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my baby was assessed yesterday by dr joel lazaro he's really good sobrang sulit ng bayad ko sa kanya and even his clinic talagang child friendly, my daughter was diagnosed with expressive language delay and hearing him saying "don't worry mommy normal na normal si baby hindi poh siya special child" grabe para akong nabunutan ng malaking tinik sa puso. i've been carrying it since my baby was 14 months old that is when I started to noticed some SIGNS, here's the result of my baby's assessment:
my baby's age: 21 months old
gross motor: 20 months
fine motor: 18 months
language:
expressive: 10 months
receptive: 24 months (my baby's advanced by 3months)
social adaptive: 18 months
problem solving/cognitive: 3 years old (advanced na baby ko ng 1 year and 3 months for this

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she was asked to do a series of tests she was given wooden puzzles starting with the easy ones then mag move on to more complex if kaya niya (my daughter finished a total of 4 sets on her own), she was also asked to draw a circle and a straight line using a regular pencil and point/identify pictures using flashcards and build blocks lahat ito nagawa ng daugher ko, magaling din siya magexplain and he knows how to get my daughter's attention, he also advised to have my baby's hearing checked, it might be a cause daw as to why hindi clear salita niya, my baby can talk naman but palaging putol ang words its either missing ang last or 1st syllable/letter and some words shortcut lang like water is ter, kah for cat, car, kite, goodnight is gah and the likes, baka daw hindi 100% and hearing niya so she was asked to do BAER to make sure, he also advised us to continue with OT and speech and add toddler class for her to socialize, right now naka summer break si baby her therapies and toddler class will resume on june 14 excited much si mommy kasi may uniform na siya and she's barely 2

sobrang thankful ako sa mga therapist ni baby she was very different then and yung mga signs na notice ko before eh nawala na like inconsistent name response, hand flapping, fleeting eye contact and her fine motor and social skills were very poor then, when she started her therapies she was at a 9 month old level but after 3 months at par na siya well except for the expressive language
so far these are what I learned from this experience:
1. old school toys are still the best. wooden toys like building blocks, puzzles, peg boards and string beads are highly recommended for toddlers it develops there fine motor and problem solving skills at the same time and also how to be patient on completing a task. plan ko pa naman bilhan si baby ng toy laptop on her 2nd bday but after this mas prefer ko na wooden toys and mas like niya din yun, even yung junior tad system hindi niya nagagamit mahal pa naman she prefers to hear my voice than a talking toy
2. spend time with your child as much possible. read to your child, play with them and sing nursery rhymes together. dapat din bawal ang TV but if it is unavoidable just make sure kasama niyo din si baby and kausapin niyo para maging interactive
3. exposure is a must. a simple trip to a regular playhouse at the mall does wonders especially for children suffering from stranger anxiety like in my daughter's case. the first 3 visits was a nightmare but finally on the 4th visit she started to roam around on her own and play with others. it helps the child develop their social and motor skills.wag ikulong ang bata sa bahay if walang time ipasyal sa mall kahit sa labas lang ng house para may makitang ibang tao at bata ok na yun.
4. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. if you noticed something different with your child a visit to a dev pedia is highly recommended the earlier the better. Along the way you'll a hear a lot of people saying na bakit si ganito ganyan late din naman nagsalita or normal lang yan baby pa naman yan which is true din naman but what if it's not the case with our kid sayang yung time na sana nabigyan sila ng early intervention.