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hi moms out there!!! i'm a new member and been reading other posts and i must say people here are so helpful. so i'm wondering if any1 can help me with my little boy. he hits his cousins basta lumapit lang or even yung magkalayo sila lalapit pa sya para lang hampasin ang mga pinsan niya. wala syang pakialam kahit mas matanda sa kanya or mas bata. akala ko he's just like that to his cousins kc jealous but no kahit sa ibang bata ganun din siya. alam ko kung kanino niya nakuha ang ganung style sa isa nyang pinsan but how do i teach him not to hit others now that he's into that habit na. nalolokah ako sa kanya i've told him gazillion times na it's bad. tried keeping him away from the others once he hits one of them. tried locking ourselves up in our room na kami lang para madala at ako lang ang kalaro niya when he hears the others na happily naglalaro outside. wa epek pa rin, he'll promise not to hit anybody again but once he's out ayun parang nakawala sa koral. please help...
one trick is to divert his attention. then explain kung anong gamit ng kamay. at hindi ginagamit ang hands to hurt other people. effective sa son ko pero he rarely do it naman before. that's what we do sa nephew ko ngayon. ipapakita ko yung hands ko at kung anong magagawa o gamit ng hands. nagpi play din kami ng parang puppet, "talking hands" kunwari. he is amazed actually. & everytime na mananakit sya. hold namin yung hand niya tapos sasabihin namin "apir" or "high five". then tatawa na sya. wala na yung urge na manakit sya. yes it's normal for them to hit kasi they can't express their feelings yet. just be consistent sa pagreremind & diverting his attention.
true. every child is unique. there are diff'rent ways of disciplining our child. it may work to others but to some they do not. that's why it's important to be observant when it comes to our child/children's behaviour and interests. like for example, my nephews & one niece. my nephew 1 likes sounds. so ginagamit namin yan sa kanya to distract or divert his attention. binibigyan namin sya ng bote ng mineral water para pisil pisilin niya para mag create ng sound. my nephew 2 naman loves cars. so yun din pang distract namin(aside don sa nabanggit kong trick "talking hand"). sa niece ko naman she likes music. so pag nakarinig sya ng music nada divert attention din niya. namemelow yung temper niya. sa son ko naman he loves books, pictures & animals. we can be creative at samantalahin yung mga gusto nila para ma tame natin ang behaviour nila. & also dapat ina acknowledge din natin yung mga good behaviours nila. may hug or kiss pag good boy/girl sila.
Quote from: kalix on January 07, 2009, 05:38:44 pmtrue. every child is unique. there are diff'rent ways of disciplining our child. it may work to others but to some they do not. that's why it's important to be observant when it comes to our child/children's behaviour and interests. like for example, my nephews & one niece. my nephew 1 likes sounds. so ginagamit namin yan sa kanya to distract or divert his attention. binibigyan namin sya ng bote ng mineral water para pisil pisilin niya para mag create ng sound. my nephew 2 naman loves cars. so yun din pang distract namin(aside don sa nabanggit kong trick "talking hand"). sa niece ko naman she likes music. so pag nakarinig sya ng music nada divert attention din niya. namemelow yung temper niya. sa son ko naman he loves books, pictures & animals. we can be creative at samantalahin yung mga gusto nila para ma tame natin ang behaviour nila. & also dapat ina acknowledge din natin yung mga good behaviours nila. may hug or kiss pag good boy/girl sila. hay nako sis kalix thanks so much for these ideas, siguro kaya ganun ka sweetie si yuan mo
