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mitchmaegan27

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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #15 on: March 20, 2012, 04:10:24 pm »

salamat..need ko talaga ng encouragement.. nkakalungkot nga lang kasi yun din yung worry ko na kawawa yung panganay  kasi may kahati na siya sa atensyon..

minimum waged earner lang kami ni hubby and yung parents ko yung nagaalaga sa baby ko pag pumapasok kami..sakto lang tlaga yung sahod namin for us..kaya nammroblema rin ako financially..

sbi nyo nga hndi naman magbibigay si lord ng hndi ntin kaya..yun na lang pang hahawakan ko..

thanks mommies...sana may mag share pa ng ibang stories..
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« Reply #16 on: March 22, 2012, 09:32:31 am »

help mommies...Im preggy again..im on my 16 weeks now and probably i will be having my due date on early weeks of september..This is my second pregnancy and my panganay now is 9 months going 10..


hi sis! may pagka nega ka din like me.. hehe! sis, sa una lang yun kala mu they won't be happy pag nalaman nila! naku paglabas nyan for sure pag aagawan pa nila yan.. :) curious lang ako bat natatakot ka sa magiging reaction ng parents mu sis.. in the first place, may asawa ka, may work kayo.. nakadepend ba kayo sa parents nio? kung hindi naman, i don't think there's something wrong kung maaga ka man mabuntis or what.. ako nga SAHM lang din, maaga din nasundan si baby. But who cares? As long as kaya naman namin suportahan baby.. sabi din ng mama ko, 'bakit eh may asawa kang tao, natural lang mabuntis'.. :D Wag masyado mastress sis.. La naman talaga prob eh. :) Blessing yan, mas marami, mas masaya.. :D God Bless!
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #17 on: March 22, 2012, 10:44:23 am »

yup may trabaho kame pareho tapos iniiwan namin yung baby namin sa parents ko..iniisip ko sasabihin nila nagbuntis ka nanaman wala pang one year yung isa..dagdag alagain nanaman.. etc...
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #18 on: March 22, 2012, 12:01:09 pm »

tama... salamat.. I know naman sa sarili ko na hindi ako pabaya..i'll do my best para makausap ko na parents ko and maexplain ng maayos.. sana one of these days..sana lumakas pa loob ko..hehe..

Super thanks mommies!!
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #19 on: March 31, 2012, 10:19:08 pm »

same story. CS din sa eldest ko, 5months pa lang si baby nang malaman kong preggy na naman. Nakakatakot kasi parang fresh pa yung tahi so andun yung worries na baka bumuka or bumigay kapag lumaki na tyan. Buti nalang hindi ako malaki magbuntis so hindi naman ako hirap. Good thing is napaghandaan namin yung paglabas ng pangalawa namin. Oo, andun yung pinagtawanan kami kasi parang kuneho daw ang bilis magmultiply, pero meron ding iba na medyo nagworry. Buti nalang lumabas na healthy saka maganda yung anak ko kahit maliit, at least yung pangungutya nila sa akin napalitan ng "wow, ang ganda ng anak mo!"
I also felt the same guilt feeling sa panganay ko kasi ang aga niyang maging ate, hindi man lang niya naranasang maspoil ng konti, disiplinado agad kasi nga ate na, nahabag ako. On the brighter side, nhindi naman aiya lumaking malungkot kasi sabay silang lumalaki so may kalaro agad si ate. Protective din siya sa sister niya and she loved her. I thought that it was God's way of blessing us, para nga naman maging masaya si ate. :)
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #20 on: April 17, 2012, 08:19:11 pm »

Nung una, nalungkot ako kasi gusto namen ni Hubs isang anak lang pero nung lumalaki na tummy ko, na-excite na kami.. sobrang thankful ako kay Lord na binigyan niya ko ng second child. Naging mas bonded family namen. At nakita ko lalo ang hardwork ng asawa ko.. blessing talaga ang mga babies  ;D
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #21 on: May 26, 2012, 11:30:27 am »

^ sis me too. I hope na pag lumaki yung tummy ko maging kaya mo din ako na super happy na. hindi naman sa hindi ako happy. Pero siyempre, yung worries and fears mo financially, emotionally (dahil nga baby pa si eldest), at acceptance. Lagi ko na lang iniisip I must be positive.
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #22 on: May 30, 2012, 09:09:55 am »

^ hi sis! I super relate sa feelings mo although pangalawa lang naman tong akin.. siguro meron talagang mga girls like us na madaling magpositive konting palya lang sa birth control method na ginagamit natin..  :( nakatira pa din kami sa mom ko ngayon kaya parehas tayo.. yun nga lang, amin na lahat ng gastos namin at nagbibigay kami sa bahay so wala naman siguro siyang masasabi..

Advice ko lang, anjan na yan ee.. love the baby inside us na lang.. pag ganyang nasa tummy pa lang sila satin lang sila kukuha ng strength to be healthy and to live.. Kay Lord galing mga babies so I believe He will sustain your family.. Pag nanganak na lang tayo, dapat todo higpit na tayo sa family planning natin.. Hanap ka na lang ng business aside from your work para may financial support ka din..  :)
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not expected pregnancy is a blessing.. share your stories
« Reply #23 on: July 11, 2012, 03:02:58 pm »

im 27 weeks pregnant and very happy on having a baby in my tummy even if this is unexpected or unplanned..

di pa kasi namin balak magkababy ni hubby that time.. kc im studying pa in college..

nkakatawa pag naaalala ko yung time na yun..
alam mo yung feeling na walang namang mabubuo kasi regular ka at alam mo kung kelan ka dadatnan at alam mo na safe sex kayo that time.. jan 1 dnatnan ako then feb 1 hindi na..

then dumating feb 4 and anniversary namin yun tpos sabi ni hubby "natatakot ako kasi nanaginip ako sinugod daw ako ng buong angkan mo kasi buntis ka daw" then sabi ko "sa isip mo lang yan! saka hindi yun nuh!"

then nag pt ako tapos positive, mga feb din.. di namin maimagine ni hubby pnu nangyari yun.. kaya for me this baby boy is a blessing kaya love ko na to kahit di pa namin sya nakikita..

si hubby tuwang tuwa kasi nalaman niya boy to nung nagpa US ako nung isang araw pero dati takot sya ok narin naman sa family ko then next yr pasok ulit ako s school.. share ur stories naman jan mga mommies na may unexpected pregnancy
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Re: not expected pregnancy is a blessing.. share your stories
« Reply #24 on: July 11, 2012, 05:32:41 pm »

^ I just passed the Boad Exam when I discovered I was pregnant. I was 20 at that time, a fresh graduate and a new board passer. Si hubby naman gradutaing from college (transferee kasi siya kaya may mga subjects siya na dapat ulitin) Nung una, nagalit mga relatives ko pero nung nakita naman nila na kaya ako panagutan ng hubby ko at nasa mabuting kalagayan kami naging ok na rin sila.

Then last year, I gave birth to a wonderful baby boy.

3 months ago, I was diagnosed with PCOS. My OB-GYNE told me that I'm lucky that I already gave birth kasi mababa na daw ang chance na makapag-conceive ako because of PCOS. That's when I realized that God gave me my little angel dahil alam niya nagusto ko magka-baby and with my conidition right now, alam ni God that it will be difficult for me to conceive. Pinaaga niya lang, pero pangarap ko talaga na magkababy. Right now, I'm making sure that I live a healthy lifestyle para sa baby ko. gusto ko pa magka-baby girl kaya health conscious ako ngayon. Maybe in 3-5 years gusto ko baby girl naman.
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Re: not expected pregnancy is a blessing.. share your stories
« Reply #25 on: July 11, 2012, 07:40:34 pm »

I'm pregnant for a 2nd child.  I have PCOS, and that means I won't get pregnant whatever I do, although there are really fortunate woman who gets pregnant even with PCOS (tsamba?)

Anyway, I didn't have my menstruation for straight 4 months and it makes me feel sick, like may lagnat, or feeling may lagnat, etc.  I went to an OB for consultation.  I took medicines to regulate my menstruation.  I was planning to make it accidental pregnancy because I know I should be pregnant someday and I'm getting older... until I realized that maybe my husband and I are not ready for another child.  After 2 months of taking medicines, I actually stopped but I got pregnant even if I didn't take any medicines!

This is a blessing, because there are lots of people who doesn't have a child and would give everything to have one.

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« Reply #26 on: July 11, 2012, 10:39:29 pm »

I had ovarian cysts removed 9 months before i got pregnant (me and the father of my daughter been trying to conceive for about a year because we didn't knew about the cysts yet) :) the pregnancy was expected because my doctor told me to conceive in a year so that we can avoid not having anymore. :D Now my baby is 8 months old and I am so happy seeing her as a true miracle in my life :)
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« Reply #27 on: July 12, 2012, 08:57:14 am »

SInce the 1st time I started my menstration (Grade 6, 12 yrs. old) I was irregular. Minsan 5 months hindi talaga ako dinadatnan noon. I also was diagnosed with PCOS at about 22 years old, I am 27 yrs. old now. Sabi nila mahirap nga makabuo kapag may PCOS. Sympre natakot ako noon, gusto ko din magkababy. I was given contraceptive pills to regulate my menstrational cycle. Parati lang ako nagpray kay God na sana biyayaan niya ako ng baby if the time is right. He is the only one that knows when to give me a blessing. So I told my hubby before I get to 30 yrs. old we need to try and concieve.

Year 2010 my OB adviced me to take fertility drugs if we want to concieve. But I told hubby let's try normally 1st. So i stopped taking pills for 3 months and i didn't have my cycle as expected. Monthly I used PT to know if we concieved but unfortunately all was negative  :(. So we decided I go back taking pills and we just concluded that maybe God wasn't giving us a baby because it wasn't the right time yet.

Full year 2011 I've taken contraceptive pills to regulate my cycle. At the January 2012 I took a break on taking pills. I always do that after 1 year straight of taking pills. As expected again my cycle didn't come, but I never imagined I will be pregnant. At March 2012 routinely I took PT, I tought my cycle is coming becuase I'm experiencing pre-mens syndromes but no mens is coming. To my surprise the PT was POSITIVE ;D. For the 1st time I got a positive result. It was so unexpected.

I am now 24 weeks pregnant to my baby girl. It really is a blessing from God. He has given us this angel normally with out medication needed. God really is good  :D.

Sorry for the length, I just want to share my miracle  ;D
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #28 on: August 08, 2012, 05:12:04 pm »

will post here kapag confirmed na ;D
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Re: Unplanned Second Pregnancy, how did you handle it?
« Reply #29 on: August 31, 2012, 09:16:58 pm »

wow... I am also pregnant with our 2nd child. I found out about it nung 11 months old pa lang ang panganay namin ni husband.  Noong una hindi ko rin alam kung matutuwa ako o hindi. Ang una din na naisip ko eh yung sasabihin ng ibang tao. Alam niyo na macomment ang mga tao... hehe... Sinabi ko sa husband ko and he told me na andiyan na yan eh makakayanan naman din natin to. So kahit paano narelieve ako. Pero hindi pa rin maalis sa isip ko yung sasabihin ng ibang tao. Hanggang sa naisip ko, hindi lang naman ako sa mundo ang nasundan agad ang anak. At unfair kay 2nd baby kung ganito ang mararamdaman ko. Sino namang anak ang matutuwang malaman na hindi naging masaya ang mommy nung nalamang pinagbubuntis ka di ba. So, I gather my strength and really tried to be happy and think of the positive sides of my pregnancy. I was advised ng mga kakilala ko sa church namin na para maiwasan ang competition between sa kanila paglaki wag hayaang maintimidate sila o iprovoke ng ibang tao. Di ba may mga time na yung mga relatives natin o kakilala natin mahilig asarin ang mga bata na "naku, may bagong baby na si mommy. Hindi ka na niya love" o kaya "oh mas cute si baby kesa sayo"... yung mga ganoong katuwaan ba ng mga matatanda. Dapat daw sawayin agad ang mga ganun ang encourage the panganays to love and know the roles of kuya or ate... Kasi nga naman kapag inaasar yung mga panganay sa kanilang younger na kapatid may psychological at emotional effect yun sa mga bata at dun nagstastart yung mga competition o misunderstanding between them. Kaya talagang nag-usap kami ni hubby na walang mang-aasar sa panganay namin sa kanyang younger brother. Kahit mga sariling pamilya pa namin. The good thing about samin din kasi ni husband we dont let our families get too involved sa marriage and family life namin. Bukod kami talaga. Kahit mahirap atleast we have privacy ni husband. Kaya noong sinabi na namin sa kanila na we are expecting again... tahimik lang sila... hahaha...
We love our inlaws and respect them but we make sure na they know there lines.
Ngayon medyo kapos din talaga kami pero I always talk to my baby na everythings gonna be okay. Although si panganay talagang no clue pa kasi nga 15months old pa lang I try to ready myself na sa kanila. Like mga ganitong forums na sobrang nakakatulong sa mga mommies kung paano ihandle ang mga ganitong sitwasyon,
I also ready myself na sa mga hindi magagandang comments mula sa ibang tao, ready na yung mga pambara ko sa kanila.  Feeling ko kasi if I dont fight its like I am failing my baby.  hehe, ako lang yun mga mommies ha. )
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