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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #45 on: February 29, 2012, 03:39:13 pm »

I suggest you try to enroll her on those short classes (finger-painting, etc.) found on malls para may ma-meet din siyang ibang bata. Effective din kung try mo siya sa mga Play areas. Just make sure safe na iwan siya dun. And hindi mo naman talaga siya iiwan, didistansya ka lang ng kaunti and observe how she reacts to other kids.
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #46 on: March 05, 2012, 01:57:50 pm »

sis try mo enroll this summer kahit anong activities so she can mingle with other kids at first talagang ganyan yan mahihiya ako nga boy pa yung sa akin...pero nung ma enroll ko sa gymboree naging ok naman na sya though di pa sya nakakapagsalita ng maayos pero marunong na syang makipaglaro sa ibang bata kahit sa girl nakikipaglaro din sya..
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #47 on: March 12, 2012, 10:42:54 pm »

Sometimes kids aren't used to new people talaga so don't expect them to play games during birthday parties.

It's best to take her to other classes so she can learn to mingle with other kids. She just needs practice :) Hope it works and do keep us updated.
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #48 on: March 27, 2012, 12:23:50 am »

Sis, ganyan din yung concern ko kay cloie although mas younger siya sa baby mo. She cries whenever may kakausap sa kanya hindi niya kakilala or hindi siya nakikipaginteract with other kids. So what we did is we enroll her sa gymboree class and we are happy na we saw changes na sa kanya in terms of interacting with other people :)
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #49 on: May 14, 2012, 11:12:39 am »

I have the same problem 6 months ago with my daughter.  Kahit school program na group sila na mag-peperform sa stage wala din.  Tatayo lang sya.  Ang nakakainis, nag-eefort ka na bumili ng costume and everything just to see your kid stand on stage.

To solve this problem, I enrolled her in one of these workshops being offered to children.  Sinamahan ko na rin ng mga VTRs for modelling agencies.  After 3 months of workshop, and numerous VTRs, ayun big improvement.  Nag-peperform na sya sa stage and she mingles to children na hindi niya kilala. 

Medyo magastos and time consuming but it is all worth it.  I do not want my only child to grow timid.  Marami kasing opportunity kung BIBO ang bata.

You can also check my blog.

http://intrimididaatribida.blogspot.com/2012/05
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #50 on: May 15, 2012, 02:39:42 pm »

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sis, give me naman advice where to send my daughter for VTrs, modelling etc.. sayang din naman kasi ng talino niya  if mahiyain sya lalo sa school.. tska gaano b ka expensive to?? naku, baka hindi ko naman kaya :) pero gusto ko lang magka idea.. thanks in advance!
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #51 on: May 16, 2012, 02:24:14 pm »

interested din ako dyan sa mga workshop paano ba?

my daughter is turning 2y/o next month, sa house she is SUPER kulit, usi, active and noisy di nga namin mawari kung paanong hindi sya nalolobat. but when it comes sa labas may ilag factor sya especially if hindi niya kakilala. pag kabisado niya na yung tao dun pa lang lumalabas yung totoong sya. like dito sa office dun sa mga nakakabisado niya na ang mukha nadadaldalan niya pero sa mga bago niya pa lang nakita tahimik lang sya minsan nag tatago pa sa likod ko lalo pag yung pinag kukumpulan sya e araw araw ko pa mandin kwento sa office mga kasutilan niya ;D  lagi ko nga tinuturuan na pag binabati sya lagi syang sasagot ng "hi" and wave hands kasi alam na rin naman niya pero yun nga masungit lang din talaga minsan...
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #52 on: May 17, 2012, 12:33:59 pm »

ganyan din dati daughter ko, dati kasi sa bahay lang sya lagi kasama niya lolo at lola niya kaya ayun sanay sya lagi na nasusunod and yun nga hindi sanay sa ibang tao kaya nga nagkakalokohan samin na hindi daw mananakaw yung anak ko..nung napunta kami sa mother ko, may malapit kasi na day care dun ayun pinasok namin sya at first talagang ayaw nyang mag paiwan kaya ang nangyayari mom ko kasama din dun sa loob, katabi niya..hanggang bago matapos yung school year ayun medyo nasasanay na sya..nakakatulong din talaga pag pinag school mo eh tapos maganda din may mga kalaro sya like mga cousins niya atleast matututo din syang makipag socialize sa other kids..
nung lumipaty naman sya sa private school (for kinder) sinabihan ko na sya na dapa sasagot sya sa teacher kasi di sya makapasok dun..(sya din kasi pumili ng school niya dahil mga cousins niya dun nag aaral)
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #53 on: May 17, 2012, 04:25:30 pm »

Mga moms, try modelshop if you are interested na maging TVC model anak nyo.  You can check their web site:

www.modelshop.ph/

Yung workshop naman, the fee was about 5-7k.  Sa Nephite Talent Center ko sya pinag-workshop.  Staggered payment naman kaya carry na rin.
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #54 on: May 21, 2012, 11:49:43 pm »

my 3 year-old is also a shy kid, especially pag strangers ang kaharap niya. she's less mahiyain now though, after having attended summer classes, and mas receptive na sya to playing with other kids, dati kasi medyo ilag sya. although with grown-ups, may 'warm-up' moments pa din muna sya before niya pansinin, especially pag bago sa paningin niya yung tao. :) she also participates na sa games sa mga parties, kahit minsan kawawa sya kasi sya yung pinakamaliit, sali pa din sya ng sali. hehe.

sis CallcenterMom: ano pong activities ginawa nila sa workshop? :)

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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #55 on: May 22, 2012, 10:07:15 am »

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Singing, Dancing, acting and Modelling.  You can check my blog.

http://intrimididaatribida.blogspot.com/2012/05

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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #56 on: January 24, 2013, 10:18:58 pm »

Find out if your baby will turn out to be a shy child with these telltale signs.
Shyness Begins during Infancy

http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/kids/baby/shyness-begins-during-infancy
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #57 on: January 24, 2013, 10:26:14 pm »

Learn factors that contribute to a child’s timidity and how you can help your child get over his shyness.
6 Ways to help a Child Overcome Shyness

http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/kids/toddler/6-ways-to-help-a-child-overcome-shyness
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #58 on: February 12, 2013, 04:20:48 pm »

@ mika-madz: Price of workshops varies around 5-8k.  Modelling and VTRs free lang po yun.  You can go to modeling agencies.
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Re: How can I help my shy kid?
« Reply #59 on: February 12, 2013, 04:22:29 pm »

@ KVsmommy:  Tinututuan po silang rumampa, mag-act, sing and dance.
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