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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #105 on: May 20, 2011, 11:21:15 am »

Sagutan.  In Tagalog.  Na may kasamang balyahan ng pintuan.

Pag mas malala ang away.  Sagutan.  In English.  Na may kasamang basagan ng baso.

Pag pinaka malala.  No Talkies.  Na may kasamang dabugan.  Araw-araw.

Pero ngayon wala ng ganyan.  Salamat na lang at we found Retrouvaille that taught us many tools and techniques that could help us discuss and resolve our concerns and conflicts in a more respectful and peaceful  manner.

And we are so thankful about the peace, love and harmony that it has brought to our home and to our marriage relationship, such that more than a year ago, I went online to search for chat forums such as this one, to look for opportunities to share a bit of my past life as a lonely, rejected and disillusioned wife and how my situation changed after doing the Retrouvaille.

If you would like to ask me more, feel free to PM me.

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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #106 on: May 24, 2011, 12:14:52 pm »

When we were still dating, we didn't fight that often. I guess it because of the age difference and also that we both rarely get upset with each other. But, when we do fight, it is very straight forward. We really tell each other we are upset with the other BUT... with reason. Like, "I'm angry at you right now because you didn't tell me what time you were going to come home." We didn't plan this out at all! That's just how we are. I must say, it is a healthy relationship:)
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #107 on: May 24, 2011, 08:30:09 pm »

I give him the silent treatment. I don't like to nag kasi I'm very careful na I might say something that I would regret in the end. I won't talk to him for a while and pag hindi na makatiis si hubby he talks to me and asks me why exactly I'm mad (bec he knows I'm mad once I'm silent ;D) then if I'm sane enough na to talk about it, I would. Otherwise I'll tell him to not bother me muna (which he hates very much :P) Kasi some things naman na nakakainis is not easy to bring up diba. But of course max is less than a week I'll talk to him na and we make sure na after any agreement, forgotten na yung reason why we fought and move on na kami. That way wala kaming sumbatan moments.
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #108 on: May 31, 2011, 02:45:00 am »

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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #109 on: June 03, 2011, 04:25:00 pm »

Hindi kami madalas mag-away ng hubby ko.  Sometimes nga naiisip ko na baka may problema na kami kasi madalang kami mag-away haha.

But when we fight, it's always silent war.  Walang imikan hangga't pareho ng lumamig ang ulo namin.  Pag di na mainit ang ulo ng isa tsaka kami magsisimula mag-usap.

But it's always best to talk about what went wrong so we know what to stop, or start or continue.  And lastly, never let the sun go down in your anger.

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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #110 on: June 09, 2011, 10:45:47 pm »

Before pag nag aaway kami ni hubby as in una tahimik ako pero ang hubby ko super nagger so pag napuno ako talagang nakakapanakit ako.. as in talagang nasasaktan ko sya kung ano nalang mahawakan ko nababato ko sa kanya nasusuntok ko nga sya eh.. pero now iba na ko now.. wala kasing maidudulot yung sakitan eh.. now pag galing si hubby at nag sisimula ng mag dadadal instead na masaktan ko sya ginagamit ko nalang yung art of deadma as in hindi ko sya pinapansin at inaalisan ko sya hanggang sa hindi na kami mag pansinan.. mag papansinan din naman kami ni hubby pag okay na sya.. yun lang po :)
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« Reply #111 on: June 10, 2011, 06:15:34 am »

I like this thread.

Kami pag ng-aaway ako yung dada ng dada tapos sya tahimik lang galit na glit na ko pero seems like he is taking it as a joke,.,. tahimik lang yun hindi ako papansinin hanggang sa mg-iingay n ku padyak dito padyak doon .,,. ahaaha .,., tapos bigla nalang yayakap yun mgsosory .., kahit ako naman me kasalanan .,., ayun tunaw na ko sa sorry wala nang galit ..,

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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #112 on: June 10, 2011, 07:29:08 am »

Hindi kami madalas mag-away ng hubby ko.  Sometimes nga naiisip ko na baka may problema na kami kasi madalang kami mag-away haha.

But when we fight, it's always silent war.  Walang imikan hangga't pareho ng lumamig ang ulo namin.  Pag di na mainit ang ulo ng isa tsaka kami magsisimula mag-usap.

But it's always best to talk about what went wrong so we know what to stop, or start or continue.  And lastly, never let the sun go down in your anger.

As in sobrang pareho tayo sis!! walang pinag iba.. Minsan lang nagiging madada ako pro nilalayuan ako ni hubby pag ganun na para iwas ingay nga... naalala ko pala dati nung maliit pa yung eldest ko which is 13 years old na ngayon pag sinasabihan ko sya ng mura (syempre galit) pabulong pa, kasi ayoko din nalalaman ng family ko na nag aaway kami.

Pro antagal na namin di away, saka wala kami big fight na aabot sa hiwalay hiwalayan.. puro petty fights lang and we were husband and wife since 1997. Mag 14 years na pala kami. Sabi nga ng mga sister in law ko mutant daw yata asawa ko.. sobrang bait kasi. :D
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #113 on: June 22, 2011, 11:43:36 am »

kami ni hubby, walang imikan for 3 days siguro pero magkatabi matulog. yun ngan lang sa pagkain di man lang niya ako tinatawag. parehas na kami sumusuko pag medyo ilang araw na ang nakakalipas ng away namin.

wala naman kaming talakan at batuhan.
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #114 on: June 22, 2011, 10:11:11 pm »

My son's dad?!? nun kame pa, madalas sa text and chat kame nag-aaway. He's the type of guy na sobrang dominant talaga and ipipilit niya na ako yung may mali kahit siya yung may kasalanan. We broke up nun nalaman niyang pregnant ako along with realization na talagang di niya ako minahal after almost 2 years of being together. Pag nag-aaway kame, ako yung madalas mag-sorry para lang matapos na yung gulo. Tapos siya, wala lang parang walang nangyari. Hinde siya yung type na guy na magsosorry. I dunno.... siguro may tao talagang heartless, duwag at babae lang ang kayang saktan.. haist... cnxa na mga mommies.. medyo sad lang naalala ko kasi yung mga times na pumapayag lang akong awayin at saktan nun ex ko.. :( :'(
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #115 on: June 23, 2011, 01:45:30 am »

We got married and had our first child during our early adult years. Kaya imagine nalang kung gaano kami kagulo mag-away. But after years of being married, thankfully nagmature na rin kami.

Ngayon, after an argument magkatinginan lang kami ni hubby natatawa kami and ayun bati na kami uli. Krung-krung nga. The kids would say, "hmmm, galit sila mommy at daddy maya-maya lang sweet uli sila". We tell our kids ganito lang ang mag-asawa, minsan nag-aaway but what's more imporant after the fight sweet na uli kami ng daddy nila.

There's only one thing we are trying to resolve during a fight. Until now, pagmagkagalit kami ni hubby tinutulugan niya ako and that makes me more angry kinabukasan. Sabi niya, its because he wanted to keep silent nalang kasi baka may masabi pa siya mas lalo lang ako magalit. Ako naman feeling ko binabalewala niya lang ang anger ko. The most is 2 days na hindi kami mag-uusap, pero one has to give in kasi ang hirap ng walang imikan, nakakapagod rin ang laging mahaba ang nguso ko. I cant remember who usually gives in first but I remember the sweet part after ;D
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #116 on: June 29, 2011, 06:01:50 am »

Hi mga siss join in ako...heheeh   kami naman is before we chat andtext graveh lumalabas ang away...i miz those days..kasi kahit masasakit na ang mga salita after nun pagbati na kami sweet na ulit na kami tapos nag.sosorry kami sa isat isa ngayon we are both silent na pag.naaway...until now we are still silent mag.10days nah......
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #117 on: June 29, 2011, 07:48:55 am »

Sagutan.  In Tagalog.  Na may kasamang balyahan ng pintuan.

Pag mas malala ang away.  Sagutan.  In English.  Na may kasamang basagan ng baso.

Pag pinaka malala.  No Talkies.  Na may kasamang dabugan.  Araw-araw.

Pero ngayon wala ng ganyan.  Salamat na lang at we found Retrouvaille that taught us many tools and techniques that could help us discuss and resolve our concerns and conflicts in a more respectful and peaceful  manner.

And we are so thankful about the peace, love and harmony that it has brought to our home and to our marriage relationship, such that more than a year ago, I went online to search for chat forums such as this one, to look for opportunities to share a bit of my past life as a lonely, rejected and disillusioned wife and how my situation changed after doing the Retrouvaille.

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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #118 on: June 29, 2011, 08:29:06 am »

simple lang..walang imikan at hindi nag uusap na tumatagal ng 5 days...kaya lang hindi sya maganda kasi naiipon na lang yung sama ng loob at hindi ko masabi ang gusto kong sabihin...parehas kasi kaming ayaw sa confrontation...hindi rin namin pinag uusapan kung bakit nag away kami, we just let it be..which is medyo masama nga sa relationship namin.
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Re: paano ba kayo mg away ni hubby?
« Reply #119 on: June 30, 2011, 01:06:27 pm »

im not talking to him pag galit ako, at dun sya galit na galit up to now, wala daw akong pakialam sa kanya, eh syempre nga galit ako diba, basta ayoko sya kausap pag galit ako. then pag pasok sa office saka ako magtetext sa kanya ng mga sama ng loob ko, hindi ko masabi ng harapan kasi for sure iiyak lang ako at hindi na makakapagsalita. dati ayaw na ayaw niya na umiiyak ako kaya kahit kasalanan ko sya na manunuyo sa akin, pero that was before ngayon kasi kahit dugo pa iluha ko deadma lang sya, sinabihan pa ko dati na dapat daw hindi na ko umiiyak kasi hindi na nakakatuwa... huhuhu.... kaya nga pinangako ko sa sarili ko hinding hindi na ko iiyak sa harap niya.. ever... kaya lang naiyak pa rin ako last week eh, ang sakit kasi eh, hindi ko mapigilin.. basta up to now ganon pa din ako, tahimik pag galit..
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