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mamabonzai

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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #75 on: November 16, 2011, 02:31:11 pm »

i agree sex is important in a relationship...
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jubeken2005

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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #76 on: March 21, 2012, 10:27:35 pm »

I also agree that sex is important in a relationship... esp in married couples. Ako kasi napansin ko ever since na pregnant ako sa 3rd child namin tapos maselan yung pagbubuntis wala kaming time or chance to make love. Hanggang ngayon na 2 months na si baby wala pa din... napansin ko na parang may gap na kaming dalawa... :( Mas prefer niyana magdamag kasama ang barkada kesa sakin. Nakakalungkot talaga.., :( 
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #77 on: March 22, 2012, 04:36:35 am »

yes super importante ang sex sa relationship ng mag.asawa as it helps in connecting the communication gap most especially sa mga lalaking hindi kayang sabihin in words dun niya sinasabi.

heto yong na notice ko sa asawa ko, last year kasi was the most and hardest part of our relationship dami nangyari and trials came by 3x undoy strong...andun na ang communication breakdown and always on the fight pero it always boils down to YES always pag merong nag.aaya sa aming dalawa na mag making LOVE. dun ko na feel na connected pa din pala kami in all ways kasi sa heat at passion niya towards our love making. Dun mo mababasa kung mahal ka pa ba niya or hindi na.

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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #78 on: March 23, 2012, 02:28:35 pm »

@jubeken2005, it took us 3 months before doing it again so wag ka ma-pressure. Sex is just one way to communicate to your husband. Communication and affection doesn't stop even if you're not doing the deed.

Marami talagang mommies ang nahihirapan especially when their husbands ang parang hindi nag-aaya after giving birth. There's a need of feeling we're still pretty, if not prettier, after giving birth.

I think this is the best time to talk to your husband. If you feel there's a gap just because hindi kayo naglo-loving-loving, that's wrong. Don't take it against him just yet. Talk to him pero don't make him feel like hindi ka niya kayang i-satisfy.
This is the best time to talk about how you'd like to plan your family para malaman mo baka hindi niya masyadong priority ang love-making dahil baka puro financial stability ang nasa isip niya.

Pero since sabi mo madalas siyang lumabas, make him want to stay. Wag mong pilitin, dapat manggaling sa kanya yung mas gusto ko dito sa bahay, not just because he wants to make love to you but because you made a home for him. Siya yung hari at gagawin ka niyang reyna.

Try to see it from his point of view. A man not wanting to make love probably has issues. So help him resolve that issues and hopefully after nun bumalik na yung gana niya.
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #79 on: April 28, 2012, 12:09:55 am »

hi mga moms. ngayon lang ako nag enter sa topic dito. lagi sa bday! ahhahaha
anyway, i agree its important!

pero parang sa amin ng hubby ko natuyo na ata hahaha
ever since i gave birth mga twice pa lang namin nagawa ulit. magkasama naman kami sa bahay.
ewan ko ba.walang gumagawa ng move hahaha

pero syempre nakakamiss din.
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #80 on: April 28, 2012, 06:09:44 am »

Agree with everyone here.  :) Kaya lang since preggy ako bihira na. Wala namang restrictions, okay naman pregnancy ko pero umarangkada na naman yata pagkapraning at pagiging overcautious ni husband. It's a good thing naman kaya lang nakakafrustrate din.  ;D
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« Reply #81 on: April 28, 2012, 05:59:26 pm »

yup super important siya, intimacy is one of the keys of a good relationship with our partners...

sa ngayon, mga 2x or 3x a week na lang kami ni hubby, kasi pagod na siya sa pag alaga sa baby at ako naman sa work so nabawasan na un intimate moments namin, plus ako ang katabi ni baby sa pagtulog, si hubby sa lapag sa banig kaya bawas na hehe
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #82 on: April 29, 2012, 06:32:10 am »

it's important. it keeps the fire burning in your relationship.
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« Reply #83 on: July 14, 2012, 12:43:14 pm »

it's important. it keeps the fire burning in your relationship.

totally agree! its like a silent communications between husband and wife that keeps the relationship more passionate :)
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« Reply #84 on: July 18, 2012, 09:35:11 pm »

it is important lalo na before getting married. some woman may find me liberated pero may ibang paraan naman to keep virginity, like oral sex.. kaso pano kung walang satisfaction down there after you two got married diba... POV ko lang.
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« Reply #85 on: July 18, 2012, 10:41:07 pm »

yes it is important. It helps you to have a more intimate relationship with your partner. For some it is a another way to express and communicate to each other.
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #86 on: March 31, 2013, 01:19:39 am »

Yup i view this as important as well,kaya lang parang ako nlang may gusto,parang baliktad..ayaw na ni hubby, kasi daw may baby na...ewan ko ba,ayoko naman mamilit ng ayaw..kakainis lang.
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is sex really essential in marriage?
« Reply #87 on: August 01, 2013, 09:55:32 pm »

Hello sisses, askmko lang, ok naman kami ng asawa ko, kaya lang pakiramdam ko magkapatid na lang ang turingan namin...we are young couple with 1year old son pero wala na kaming intimacy in all levels..we are jusr parents, not lovers.we do not cuddld up or even kiss..sex is already out of the story, ang dahilan niya ako daw mah ayaw dahil we might got pregnant, maliit pa baby namin..madalas ako ang nag iinitiate pero na we-weirdan na din ako dahil wala talaga e.we can go on for months without it.
Iniisipnko lang na need ba talaga ang lovemaking, kasi okay naman kami, kaya lang parang platonic na lang talaga relationship namin.minsan iniisip ko in the long run, relationship naman talaga ang important dahil ang sex nagdidiminish as we age, kaya lang, on the other hand, ang aga naman, we are both below 35!
Just need your tso cents on this. Thanks!
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #88 on: August 02, 2013, 01:10:30 pm »

Same topics merged. Please use our Search too before creating a new topic.
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Re: sex is important in a relationship
« Reply #89 on: August 03, 2013, 12:30:30 am »

Hi michimac03,

I hope I can also share even though I am not a sis.

Sex and all forms of intimacy in marriage are very important.  For many, it is the very essence of existence.  To become one...and there's so much beauty in that.  To be together always...one spirit, one body...one flesh. 

In marriage, that is the time to express all those passion you have set aside...your embraces...your kisses...your every gesture of love...to that one person whom God has chosen for you to unite yourself with.  It so much about being together...side by side...skin touching skin...together...discovering depths, heights, breadths...the bounds of eternity.

Haay, ang problema eh with modern living ngayon...people have become less and less human...less spiritual...and more and more mechanical.  Akala, ang sex ay hanggang genitals lang...hanggang erogenous zones lang as dictated by popular media and culture.  Sex is a complete experience of body and spirit. 

For me it is so much about expressing your love through every kiss, every caress, every embrace.  It is a complete desire to share yourself wholly, to unite with the spirit of the one you love...by uniting your flesh!

Sis michimac03, sana mai-correct ang notion na para bang lahat na lang ng sex ay nauuwi sa pagbubuntis.  Kung bubuksan lang sana ang pang-unawa at alamin natin ang katotohanan tungkol sa human reproduction and fertility.  Mas maraming araw sa cycle ng babae na hindi mabubuntis.  Halimbawa, sa 28 Days Cycle, 5 days lang fertile....23 days ang safe.

Ang sex ay hindi lang para sa pag-aanak kundi paraan din para maiparamdam ng mag-asawa kung gaano nila kamahal ang isa't-isa.

Recommended videos and text:

"Sexual intercourse is meant to be a renewal of wedding vows."

An Introduction to the Theology of the Body: "How Can the Body have a Theology?"
http://youtu.be/lnDJDT0TSbE

An Introduction to the Theology of the Body: "The Language of the Body"
http://youtu.be/dUfTbBi1K0Q

Pope John Paul II’s Theology of the Body | “The Sincere Gift of Self” | Freedom, Truth, Gift, Communion, Dignity, Love...
http://www.jp2.info/Theology_of_the_Body.pdf
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