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[Nanay Gez]

Hi mga sis!

Pansin ko may pagka-mahiyain ang baby ko... kapag may nakikitang bagong mukha yung anak ko, super natatameme, pero kapag naman kami-kami lang, ang gylo-gulo niya at ang likot-likot... normal lang ba yun sa mga bata? or kulang sa exposure yung baby ko? Working mom ako kaya every weekends i see to it na nailalabas namin sya. inilalabas rin naman ng yaya ko yung baby ko every hapon, at nakikilaro din sa ibang baby sa kapitbahay.. pero kapag mga new adult faces na... hiya na sya...

[johnjoyce]

my baby is turning 1 year old na this coming april. nung una, when he was 6 months and younger, napapansin ko na parang irita sya kapag may ibang kumukuha sa kanya like my friends, neighbors etc. naisip ko non, siguro sobrang baby pa kasi sya kaya kailangan niya pa si mama (ako) more than anyone else. tapos ngyaong mag 1 na sya, kahit hawakan lang sya sa kamay ng kahit sino, iiyak na sya kaagad. though may mga times naman na kahit complete stranger sa kanya eh nakikipag ngitian sya. pero kadalasan talaga sobrang suplado sya. ang takot ko lang, baka lumaki sya na wala syang friends. ganito din ba babies nyo?

[chubyswife]

expose mo si baby sa maraming tao..... wag yung laging nasa loob lang ng bahay si baby..... dapat may playtime din sya salabas ng bahay kung saan pwede sya makipag interact to other kids.

[denise2214]

share ko lang ang baby ko la akong naging problema....d talaga sya mahiyain........tingin ko kailangan i boost natin yung confidence nila .....kapag may mga games dapat ikaw man mami sumali ka sa mga games kahit ayaw mo......kc kung nakikita ka nila na nagjjoin ka....well tingin nila enjoy rin sumali....ready mo lang sya mami pag natalo....bka umiyak....tsaka pag nasa bahay kayo try to play games...para pag nasa party sya may idea na sya

[danegerous_429]

hi mga sisses!!!

well I'm happy to found this thread!!

my daughter is already 3 yrs. old pero she's doing good naman at home pro sa school medyo behave mahiyain sya ehh.,,

ano kayang dapat gawin para maboost yung confidence niya!!???

I want her to be confident as well of her capabilities

[fulltimemom]

uhhmm.. i think good idea din na i-enroll yung mga kiddos sa mga activities lalo na ngaun summer na para mas madami sila matutunan at marami pa silang mammeet na ibang bata..

[fulltimemom]

ako mommie ang ginawa ko every week talaga kami nasa mall minsan naglalaro sya sa palyhouse pag may budget pero pag wala dun ko lang sya pinaglalaro si gitna ng glorietta  kaya ngayon sobrang bibo kahit hindi niya kilala sinasayawan niya kasi ne-expose ko sya sa mga tao..

[Chie77]

that was also my predicament to my older son. i learned that he is just shy. so what i did, i enrolled him in toddler class and expose him to activities that requires interaction with other children. and now that he is an incoming grade 3 student, he has many friends. but he is still quite shy a little to people he just met. i think it is already his personality.

its the other way around with my one year old. he is very - overly - social

[ilovegabe]

Same topic threads merged.

[denise2214]

Sis,i boost mo yung confidence niya......purihin mo yung mga good things na nagagawa niya.....

[toughmom moderator]

6 Ways to help a Child Overcome Shyness

Learn factors that contribute to a child’s timidity and how you can help your child get over his shyness.



http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/toddler/development-child-care/6-ways-to-help-a-child-overcome-shyness

[davesant32]

pwdng naconscious po dhl sa asaran o inggit ng iba. Hindi malalaman hangga't wala siyang kwento. In the meantime, pwd po kayo maghanap ng bagong mas 'private' na hobby. Example: reading, drawing

[mayums]

My son is in nursery and is very shy. He doesn't participate in their class' singing of the national anthem. He didn't participate in their class' dance number last Buwan ng Wika program and just prefers to watch his classmates. On their first periodical exam, there were oral exams (memory verses and sounds of vowels) on which he didn't recite, which pulled his scores down.

He is not shy around us, his parents. He can recite the verses and alphabet sounds while we were reviewing, which he didn't do during the actual exams. Sabi niya, nahihiya daw kasi sya. We already asked him kung me nang-aaway ba sa school (at takot sya mapahiya), pero wala naman daw. We observed he doesn't like being put "on the spot"; like if someone asks him a question, he'll usually just smile and say nothing, or worse, run away from that person.

I was a shy kid myself before but I still participated during recitations. How can we help him?

[rianne_mallows]

hi sis.. baka your kid doesnt have friends.. meron man, hindi close.. ganyan niece ko eh.. ang ginawa ng nanay ko, (lola ng kid) siya nakikipagfriends sa mga bata and parents then iniintroduce niya yung niece ko..
she would also let my niece give gifts everytime na may birthday ang classmate kahit wala handa sa school. natatandaan kasi ng bata yun eh..
 kaya ngayon ok na... marami na siya friends

[Mommy France]

Feeling ko eto rin ang magiging challenge samen ni Miggy kapag nag-school na siya.
Kapag marami kasing kids, hindi siya nakikipag-usap. I'm not sure kung nahihiya siya or he just prefers playing alone.

Maganda yung suggestion na binigay ni rianne_mallows. Magamit ko nga kay Miggy.