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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #30 on: September 14, 2009, 03:53:03 am »

naiyak naman ako back tracking and reading the msgs i have for my baby... i didnt realize i was hurtin so much... saka ko na lang eto lilipat sa blog site ko..

beh lapit na birthday mo!!! anak eto na naman,,, birthday mo na, ang gulo at di na naman kami makapag decide kng san cecelbrate bday mo.
ur lola mommy who is again will be our sponsor for ur birthday want it to be at home, gusto talaga magpagod kahit na 3days lang siya dito..
ur mommy joy will be here... sila yung mga taong nagalaga sau dati wen u were little, wala pang kakulitan at di pa nagsusungit...

my kulot i love you so much and nagseselos na ako ky mama inah kc u cry pag nawawala siya sa panigin mo, u cry pag di mo siya katabi, u whine pag hindi siya nagpapakain sau..

pano na si mommy?
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what is your message for your kids?
« Reply #31 on: November 05, 2009, 04:44:23 pm »


I love you and I would never leave you.  I will be a good mom to you forever.
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Re: what is your message for your kids?
« Reply #32 on: November 05, 2009, 04:51:49 pm »



sana they would grow up even not above the rest...
basta happy sila sa ginagawa nila...
and di naman yung tipong napag iiwanan...

with gmrc  ;D
and as long as kaya ko gagawin ko for them...
love u babies  :-*
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Re: what is your message for your kids?
« Reply #33 on: November 05, 2009, 06:53:44 pm »

SEAN'potpot ko..  :)
I admit you are still too young to understand things around you. I admit I was never a perfect mom to you, but I am trying to overcome my imperfections. I may be weak because I gave up my rel with your dad, but that doesn't mean that I am not thinking of you. The TRUTH is I AM ALWAYS THinking of your own good FIRST. It's not your fault or my fault if we separate ways. It's his choice. He chose not to fight for us. But I know what happened to us will not make you less of a person. I am here. YOur mommy, your bestfriend and I can be your girlfriend too. I know I can't complete that what they so-called "mommy-baby-daddy" family., but I will love you MUCH as your father can give you. I know you will understand all of this sooner. Mommy loves you so much. And always remember MOMMY's here for you. It's that simple.


ILOVEYOUpotpot ko..  ::)



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Re: what is your message for your kids?
« Reply #34 on: November 05, 2009, 08:27:53 pm »

^ naiyak aku...

kala ko bata lang... nanay na pla :(
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Re: what is your message for your kids?
« Reply #35 on: November 05, 2009, 08:47:22 pm »

^ako din naiiyak habang bnbasa ko :'(
 kulang pa nga yan. baka pag tinodo ko hindi na kayo makpagpost.  ::)
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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #36 on: November 06, 2009, 02:35:02 pm »

Sam,

I almost cried when I had the first glance of you.
I know most of the time I'm not with you. I am not the one taking care of you. But you see, mommy needs to work for you.
I might not be the best mother in world, I know I couldn't be, but I am trying to be.
But you know what, every single moment of the day I think of you. What's in store for you in the future.
When I see you smile, it melts my heart. I love watching you sleep at night as if I am watching an angel. I love the feeling or your warm embrace. It breaks my heart when you cry every time mommy always leave for work. I almost cried the first time you called me mama.

If I could tell God to give me all the pain you will be suffering in the future I would. You are mommy's most precious love.

I love you Sam.  :)
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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #37 on: November 06, 2009, 03:15:04 pm »

I just want to share this letter I wrote for my daughter sent to an e-mail address I created for her.  I did this basically for her to understand, on the right time of course, why she doesn't know her dad.  From the time I knew that her biological father would not be a father to her... i have always been bothered on how I would explain, in a way that she would understand, on how things are in her future. 

This is what I thought of... to write it according to circumstances so that she'll know that all my decisions are for her and its not a selfish decision.  On the right time, I would reveal this e-mail address to her.  i plan to write until that right  time.


Dear Louisse,

Hi Honey, this is mommy!  I am writing you on this day which you may be able to read in the future when you start asking question. I feel it is necessary for me to write for you to understand why you don’t know your biological father.  I have created you this e-mail address so I can send this kind of letters to you and let you know of this address, again on the right time.

We celebrated your 1st birthday last October 24.  I apologize for not inviting your father on that day because I don’t want him to catch everyone’s attention instead of you, my little fairy.  I am sorry to think that it is not necessary for him to be there because the party is a celebration of your first year of life and my 1 year of survival of being a single parent to you.  Believe me honey, it is so hard for mommy but you give me the strength that I need.  Your biological father was not a big help either, especially emotionally.  Anyway, your party was a success.  You were very adorable on that day.  All your clothes look good on you especially your gown.  Everyone loved the standee that Tito Raymond gave you.  The decors were so nice… thanks to Ninang Cecil and Tita Doc Malou.  You smiled at all your guests, you did not have tantrums.  Everyone thinks you are adorable.  I was happy  because I was proud of you growing up to be so beautiful.

To move on, even if I did not invite your father, I have tried to arrange a day for him to spend with you.  That was supposedly last Monday, October 26 and on your actual birthday, October 30.  Despite all the disappointments and frustrations I had with your biological father, I still insisted on this dates all for you.  To give him the chance to be a father to you. 

I really feel bad to say this to you Louisse, but your father did not show-up last Monday.  I tried calling him and kept sending him messages honey but he would not answer.  I made more than 100 calls but he did not answer any of them.   I feel a lot of pain for you honey but there is not much I could do.  I couldn’t stare at you for long cause I really feel bad to think that that man could do this to you again.  Yes honey, AGAIN.  Your Mommy La and Daddy Lo are angry too because they are really hoping he’d be a father to you even for a day.  There must be a reason but may be he feels we don't deserve to know and just allow me and ou, especially to feel some hatred on him.  His situation is complicated honey, but I always tried to understand so I don't think we deserve that kind of disrespect as a person... especially YOU!

You may think mommy is really stupid and a martyr,but yes, I am still waiting if he would show up on the 30th.  This is what we agreed upon anyway.  I am still hoping that there must have been a very valid reason for not showing up last Monday and he’d show up on your birthday.  Why with this hope, because you are still his daughter!  You must have some space in his HEART. 

Honey, unfortunately though, this is his last chance.  Like Ninang Cecille said, maybe he doesn’t anymore of those chances.  If he doesn’t show up on the 30th, please forgive me but I have decided not to be in contact with him anymore, not to let you see him anymore, no more chances.  It’s just definitely you and me now. 

Please understand that with his actions, he have made his decision, made his choice… the choice not be there for you and not be a father to you.  HONEY, YOU HAVE A BIOLOGICAL FATHER BUT HE IS NOT YOUR DADDY.  A daddy who would take care of you, a daddy who would think of your welfare, a daddy who would watch you grow, a daddy who would watch your plays in school, who would bring you to school, who would celebrate your birthdays with you, who would bring you to the altar when you get married.  Maybe at some point of mommy’s life I would find someone who’ll be a daddy to you but for now it’s just ME and YOU.  I assure you, we will be OK.  Mommy will do everything for you and give you all you need.  You do not need a man who has no love for you.

I will end here for now and write you again soon.  I hope by now you know I am doing this… writing you letters.  It is for your understanding of circumstances that led you to what you are by the time you read this.  Mommy may not remember everything too so just write as things happen.

I LOVE YOU HONEY, MY LOUISSE ANTOINETTE!

 

With a lot of love for you,

MOMMY

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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #38 on: November 08, 2009, 07:58:23 am »

beh the long period of waiting has been paid off, peewww , well thats waht i tought..
the  biggest question i ever had, finally been answered, however its very disappointing. as what i been told, i already knew the answer , im just denying it coz im still hoping for something else.

im so happy that dad already acknowledge you as part of himself and  trying to be a father, sadly things are not really meant to be.

you may not understand what im going thru , what me and your dad are dealing with... but anak i assure you we both love you.

beh i was given 7days to take good care of you , being sick werent bad at all.. i was so happy with the time spent with you, i love being a mom! i enjoy every moment , the opportunity to be bonded with you. i just hope we can live like that , but  have to go back to work.

luv you bebeh ko
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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #39 on: November 23, 2009, 05:36:44 pm »

Mga mommies i like this topic!! Pagdating kasi sa anak emotional talaga ako...!!!Kulang nalang 100% nakasupervised ako sa kanila, kaso im also a working mom, kaya i miss them so much, when i was still in the office.

Para sa mga kids ko...from PAPA & MAMA!!!
KAYO ANG BUHAY NAMIN..
 For baby Ethan & baby Aaron always be a good boy!!

WE LOVE YOU BOTH!!!!
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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #40 on: November 23, 2009, 06:04:43 pm »

naiyak naman ako sa mga letters dito
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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #41 on: November 25, 2009, 08:35:26 am »

Hi everyone! im new here. Here is a message i posted in facebook after my son's 2nd birthday =)


My dearest son,

In total, we have been together for 2 years, 9 mos and 2 days and all this time… the only thing you keep doing is to make mommy happy. When we celebrated your birthday last October 25, 2009 at Max’s Tagaytay, the host asked me for a message. I am sorry I wasn’t able to tell you everything I wanted to. Everything I keep telling you. Everything I keep telling myself while watching you sleep.

Mj, you have been 100x more than I expected. You are very beautiful…and up to now, mommy and daddy can’t settle our debate to whose responsible for your good looks.. which I know mommy will win no questions asked.. =) The first time I saw you… I thought you looked weird, ( I am sorry, please understand it was mommy’s first time to see a newborn) but still mommy loved how weird you looked like.

You have been a very very good boy to everyone especially mommy. I cannot remember a time I have given up on taking care of you. Mommy is never tired when it comes to you.

You have been very healthy. I thank God for this. While you were still in mommy’s womb. I keep telling God to please make you healthy. Okay lang kahit di masyado matalino, hindi gwapo… basta walang sakit… and look at you now… 2 years and the worst was sipon at ubo. Thank you God. Please let him stay this way.

You are so adorable. If I were to describe you… I’d say you’re very very friendly. Just like mommy and daddy… and that’s very good. =) you are the first one to wave or smile when you see people. You like playing with other people. You don’t cry when when others carry you and you’re not afraid of strangers. Although it scares me that you might be too friendly.. but still… very good anak =)

I love you Mj… I am excited to see you grow and at the same time I want to stop time so I can spend more time with you as a baby… because soon you’ll have more friends… more things to do… more people to love… and mommy feels a little selfish when it comes to you.

I will always love you for what you are and what you’re capable of doing. It’s alright that at 2 years old… you are only able to speak Mandarin or is it German anak? It’s okay sweetheart. Mommy will never push you to do anything you can’t or you’re still not ready to. Mommy will always be supportive in everything you wish to do just as long as its good.

When you’re older I’ll get you a dog… I know you love dogs.. just like you’re mom. =) I will not be scared to let you go out and play because mommy knows its fun. I will let you do things on your own… but mommy will watch you so I can help you when you ask for help and I will run at your side when you get hurt. I will not scold you when you do things the wrong way, or when you can’t do things you’re supposed to do.


I really don’t know how it is to be a good mom to you Mj. But I’m doing what my heart feels like. And my heart screams i love you. I may not do the best things when it comes to being a mom… I am sorry nobody taught me. But I’ll do what I do best… to love you…

I am very very proud of you Mj….madami pakong gusting sabihin…pero siguro… kahit hindi ko sabihin…malalaman mo din… =)

Mahal na mahal kita anak. Thank you for making mommy, daddy and everybody else happy.
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I'm excited to see you grow up and at the same time i want to stop time so I can spend more time with you as a baby... because soon, you'll have more friends, more things to do, more people to love and I feel selfish when it comes to you....

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Re: Message to Baby
« Reply #42 on: November 25, 2009, 05:20:10 pm »

Topic moved to then new "Words of Wisdom, Inspiration" board.
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Letter to Baby
« Reply #43 on: June 03, 2010, 11:53:24 am »

Hi SP Moms!  :)

Have you ever written or thought of writing a letter (handwritten) for your little ones? Something, hopefully, your child will get to read when he/she grows up? I did, and I would like to share it with all of you.

Please feel free to share letters that you've written for your child, something for them to read in the years to come...


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My Dearest Lucas,

As fate would have it, you came into my life about a year ago. Episodes of our first meeting as I first laid eyes on you were magical. You opened my eyes to a wonderful place, and indeed, I felt bliss.

Born eight weeks earlier than expected, you were then so very tiny. I remember holding you in my arms for the first time and experiencing the whole gamut of feelings from anxiety to elation and delight.

I couldn’t tell you how nervous I felt at the prospect of being a first time mom. It took a while for me to come to terms with the fact that I was a mother and was going to be one forever. There was so much to explore, things I never thought existed, and emotions I have almost forgotten I was capable of feeling. I finally came across things that I only read in books and watch in movies.

You have awakened another level of being me. You made me think about life in a different perspective. You made me think about life beyond my own and its consequences.

I have learned how a simple smile can turn my day around and how discovery is such a multi-faceted experience. You melt my heart every time you smile complemented by how you lay your head on my shoulder after a long day at work.

My baby, you have inspired me by just being you. The relentless effort you put into discovering the world and developing your [/font] skills in all its tiny variations have astounded me in more ways than one.

Every milestone of yours was a kind of personal victory for me. Your first smile, your first word, your first step…. I was just amazed and once again overwhelmed at what a little miracle you are.

Our world, it seems, is in a profound time of transition. I do not know what will come, all I know is that for as long as I am breathing, I will always be here for you. You can count on me for being there when you need support in all its subtle appearances, a hand to help you when you attempt your first steps, a hand to catch you in case you might fall.

Words cannot express how much I love you, my little prince. You are my joy, my sunshine, my heart, my purpose for being — my everything.

We live our life in phases. When one ends, another begins. Change is constant and life is short. So seize the moment and live life to the fullest, have no regrets.

Forever and Always,
Mom



*first published at http://leahguarin.wordpress.com/2010/02/.
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« Reply #44 on: June 03, 2010, 01:22:14 pm »

Letter to my son on his 2nd birthday.
http://greenmindedmom.blogspot.com/2010/03/happy-2nd-birthday-miggy.html

On this day, you become a 2-year old little young man. On this day, I too turn into a 2-year old Big little Mommy.

I admit I have not been the best mom for you yet. Still, I hope that you can be patient with me. You're growing up too fast and I'm trying to cope up with everything. You're always a step ahead from me. Maybe because I've always wanted the best for you that at times I don't even measure up to my own standards. Let's just say i'm a Mom in progress.

I still remember the first time I held you in my arms. And I said to myself, "So, this is what love looks like...".

When you came into my life, I knew I will never be alone again. I knew I will always have someone in my life who will never regret having me ; Someone who'll keep me from all of my fears and insecurities.

You are my life now. You are my strength. You are my everything.

Thanks for the first two years of pure bliss. I'm sure we'll have more.

Happy Birthday Anak.
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