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Office Politics
« on: July 30, 2011, 09:58:54 am »

Have you experience this kind of inequality?
Maganda kung sa maayos na paraan nagagamit yon pero mostly hindi maganda ang results kasi.

I have experienced here at the office she's an immigration officer and my boss
whose a foreigner is friend daw niya.  Mayabang siya every tumatawag siya sa office
para kausapin ang boss ko instead of saying hello first she will say "Sino tong kausap ko?"
Gusto ko makausap ang amo mo, pero that time kasi my kausap si boss sabi ko tumawag
na lang siya ulit.  Tapos nung tumawag siya ulit nagkataon naman na my kausap nga sa phone
ulet. She got mad at pinagbibintangan ako na hinaharang ko ang tawag niya at sinabi pa niya
sino ka ba secretary ka lang kayang kang kita ipatanggal diyan kayong lahat diyan.
Hay grabe talaga yon walang manners...  :-\
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« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2011, 10:46:06 am »

Nakakainit talaga ng ulo sis.. pero wag mong ibaba ang level mo sa kanya. Hangga't kaya mo try to be nice pa rin. (kahit gigil na gigil ka na..  ;D )

Hanggang bunganga niya lang yung sinasabi niyang kaya niya kayong ipatanggal. Wala ka namang violation sa pagsabi na "Ma'am tawag nalang po kayo ulit, may kausap lang po si Boss" kaya hayaan mo siyang magalit  ;D

Secretary din ako. Pag may callers at wala pa ang mga boss ko, sinusulat ko yung time, name of caller, message and contact number (kung ibibigay) ng mga tumatawag tapos nilalagay ko nalang sa table ng boss ko.

May mga tumatawag din na ayaw niyang kausap kase non-sense daw kausap. Pag ganon, ako na ang bahala kung paano hindi makakausap nung caller na yun ang boss ko.

It's true, meron mga nagagalit kase tinatanong nila kung pwede kunin ang mobile number ng boss ko pero sinasabi ko "hindi ko po alam eh", "secretary ka di ba? bakit hindi mo alam?" "pasensiya na po, hindi ko po talaga alam".

wala na siyang magagawa kahit ibalibag pa niya yung telepono.  ;D

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Re: Kumpadre or Kummadre / Kamag-anak System
« Reply #2 on: August 08, 2011, 07:06:55 pm »

ang sarap sagutin ng mga taong ganyan. pero tama si sis yhamslove. wag mo ibaba ang level mo sa kanya. kung kakilala nga sya ng boss mo, bakit sa landline siya tumatawag? meron namang cellphone.

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Re: Kumpadre or Kummadre / Kamag-anak System
« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2011, 08:46:10 pm »

nakakainis naman yang ganyan sis parang walang pinag aralan naman sya hehe.. tama si sis ea_brea, hindi pinapansin mga ganun klaseng tao.. tska kung close nga sila bakit hindi na nga lang sa cp niya tinawagan diba?  8)
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Re: Kumpadre or Kummadre / Kamag-anak System
« Reply #4 on: September 22, 2011, 01:43:22 pm »

If she's an immigration officer then she works for the government. Next time she tells you that sis sabihin mo you also "have a relative sa civil service" and that you can also have her ousted from her work for such behavior and threats. Ewan ko nalang kung di matakot yon. This kind of behavior from government employees are unacceptable.
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Re: Kumpadre or Kummadre / Kamag-anak System
« Reply #5 on: October 23, 2011, 12:23:22 pm »

When in this situation, gustong kong sumagot ng "ma'am, i'm employed in a private company. You may have forgotten, the tax withheld from my salary goes to yours.". This really irks me up, but just like what sis yhamslove said, i don't want to level down with them. Pana-panahon lang sis, minsan tayo rin nagpapadrino system, but what's important is that we are not abusing the favor given to us.

But when i'm transacting with a govt agency, i am really expecting for good service kasi ang laki-laki kaya ng withholding tax ko! Hehe. ...
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« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2012, 11:53:46 am »

i have this nakakainis na officemate.gusto ko na patulan minsan kasi parang nananaja na. dabog ng dabog hindi naman inaano. gusto ko nga sabihan na kung hindi na niya kaya trabaho niya mag resign na siya. kc dapat conscious siya sa mga katabi niya na baka maingayan sa ginagawa niya at baka hindi makapagwork ng maayos. kalalaking tao parang laging may dalaw eh. hindi ko na nga lang siya pinapansin kc mwawala lang akong focus sa work. ang work namin eh sa medical transcription so dapat tahimik ang environment. siya lang talaga nagdadabog sa team namin.
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Re: annoying officemate
« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2012, 02:07:17 pm »

Confronting this person may worsen things than do good.
There are 2 things you can do - tell your manager/supervisor or get in touch with HR.

Do it in a way na hindi magiging personal yung issues mo.
Be objective sa pagkakasabi mo ng statement mo kasi baka mag-reflect sa'yo negatively and baka lumabas ka lang na reklamador.

You can tell your manager or HR na may napapansin ka with the "officemate" and try to ask for advise on what you can do para di ma-affect sa mga nakikita mo.

Sometimes kasi ang mga ganitong instances sa office ay napapalaki imbes na naayos dahil sa mali or hindi pag-inform sa manager or sa HR.
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Re: annoying officemate
« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2012, 07:51:50 pm »

I think nothing beats talking to the person involved in an amicable manner.

I hope he does not get to your nerve often  ;)
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Re: annoying officemate
« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2012, 09:32:55 pm »

Kung hindi mo kaya i-confront, or wala sa team nyo ang may lakas ng loob makipag-usap sa kanya about sa behavior niya, bring the concern to your (or her...girl ba yun?) supervisor para siya yung magsabi sa kanya in a way na hindi nakaka-offend (well, supervisors and managers should have the skill to talk to problem workers, hehe).

You can also suggest your team to have a meeting and during the meeting you can all say each other's strengths and points to improve (parang teambuilding session).  Sa ganun, everybody has a chance to say anything about everyone else and all of you can also explain.  Malay mo naman kasi may pinagdadaanan pala na malaking problema yung tao and she might just need a friend pala.... :)
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« Reply #10 on: April 26, 2012, 02:27:59 pm »

Well how do I start.. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Sabi nga we can't please everybody.. specially pagdating sa trabaho.

Different people with different personalities.. ilan lang ang makakasundo mo or
magiging totoong kaibigan mo sa trabaho dahil hindi maiiwasan ang office politics
kaya dyan masusubukan ang tunay na samahan or makikilala mo kung sino-sino ang mga..

1. inggitera,
2. back fighter,
3. sulsulera,
4. sipsip sa boss,
5. doble kara!

sa mga officemates/co-workers mo dahil mahirap makatrabaho mga ganyang klaseng tao.

Ikaw.. may na experience ka na ba regarding office politics?

Share mo.. dito mo ibuhos nafeel mo for them =)

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Re: Office Politics
« Reply #11 on: April 26, 2012, 03:20:11 pm »

I agree sis 101%

hmmm... makapag vent out na nga!

Imbyerna ako sa isang kasama ko dito sa work.. napaka DOBLE KARA!!! pag nakatalikod boss namin
imbyerna sya sobra at kung ano anong sinasabi pero pag kaharap na niya, HALA!!! Good image sya te?? Naloka ako ng bongga sa kanya!

I dont have issues with bosses. Ive had 3 different office works already, oks lang sakin kahit mabigat workload.
ang hindi ko kinaya is yung ugali ng mga taong nakasama ko which made me left them..

1. Inggetera
2. Sulsolera
3. Backfighter
4. Sipsip
5. Nanglalaglag
6. Tsismosa

Halos kapareho lang ng sayo. Ive met different office monsters already, and I bet. Yung mga akala mong worst na sa mga ka officemates mo. mine are worser.. katakot!
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Re: Office Politics
« Reply #12 on: April 26, 2012, 04:50:13 pm »

ahaha! sis naku dami dito sa office namin.. kalurkey sila pero i don't care kasi wala akong mapapala sa kanila..tinatawanan ko na lang although before naku as in gusto kong gumanti.

share ko next time story ko but wag dito sa office baka may makabasa.. hehe
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Re: Office Politics
« Reply #13 on: April 26, 2012, 05:31:34 pm »

at natawa ako sa post mo sis haha!

hihintayin ko yan  :) masayang malaman na hindi pala ako nagiisa na nakakapansin sa mga OFFICE MONSTERS
diba sis?
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Re: Office Politics
« Reply #14 on: April 26, 2012, 07:44:16 pm »

Merged with existing threads of the same concern.

Please remember that the forum discourages posting materials that are defamatory and harassing a non-celebrity and non-members.
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