pero we're planning to get married once we finished our studies at syempre kapag may naipon na kami  ;)
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