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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #30 on: January 23, 2009, 07:09:29 pm »

naku ayaw ko ng isipin kung paano kami mag away, kasi masakit lang talagang isipin, nakakasama ng puso at masakit sa ulo, he he he,  >:(  nakakahilo pa! :o
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #31 on: January 23, 2009, 08:28:45 pm »

kkatuwa naman topic n hehe
kami ni hubby silent lang dn..
d ngttinginan,d ngkkibuan,.
pero nung buntis ako grabe q siya awayin!lakas ng topak q non hehe
siya mdalas unang mamansin..tas ok na kami!
mgpapatawa pa mnsan kahit galit ako,e mdli ako non mpatwa!
ok na kgad. ;D
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #32 on: January 24, 2009, 11:22:29 pm »

nakakatuwa naman 'tong topic na to, na miss ko tuloy si hubby.. masasabi ko talaga na napakabait ng asawa ko at hindi lang pala ako ang parang bata hehe, hindi mahilig makipag away hubby ko, laging ako ang naguumpisa, lagi ako ang may topak hehe, simpleng bagay minsan bigla d ko sya papansinin basta alam niya pag masama talaga loob ko, meaning pag meron akong d nkuha n gusto ko, super tahimik lang ako, eh ayaw nun n matutulog kami n magkagalit kahit n pag ns abroad sya d un papayag n baba namin yung fone n di kami nagtatawanan pag magkasama naman kami d kami matutulog nag tahimik p din ako, gagawa at gagawa ng paraan un para magsalita ako, alam niya na pag nag start ako mag dakdak d n ko galit nun, nilalabas ko n lang yung sama ng loob ko tapos tatawa n un kc minsan malalaman niya napaka babaw, magtatawanan n lang kami, kahit nung bf/gf p lang kami ganon n kami, naalala ko dati, bigla ko tatahimik tapos pipilitin niya ko magsalita, iiyak n lang ako, iyakin din kc ako eh, tapos ang dahilan lang, ayaw niya ko bilan ng candy n gusto ko kc pasakay n kami ng bus, eh dami tao sa terminal, ginawa bumaba habang d p umaandar yung bus at bumili ng napakaraming candy hehe... pag naman napag uusapan namin yung mga ganong bagay, n never ako ang nanuyo s kanya laging sya, lagi ko katwiran kasalanan mo yan kasi inispoiled mo ko... kaya nga pag nanganak ako uuwi sya kc sabi ko s kanya lang ako pwede umarte sa parents ko pwede lang ako mag utos pero d ako pwede umarte hehe... kaya d ko din alam kung ano gagawin ko pag iniwan ako ng hubby ko, baka maloka ko, hehe..super bait kasi.
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Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #33 on: October 20, 2009, 10:56:50 am »

Hi mga Mommies,

Ask ko lang.  Whenever you have some sort of misunderstanding with your hubby, and you think na siya naman ang may kasalanan, tinitikis nyo ba siya??

I mean, pagkatapos ng discussion, syempre medyo masama pa loob mo, di mo siya papansinin, siya ba nakikisabay din sa galit mo as in di ka na rin niya papansinin?
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #34 on: October 20, 2009, 11:01:58 am »

pag nagsorry na sya ok na din ako...lalabas lang un sandali pag nagkasagutan kami tas pagbalik non ok n un..makikipagbati na un..ayaw kong patagalin sis ang aming misunderstanding.....
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #35 on: October 20, 2009, 11:06:54 am »



Pag may misunderstanding kami at tingin ko kasalanan niya, tinitiis ko talaga sya hanggang di sya nagsosorry, Gusto ko kasi marealize niya pagkakamali niya.. at gusto ko sinusuyo kesa ako nanunuyo ;)
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #36 on: October 20, 2009, 11:11:42 am »

minsan na kikisabay sya, minsan naman hindi..tsaka
depende kasi yung sa kasalan..sa amin kasi kahit ako or si hubby may kasalan may times ako yung hindi na mamansin kahit kasalanan ko..(umiwas na masita) ganun din si hubby..

after namin pag usapan kahit medyo bad 3p pa rin kame sa isat isa..hindi na namin pinag uusapan ulet tapos na nag kapaliwanagan na kame..magkukulitan na lang kami..
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #37 on: October 20, 2009, 11:13:21 am »

pag may misunderstanding kami or tampuhan, maliit man or malaki yun, we talk about it agad. siyempre minsan sobrang argue talaga pero once we are able to air our grievances and we're able to explain everything, we apologize na to each other. kahit siya pa may fault, once he apologized na, okay na yun. ayaw namin na nag-eend ang day na magkaaway pa rin kami. one good thing about my husband is that when i get upset about something he did, he makes time to talk to me. ayaw niya na basta text or phone call lang. gusto niya magkaharap talaga kami para maayos na after.  :)
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #38 on: October 20, 2009, 11:19:33 am »

Hi Mga Mommies,

Kami naman ni hubby ko pag ganyan situation hinahayaan ko lang siya di rin ako pansinin.  Ang lagay eh suyuin ko siya at lumuhod ako sa harap niya asking forgiveness..wwaaaa excuse me..

Kung ayaw niya eh di hehe..
Mahirap kung lumaki ulo nila at masanay na tayong mga mommies lagi ang susuyo sa kanila who ever has the fault.   Hay ang mga guys talaga...pasaway!

Dati tinikis ko yun..gulat na lang ako bigla ako hug from behind ni hubby, hehe yun ang weakness ko eh..tapos yun cryola na lang lola mo..tapos sabi niya, ikaw ha natitiis mo na ako... di mo na ba ako love..? asus!!!
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #39 on: October 20, 2009, 11:32:31 am »

hi mga sis,
share ko lang, kami ni hub pag may LQ di ko muna pinapansin ayokong slubungin yung galit niya, baka lalong lumaki at kung saan saan mapunta, sya kasi yung tipong di nag sosorry kahit kasalanan niya, pro kahit ganun in di end ako pa din yung nag bababa ng pride kasi ayokong ma apektuhan mga kidd0s ???
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #40 on: October 20, 2009, 02:03:07 pm »

Hi mga Mommies,

Ask ko lang.  Whenever you have some sort of misunderstanding with your hubby, and you think na siya naman ang may kasalanan, tinitikis nyo ba siya??

I mean, pagkatapos ng discussion, syempre medyo masama pa loob mo, di mo siya papansinin, siya ba nakikisabay din sa galit mo as in di ka na rin niya papansinin?

alam naman ng hubby ko kapag mali siya... he comes up to me after having an argument... lalo na pag hindi na ako kumikibo, na kahit anong salita niya hindi na ako nagrereact... he hugs me and plants kisses on my nape... and keeps saying "sorry na... bati na tayo... sige na..." pero minsan pinapatagal ko pa ng konti

pero siyempre, tao siyang humingi ng sorry, pinapatawad ko na... kase pag ako ang nagsosorry sa kanya when i did him wrong, he forgives me right away... with matching kiss and hug..

ayoko kase matulog kami na may unsettled issue...

hindi naman talaga matatanggal sa mag-asawa ang magkatampuhan... wag nalang palakihin... at kapag tapos na... wag ng ungkatin.. FORGIVE AND FORGET ika nga...
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #41 on: October 20, 2009, 02:32:22 pm »

my fault or his fault as long as we said we were sorry, then were okey... In our relationship, we dont go to bed with hard feelings. I mean we must settle it the first thing... And if time and space is needed we respect each others need.. usually it was me who needed it hihi  :) :) :)... and after that hubby will buy me presents... peace offering...We, both love each other so why waste our time, life is too short. Even now he was in UAE... we promised not have any arguments. Being in LDR is so hard, that's why we keep our communication always open and respect each other.

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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #42 on: October 20, 2009, 02:46:05 pm »

share din ako..

kami ng hubby ko walang pansinan. pero mahirap kasi pag may mga kids.. lalo na kapag roommates mo rin mga kids..  kaya usually tahimik lang kaming dalawa. Hubby ko kasi d masyadong nagsa-say ng sorry kahit kasalanan niya. naglalambing lang sya at ayun, ok na rin agad ako. ;D
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #43 on: October 20, 2009, 03:12:09 pm »

siguro, it depends upon the situation.  If it's a minor lang naman, konting sorry lang niya, I'd let it pass. I don't want minute tampuhan to grow big. 

Kapag naman medyo, bigtime ang naging kasalanan niya sa akin, like, nagsinungaling sya or may nilihim sya, or may ginawa syang alam niya na ayoko, medyo, syempre, hindi ganun kabilis ko sya papatawarin and say "it's okay".  He should have a hardtime para hindi na niya ulit-ulitin.
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Re: Misunderstanding with Hubby
« Reply #44 on: October 20, 2009, 06:59:10 pm »

Ako effort tiisin pero minsan kasi nawawala lang ng kusa lalo if napakababaw lang na misunderstanding. Masyado mabait ang hubby ko kaya kahit kasalanan ko siya nagsosorry. Kaya ako, accept lang ng apologies. ;)
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