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is it ok that wife is working while si hubby ay house husband?

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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #90 on: October 12, 2013, 11:01:37 am »

I talked to hubby about this thing although we are not in this scenario..okay lang daw sa kanya pero andun daw kasi yung desire niya to provide for the family since siya yung head of the household.. biologically, mas maalaga ang mga moms sa kids because of the hormones kaya daw ganun ang design..

sa akin naman eh okay lang yun as long as the spouse knows their place..for example, ako hindi ko dapat sumbatan si hubby na wala siyang kinikita..si hubby naman, should help out in the house and should never lose his leadership over the household..
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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #91 on: October 15, 2013, 07:57:39 am »

my hubby is jobless din pero by next week me new work na sya

I think this is ok as long as ok sa inyong dalawa kasi yun yung pinaka importante sa lahat

buti nalang masipag sa gawaing bahay si hubby actually mas gusto ko nga na s bahay lang sya kasi napaka oc saka pag uwi ko wala na kong ibang gagawin nagawa niya na hahahha
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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #92 on: October 22, 2013, 04:35:05 pm »

according to Fascinating Womanhood

Secret number 4

Allow him to lead. Your husbandís God-given role is to lead you and provide for you. Allow him to do it.

For me, do not let your husband to be a houseband or jobless. Let him be the captain of the ship/family. Let him work for your family and provide the needs. Let him worry the finances.

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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #93 on: October 23, 2013, 01:09:24 pm »

Eh pano Kung he doesn't have the capacity to lead? Kc since from the start talaga namang you earn more than him? Of course reality tells you not to forego with your career simply because you want him to take the lead, di ba? Otherwise, magugutom pamilya nyo.
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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #94 on: October 27, 2013, 04:55:14 pm »

Uu nga.. I think di naman pwede n allow him to lead tas mas mlaki p sinasahod m

I think practicality n lang.. Kumbaga ngkataon n mas ok work mo so ok lang n ikaw mg work tas si hubby mg take care of the kids

Kase kung yung mentality natin is dapat yung lalaki lang parang mahirap naman yun just my opinion
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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #95 on: October 29, 2013, 12:10:21 pm »

whatever the situation is the husband should be the leader of the household..as wives, we are helpers so if we think our partner already needs help then we should help..si God if He designed man to provide for the family, it means it is possible..test of faith lang ang ganitong situations, test of marriage..
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Re: houseband / house husband, Jobless si hubby
« Reply #96 on: November 23, 2013, 10:04:00 pm »

for me, ok lang na househusband si hubby... lalo na ngayon na may baby na kami. alangan naman na piitin ko siyang magwork kung wala pa talaga. at least may mag aalaga sa bay namin habang nasa work naman ako.. kesa naman kuha ako ng yaya, baka kung anong gawin niya sa baby ko.
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