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mami che

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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #45 on: October 17, 2012, 05:04:33 am »

Hindi ko hawak sweldo niya sis e. Pero i always make a list of what to pay & buy/expenses twing sweldo niya. Kunwari he will give me 15k first and he will say ito muna bayaran mo, grocery, etc etc... bukas nalang yung iba. So ang siste, i'll ask again tomorrow. Then kapag kulang ulit next week, hihingi ulit ako. Cant wait for the next sweldo na. Naglilist ako dati sis kaso kinatamaran ko na din (even details ng grocery) but dapat nga siguro ibalik ko yun para sabihin naman ni hubby na may concern ako kung san napupunta the money. Thanks sis chococream!
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #46 on: October 23, 2012, 02:40:27 pm »

Well siguro may pinag iipunan siya kaya ganon. or he wants to save din para sa future niyo. minsan kasi pag alam mo may money ka you tend to spend more unlike pag hnd mo alam.  Also minsan gusto din ng lalake na sila ang man of the house kaya ganun sila. Well try to talk to him since may list ka naman ng expenses eh i guess he should know how to budget everything.
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #47 on: October 23, 2012, 04:26:16 pm »

Thanks sis ninang!

Gusto ko kasi sana yung traditional way hehe na yung lahat ng sweldo niya, bigay niya sa akin tapos ako magbubudget at ako din magbibigay ng allowance niya  :D pero will try to talk to him din pero dapat ready ako sa question & answer portion  ;D
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #48 on: October 23, 2012, 07:02:35 pm »

uu nga sis, baka meron syang pinag.lalaanan ang pera. surprise kung baga.
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #49 on: October 23, 2012, 09:06:42 pm »

minsan nagiging problem din namin ito ni hubby kasi si hubby oo lang ng oo kaya feeling ko minsan napapasubo na siya kaka oo niya, although ako naman naghahandle mostly lahat ng salary niya and pinapakita niya din sakin payslip niya,meron lang mga biglaang gastos na nakaoo na siya tapos saka niya sasabihin sakin kaya minsan napag aawayan din namin yun kasi wala na akong magagawa kasi nga umoo na siya...i used to tell him lahat ng gastos down to last cent pero siguro nalula siya sa sobrang dami ng mga dapat bilhin bayaran, so sabi niya na lang " bahala ka na basta kung may maiipon ka gawin mo":) he never ask me na about san napupunta yung money kasi alam niyang may sagot ako and tinatago ko lahat ng receipt incase hanapin niya....

feeling ko kasi ang mga guys when it comes sa mga issue about providing sa family nila medyo hindi sila ganun kaopen, they like us to trust them na kaya nila tayong buhayin and kaya nila gampanan responsibility nila...kung hindi mo alam how much sweldo niya or he dont tell you, make a list na lang kung magkano binibigay niya sayo para atleast pag ng audit kayo may papakita ka sa kanya minsan kasi may sakit din sila na kalimot eh :) like my hubby sasabihin ganito padala niya last month eh hndi naman, ngpapatawa lang tapos sasabihin ay ganun ba...kakainis minsan.
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #50 on: October 24, 2012, 03:11:30 pm »

hi sis

yes sis hardwired talaga kasi sila na providers kaya sa mga ganyang money matters mahirap sila kausapin, para silang pochero, kung magluluto ka ng pochero kailangan mo pa silang palambutin bago makakain...ganyang naiisip ko now e pagkain well compairing na din kay hubz. hehe
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Re: Hubby not open when it comes to money matters?!?
« Reply #51 on: October 24, 2012, 03:33:09 pm »

kaya nga me trust nalang dahil NR din naman kung magsusubok ako sayang lang pagod ko haist  :)
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Re: Nagtatago ng money kay husband / away dahil sa pera
« Reply #52 on: October 07, 2017, 08:56:57 pm »

Alin kayo dito?
-"Si husband nalang ang bahala."
-"Ang akin ay akin, ang kanya ay akin pa rin."
-Isang account lang para sa lahat ng needs.
-Nagli-lihim tungkol sa pera.
-Magkaiba ng paraan at plano.
-Nangangailangan sila In-laws.

Money is among the top causes of arguments in Filipino couples. Here are 6 Conflicts About Money That Can Destroy a Marriage


Read about it here:
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/life/money/6-money-arguments-that-can-destroy-a-marriage-a1657-20171007-lfrm

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