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jenah

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dogs and baby
« on: July 07, 2011, 12:15:25 pm »

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Hello SP mom

need some advice po my baby is 6mos old and i have 2 dogs shih tzu and cocker i don't know if it is ok to have pet in the same room with the baby , mababait naman dogs ko and clean pag sleep na kami at night nililipat ko na sila sa room ng mama ko..nawalan na kasi ako ng isang dog before yung poodle ko so it's hard for me to leave them at the living room baka makalabas ulit at mawala

please hel naman po makapag decide it will help me a lot   

                 thank you po ;)

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Re: dog's and baby
« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2011, 01:04:11 pm »

hindi kasi ako dog lover...hindi ako makarelate sis baket kelangan magkasama baby mo sa isang room saka yung dogs..kung safety ng aso worry mo, pano naman safety ng baby mo?

sa akin kasi kahit malilinis yun, aso pa rin yun, amoy aso pa rin yun..
saka yung maliliit na balahibo ng dogs baka masinghot ni baby..
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Re: dog's and baby
« Reply #2 on: July 07, 2011, 01:35:31 pm »

my sis-in-law has dogs inside their rooms din. pero kelangan nga linisin palagi ang nahulog na hair ng dogs. baka makain pa niya yun. my niece is ok naman with the dogs, sila pa nga yung kawawa kasi kinukulit at hinahabol sila ng niece ko. :)

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« Reply #3 on: July 07, 2011, 01:48:46 pm »

^ sis i'm also a dog lover but ever since i got married hinde na ako nagalaga ng dog. Im more into safety and health of my baby, kasi without a dog sa house i cannot guarantee na nga na super linis ang house kasi syempre meron mga alikabok and etc. So i dont want to add dirt to my baby's environment also nakakahika daw yun balahibo ng dog even if maliliit lang yun fur nila. I'm sorry to be devi's advocate but for me NO-NO ang dog sa house specially sa room ni baby..

just my 2 cents... 
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« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2011, 01:53:13 pm »

For me it's not really a good idea na pagsamahin ang aso at ang baby even how clean they are. I don't have anything against pets ha. di ba nga sabi nga nila kahit nga yong mga stuffed toys na balahibo alike eh hindi puwede palabit sa baby kasi baka magkahika. same goes with the real dogs with who have real furs/ balahibo.
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Re: dog's and baby
« Reply #5 on: July 07, 2011, 11:36:35 pm »

Thank you mga mommies na nag reply ...

 yung mga dogs ko pinapasok ko sila sa umaga sa loob ng room namin kasama si baby  di ako madalas lumalabas ng room ko kasi breastfeed ako kay baby  eh maraming labas pasok sa bahay namin kaya ginagawa ko yun.. may point kayu,siguro nga wag ko nalang  papasukin kasi worried din ako sa anak ko talaga kasu di ko matiis yung mga pets ko sobrang love ko talaga :(
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Re: dog's and baby
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2011, 07:33:11 am »

^sis my POV naman is siguro your priorities changes kasi meron ka na baby ngayon. Siguro as much as possible iwasan mo.. mahirap rin kasi kapag nalanghap ni baby yun balahibo ni baby. Short term siguro you wont feel it but in the long run....
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« Reply #7 on: July 08, 2011, 11:16:40 am »

@just_memom  ...
hay na guilty naman ako in some way your right nakalimutan ko yata na mother na ko
actually um starting na ilabas yung mga pets ko tiis na lang talaga :-[

siguro yung iba di ako naiintindihan kasi since i was a child i have a lot of pets na i treat them like a baby i talked  to them the way i talked people  matatalino nga sila kaya dami natutuwa sa kanila yung iba pina ampon ko na sa bro ko simula nang mabuntis ako  kaya ganun nalang kamahal ko sila

thank you mommies for enlighten me.. ;D
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« Reply #8 on: July 12, 2011, 10:23:58 pm »

Hmmmm.. super relate ako sa topic na to. I'm 7 months pregnant with twins and my dilemma is if I should still let my 2 golden retrievers inside the room after the babies are born.  Super dog lovers kasi kami ni hubby.  I had a period of infertility for about 4 years and during those years, we've actually accepted our fate na we'll have a childless marriage kaya ayun, we got ourselves some dogs and treated them as our kids. Kahit big dogs sila, sa kwarto sila natutulog and they're not outside dogs talaga eversince. They've learned to live with us naman following our rules sa house. Na-train na namin sila.  Medyo sinanay na namin sila na matulog sa labas ng room sa gabi, for 2 months now in preparation for the coming of the babies.  Pero pag sa araw, we still have our playtime inside the room.  I want them and my babies to get along but I really have no idea as of the moment how I can go about this.  Our dogs are a part of our family as well.  Of course, some of you would say na priority dapat ang babies but I've read somewhere that it's possible for babies and dogs to cohabit.   I just don't know how to start...

My BIL, who's also a dog lover said naman that it's better to expose them early to dogs para daw ma immune na to whatever allergens the dogs may carry.  Mas madami nga daw allergies sa cats.  So I guess I have to research more about this.. If you're a dog lover with babies too, kindly share naman how you were able to balance your love for your pets and your babies.
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Re: dogs and baby
« Reply #9 on: July 13, 2011, 01:53:22 pm »

sis giselle1115

were both love pet's pala i remember when i was pregnant diko masyado hug yung dog ko kasi mahilig ako mang gigil nagagalit sakin si mama baka daw maging mukhang aso daw ang baby ko  ???hhhmm ..you know mga pamahiin ng mga matatanda,nag adjust talaga ako until nanganak nako  hindi ko na pinapasok si jawo at dudut sa room namin kasi nga pinag bawalan din  ng ob ko.

mga 3mos na yung  baby ko saka kulang pinapasok yung mga dogs ko sa room so far ok naman wala naman hika si chase nakakatuwa nga si jawo kasi lagi niya dinidilaan yung foot ni chase pero syempre after nun wash ko agad yun, ngayun hhhmmm.. nilalabas ko narin sila hindi ko pinag papastay ng matagal yung mga dog ko  para safe narin
 
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« Reply #10 on: July 13, 2011, 03:29:56 pm »

sis jenah, kumusta naman mga sina jawo and dudut when you brought chase home?  as in no interaction ka ba with them until nung 3 months na lang si chase?  i'm praying na di rin maging allergic sina kambal kela inggo and kachu.  kasi syempre gusto ko, eventually maging playmates sila.  have you seen videos on youtube where dogs were taking care of and protecting the babies? ang cute! sana maging successful pag-introduce ko sa kanila.

naku yung tita ko din when she saw my preggy pic on fb with inggo, sabi... sana daw wag maging kamukha ng katabi ko sina kambal.  sagot ko tuloy -- "arf arf arf!" hehe.  as if naman there's a posibility na that will happen! hehe.
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« Reply #11 on: July 13, 2011, 04:32:29 pm »

oo sis lalu na yung newborn palang si chase di ko talaga pinapalapit pero syempre di korin matiis na di ko hawakan yung mga pet's ko ginagawa ko pag pupunta ako ng sala bitbit ko si chase mga 1 month sya nun pinpakita ko kina jawo at dudut si chase tapos kinakausap ko sila kasi parang na feel ko nag tatampo yung dalawa

3 months yung baby ko pinapasok ko sila sa room ko di ko nalang sila niyayakap kasi baka dumikit yung balahibo nila sa damit ko at baka masinghot pa ng bata tapos nag vavacuum  nalang ako araw araw para sure nalilinis ko mabuti yung kwarto kasi dami din buhok ko nag lalagas hehe ;D



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Re: dogs and baby
« Reply #12 on: July 13, 2011, 04:46:29 pm »

we also had a shih tzu, she used to sleep in our room and stay inside sa huose, but when i got pregnant and nagkaroon ako ng sipon, we decided na ilabas na sya..lalo na ngayon with my 1 year old baby, di na sya pwede pumasok sa bahay..kahit kasi sis mabait yung dogs natin, kapag nakikipaglaro sila you never know, baka makalmot or makagat nila baby mo kasi maharot din kasi sila.,and yung fur nga nila, didikit sa mga sofa, it will be around the house na kahit i vacuum mo eh hindi matatanggal, baka masubo ni baby at malaghap niya.
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« Reply #13 on: July 13, 2011, 04:57:30 pm »

SUPER agree, baby's health first mga mommies :)
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« Reply #14 on: July 13, 2011, 05:19:04 pm »

Well kanya kanya namang opinion yan.   i just can't leave my dogs outside the house when they're house dogs naman talaga in the first place.  They were never made to live outside our house.  Iba iba pati ang mga temperaments ng dogs.  Golden retrievers are known to be very gentle and good with kids.  Better pa nga daw talaga to expose kids early on so as to develop immunity.  Hindi ko naman din sila basta na lang pwede ipamigay.  I know you will never understand the love I have for my dogs.  Maisip ko nga lang that they will eventually leave me at the most mga 10 years from now, naiiyak na ko.  They have been like our kids for years.  It doesn't mean that I'm prioritizing them.   I just believe that there is a way how to handle things at home with the coming of our new babies without forgetting about our dogs.  But I guess I'm in the wrong forum if I continue to discuss this kasi hindi naman to animal parenting, hehe, so pasensya na.  I guess I'll just have to bring my concerns re dogs to another forum  :)
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