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Author Topic: Single-mommy-hood, what's your story?  (Read 39733 times)

alec_18

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« on: September 22, 2011, 03:27:51 pm »

hi mga mommies..sana happy pa rin kahit di sinwerte sa lovelife..i know may nakalaan si Lord para saten..question lang, why are you single, have been married and got separated or never been married, preggy pa lang ng separate na like me..:(..i don't know kung makikilala pa sya ng baby ko..
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cottoncandy

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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #1 on: October 13, 2011, 04:02:19 pm »

I am single and a mother by choice :) SD and I separated the day before I found out I was pregnant. So far, so good. Being in a relationship is not a priority. Super happy and contented with my baby.
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2011, 11:21:30 pm »

Proud single mom-to-be. :D

SD broke up with me nung naconfirm ng OB na preggy na ako - ayaw daw niya, di pa daw kaya maging tatay. two days later, sila na uli ni ex niya. Oh well, I think may idea kayo what happened in between.  ::)
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #3 on: November 10, 2011, 02:55:11 pm »

ako naman wish ko single nalang ako, kahit single mom ok lang, at least my baby ako, kaysa having a husband na wa naman care sayo.
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #4 on: November 22, 2011, 11:04:14 am »

proud single mom hehe


Mas pinili ni SD other woman niya kaysa sa amin ng anak ko..at 1st sobrang sakit nakakasira pala ng ulo pero with GOD's help and mga friends ko and  sa mga advice ng mga sis natin dito sa SP nkapag move on na ako pero hindi pa totally kasi pag naiisip ko pa ang mga ngyari at naiisip ko yung babae bumabalik lahat ng galit gusto ko gumanti gusto sabihn sa kanya kung gaano kasakit yung ginawa nila sa akin..wala na magagawa yun dahil pareho sila manhid at wala sila paki kung may na sasaktan sila na tao..kaya focus ko na lang sa baby ko na pinag kukunan ko ng lakas at inspiration ko..

darating din yung time magigiging free din ako sa lahat ng galit..




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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #5 on: November 22, 2011, 01:08:44 pm »

on my case ako yung other woman
the moment na i texted him that im pregnant- ayun tanggi si SD na hindi daw kanya

but since ginusto ko naman majuntis kaya okay lang

after i gave birth i texted him na nanganak na ako- he wants to come over but hindi ako pumayag

1st glimpse ni SD sa baby ko nong mag 1year old- he invited himself sa birthday

3yrs old na anak namin and 4times pa lang sila nagkita
we tried to work it out, pumayag ako maging other woman uli kahit walang sustento peru it didnt worked

just nov. 4. 2011 he finally ended it
siya pa my ganang magalit sakin
Single Mom Rocks  :D
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #6 on: November 23, 2011, 04:26:46 pm »

     My son is 1 year & 1 month when i finally decided to say goodbye to SD, mahirap i work out yung isang relationship na alam kong hindi na masaya yung partner ko and he's happy na with someone else. Actually during my pregnany were not getting okay parang were trying na maging maayos yung  relationship pero mahirap i work out kapag malaki na yung nasira especially the "TRUST".
     SD is not ready to be a father. He's not ready for the big "R" ( responsibility ). It's okay !! I can be a mother and a father to my son.... Go!!Go!!Go!!
      Ang sarap kaya ng feeling na nakikita and witness ka sa  every milestone ni baby. Lahat ng "first" andun ka sa tabi ni baby....
       Proud to be a Single Mom!!! Girl Power!!!! ;) :) ;)
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2011, 10:01:09 am »

@ sis Lizza agree ako sayo masarap talga yung feeling na w-witness mu yung bawat development ni baby tska unti- unti niya pag laki wala tulong galing kay SD..super fulfilling pakiramdam..  :)
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #8 on: December 12, 2011, 11:44:10 am »

for me naman bago ko pa ma confirm na i was pregnant nagkawalaan na kami ni ex. when i informed him about it he told me he didnt want the responsibility from then on it was decided that i will be a single mom. its really tough but i get by with the help of family and friends. no regrets coz i have a handsome baby boy now. im a proud hot single momma!!! :)
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #9 on: January 04, 2012, 06:43:06 pm »

i am a very proud solo parent to 3 lovely angels! :)

it's my choice... i realized that i'm not really at my best when i'm in a relationship, even with the fathers of my kids. i'm enjoying the fact that i can raise my kids alone, tipong wala akong dapat alalahanin na gusto ng kabilang side. it's not that hard naman kasi i have my mom & dad to ask advises from in rearing my kids. :D
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #10 on: January 19, 2012, 11:13:01 pm »

kasi our relationship is not right on every angle....pero im hoping na sana one day ibigay na sa akin ni God yung right man na mamahalin din pati anak ko like his own
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #11 on: January 22, 2012, 03:27:13 am »

I am single by CHOICE!!!! i don't want to tkae chances kasi, nagcclashed kami palage so might as well wag na lang di ba?? i am happy naman being single.. may lovelife naman ako, my SON...



Cheers to us, SINGLE MOMS!!!!  :)
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #12 on: January 25, 2012, 05:38:06 pm »

Most of the SingleMom are by choice. For sure sympre nag-iingat na sila. Mahirap nga naman mag invest ng feelings tapos in the end iiwan ka din ng irresponsible guy
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2012, 10:24:40 am »

despite of being single mom, I am so proud and grateful to have a daughter and supportive family around.

Pinili ko n lamang maging single mom kesa lagi n lamang ako mangunsumi sa kanya kaya iniwan ko n lamang siya sa palda ng kanyang nanay.mahirap makipagsapalaran sa isang taong walang "R" responsibility sa knyang buhay napaka easy go lucky p din niya despite all na meron n cia anak.

Ngayon mag 4 yrs old n anak ko sa  Jan 29, talagang naka move on n ako.Kahit makita ko cia deaad ma lang, magkasalubungan wala lang.Dahil wala naman cia sa aming buhay ng aming anak eh.

Bakit pa?

Sa ating mga Single Mom's, Go Go Go lang tayo meron nakalaaan sa atin...God Bless!
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Re: why are you single??
« Reply #14 on: January 27, 2012, 01:57:38 pm »

Hi fellow Single moms! 
Im single by choice. Mas pinili kong maging friends na lang kame ni SD, mas ngkakasundo kasi kami if we just remain as friends n lang. Saka ayoko magpakasal sa kanya, especially now na napaka-immature niya to the fact na mas matanda sya saken ng 3 yrs and napakairesponsable pa niya, kht p sbhin mong ok n kami pati sa parents niya, e ni isang kusing wala pang naiaabot saken cmula nung nbuntis ako.. At babaero pa sya. Di ako ttgal s kanya, di ko maimagine sarili ko kasi sa panghabang buhay.. And Ayokong ngpkastress s kanya.. And im proud to say i'm happy to be single and very excited for my baby. :)
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