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Author Topic: will you let your child know her dad?  (Read 28915 times)

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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #15 on: April 30, 2009, 06:20:07 pm »

Yes, sasabihin ko sa baby ko sino papa niya. Sasabihin ko kung bakit di kami nagkatuluyan. It's up to him kung ano na dapat mafeel niya towards his dad.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #16 on: May 04, 2009, 09:31:17 am »

my son turned 3 last january. sd and i last talked when i was a month preggy pa lang. til now no effort on his part to even get to know his son. well once i caught him looking at my friendster so i assumed he saw the pictures of my son pero never cyang lumapit. siguro sa hiya na din or sa takot na i will oursmart him na naman or ayaw makarinig ng sumbat. dati i send his pictures, tapos nung na ospital, i asked our common friend na itxt sa kanya, pero nada. no rxn pa din.

so yun given the case, ayoko na muna ipakillala si sd kay vince. though never ko tinago kay vince na may dad sya somewhere out there na hindi lagn namin kasama. and i showed vince sd's pics so yun. that's the most i can for now. pagod na ako ma reject.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #17 on: August 30, 2009, 02:50:19 am »

ako, ipapakilala ko anak ko sa dad niya, yun ay kung gusto ng dad niya. never ako nagmension ng bad things sa anak ko about his dad at pinagsasabihan ko din mama ko at nga kakilala at relatives ko not to talk bad stuff about my son's dad kung nanjan anak ko. I don't want him to grow up na may hatred sa dad niya.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #18 on: August 30, 2009, 08:46:35 am »

ako pinakilala ko,,kawawa naman mga anak ko kung di nila kilala dad nila,,,,ayaw ko mgsinungaling din sa kanila,,,,kaya pakilala mo siya at sabihin yung totoong situation para maintindihan naman nila,,,
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #19 on: September 03, 2009, 06:37:34 pm »

ako oo papakilala ko in the right time pro hindi rin naman sakin manggaling yung effort.
either he exerts REAL effort or pag laki ni baby maghanap sya.
I'll do it for my daughter and not for anyone else. I believe she has the right to know her birth father, kahit ano pa history namin.

i think i will agree with this... kung naghahanap na talaga yung bat eh! kung hindi maghahanap si baby migo, i will leave things as it is...
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #20 on: September 04, 2009, 10:04:00 am »

Pag nagtanong na siya or hinanap niya kung saan ang dadi niya. ipapakilala ko at ipapakita ko..

SD told me naman na pag lumaki ang anak niya ipakilala ko daw sa kanya....
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #21 on: September 04, 2009, 10:20:33 am »

di ako single mom pero kung ako yung nasa sitwasyon nyo siguro yes kung ok kami ng daddy..esp kung may sustento..kung hindi naman at talagang kumukulo dugo namin sa isat isa..kahit hindi na lang siguro.bhala sya sa buhay niya...
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #22 on: September 04, 2009, 10:29:06 am »

ako din po hindi single mom, hindi pa din ako mommy..
i think dapat lang po makilala ni baby kung sino yung dad nila..kasi sa mga movie sinasabi nila parang may kulang sa pag katao nila (sa movie lang ba talaga yun?)

at syempre pag nag effort din si daddy papakilala ko paano kung hindi nag effort si daddy tapos pakilala ko dad niya mega deny ang gawin niya..WAG NA LANG!!

dapat may effort power pa rin sa side ni daddd yoh!!
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #23 on: September 04, 2009, 01:23:38 pm »

why not??? its ur childs right... besides d naman ginusto ng anak mo na hindi nyo kasama ang dad niya.. nasa pag eexplain lang yan ang tamang pag gabay... my kid knows whose his dad is pero dpa naman siya nag ta2nung ng kung anu2?? takot lang tau aminin sa sarili natin na what if ganito ang sabhin ng anak q or what if magalit ang anak q and so on and so.. but mommy right pa rin ng anak mo makilala ang dad niya... just have the right word lang kung panu mo iintroduce ang dad niya.... never mo dapat isaraan ang dad niya sa anak mo dahil kasiraan din yung ng kid mo.. hayaan mo ang anak mo ang kumilala sa tunay na ugali ng dad niya...

goodluck!!  ;) ;D
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #24 on: September 04, 2009, 02:09:57 pm »

Nope.  I will not let my child suffer the same thing as what his Dad did to me.

When the time comes he asked about him, i will answer truthfully.  The dad should find a way to his child, not the other way around.  Kung ayaw sa kanya ng daddy niya malalaman din ng bata yun eventually. 

This is case to case basis, but for me to avoid complications i'd rather not do it.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #25 on: September 07, 2009, 11:42:47 am »

ako gus2 ko mameet ng baby ko dad niya.. the problem is walang effort yung Dad niya e... so ayoko naman ipilit yung baby ko di ba... nagpapadala ko pics wala naman sya sinasabi... siguro nga may mga tao talagang walang pakialam kahit anak nila un...
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #26 on: September 08, 2009, 04:08:47 am »

ako gus2 ko mameet ng baby ko dad niya.. the problem is walang effort yung Dad niya e... so ayoko naman ipilit yung baby ko di ba... nagpapadala ko pics wala naman sya sinasabi... siguro nga may mga tao talagang walang pakialam kahit anak nila un...


ganon din si sd ko sis, nong newborn si bebeh ko i send him pic but wlang comment.
pinilit ko xang magmit sila ni baby wen sd went here sa mnila, nagkita nmna sila but dats the 1st and last meeting... although kami ni sd tuloy pa rin ang date date un nga lang ayaw niya na dalhin si baby kc daw mapapagod lang at di rin mageenjoy and bata kc months old pa lang naman
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #27 on: September 09, 2009, 07:48:39 pm »


I dunno....
sad.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #28 on: September 09, 2009, 08:21:29 pm »

my asawa ako pero pwede b mgcomment?

4 me, in case nngyari skin un. d ko talaga ipapakilala as in never ever! kahit mghnp p yung anak ko, kung hnpin mn niya at d naman siya kilalanin, so ano lang ginwa ko?, sasaktn ko lang siya. hyaan ko n lang n mgkrus lndas nila. pero kung ako tatanungin,.....

"kung tinalikuran k ng nkbagsak k at tumayo k mgisa ng wlng lingon niya, bumngon at tumtg kng wala siya. ano p ang saysay n lumingon xang mlks at nktyo k ng magisa? " diba?

 
sa mga tatay ng mga btng tinlikuran nio...eto lang msasabi ko...

mgsaya k mn ngayon,bukas gang pagtanda,
ang pagtlikod mo sa responcblidad kelanman hindi mgigng tma.
mgsya k mng kinklimutn ang bata,
pag naghihingalo k n ay wag kng hihingi ng awa.
ang pagpapatwd ay xang nkakaluwag ng dibdib,
pero ang ginwa mo ay hbngbuhay ng pampckip ng dibdib,
lumya k at wlng pipigil
pero sa paglingon mo, wala n ring nktigil.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #29 on: September 10, 2009, 07:28:23 am »

my asawa ako pero pwede b mgcomment?

4 me, in case nngyari skin un. d ko talaga ipapakilala as in never ever! kahit mghnp p yung anak ko, kung hnpin mn niya at d naman siya kilalanin, so ano lang ginwa ko?, sasaktn ko lang siya. hyaan ko n lang n mgkrus lndas nila. pero kung ako tatanungin,.....

"kung tinalikuran k ng nkbagsak k at tumayo k mgisa ng wlng lingon niya, bumngon at tumtg kng wala siya. ano p ang saysay n lumingon xang mlks at nktyo k ng magisa? " diba?

 
sa mga tatay ng mga btng tinlikuran nio...eto lang msasabi ko...

mgsaya k mn ngayon,bukas gang pagtanda,
ang pagtlikod mo sa responcblidad kelanman hindi mgigng tma.
mgsya k mng kinklimutn ang bata,
pag naghihingalo k n ay wag kng hihingi ng awa.
ang pagpapatwd ay xang nkakaluwag ng dibdib,
pero ang ginwa mo ay hbngbuhay ng pampckip ng dibdib,
lumya k at wlng pipigil
pero sa paglingon mo, wala n ring nktigil.
Sis, this is soo true!! I am a single mom also but in this case I won't ever allow my daughter to see or even glanced his SD.. He made me miserable he even insisted na i-abort ko yung baby then nung pinanganak ko an baby ko sabi niya magsama kami at iwan ko ang baby sa parents ko. No way! Then nawala ng parang bula. I didn't try to communicate tapos pag kita ulit sa frndster eh aba ang ga** my iabng anak pa at older pa sa anak ko! There is no way talaga na mkilala niya SD niya I know in God's time he'll give my baby a dad yung father image talaga dadating din yung right time na God will give me a family at mamahalin and tatanggapin kami ng daughter ko.
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