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YSSA™

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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #75 on: December 16, 2011, 11:36:57 am »

^I f i were you sis, I won't name my son after his dad. :) Di naman kayo kasal e, para in case kailangan ng consent, dka na mahihirapan mghagilap sa kanya, pag kase kasurname niya, mahihirapan ka lang, pano kng magabroad kayo bigla diba? :) you can't bring the baby without the consent of the father , okay lang sana kung laging buhay yang mga SD na yan e :D
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #76 on: January 19, 2012, 09:25:26 pm »

when SD asked me what i want i told him these.. "simple lang gusto ko. mapuyat ka sa pagpalit ng diapers or magtimpla ng gatas,  gusto ko makalaro mo c baby, maghatid-sundo sa school, present sa mga school activities, maging 1st dance sa debut, mangilatis sa mga manliligaw,magbigay ng advice kapag kailangan, maghatid sa altar."... gusto ko meron silang precious memories ng baby ko, kahit hindi na ako kasama. yan sagot ko sa kanya nun una. pero ngayon nag-iiba na isip ko... saka ko na iisipin kapag nagtanong na c baby. enjoy ko muna yung time namin ngayon.
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #77 on: January 19, 2012, 11:01:29 pm »

Share ko lang...nung buntis ako nung napag usapan namin ni SD yung about sa pagpapakilala...sinabi niya before na ipakilala na lang siya as uncle....ngayon ko lang na realize na wala pala siya talagang pakielam sa amin...ugh...i just hate myself for being stupid..pero I am grateful na God gave me my daughter...sana lang magkaron na kami ng closure (w/c he hates hearing)
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #78 on: July 20, 2012, 11:47:10 am »

may disadvantage and advantage pag pnkilala c baby sa daddy... hihi
in my case kc... kilala naman ng bata yung dad niya though 1 1/2 year old p lang siya ng huli niya makita ng personal ang ama...
ng ngkita sila 2 months ago negative ngyari...
akala ko babait anak ko kc feeling ko isa sa rason bat matigas ulo ng baby ko kc kulang... kc walang dadi...
ng ngksama sila ult once... ay ncu mas tumigas ulo dahil ang ama bgla n siya tinaguan...
his dad's not answering his phonecalls in the office, he even change his cell#... *bad dad talaga, gggrrrr*
advantage is hndi na ako nhirapan iexplain sa bata kung ano tunay na ugali ng dad niya coz now he hates his dad
for these things to him... wawa naman baby ko...  :'(
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #79 on: September 10, 2012, 08:46:14 am »

Haaaaaaaaaay mga sis. grabe naiyak naman ako sa kakaback read dito  :'(

ganyan din ang pinagdadaana ko ngayon..
si SD si baby nalang talaga ang gusto. alam ko yun. kahit hndi niya sabhin
nagkaGF na sya ng iba.  buntis plng ako nun. tapos nun nanganak ako. ayun, sinabi ko sa gf niya. nagbreak sila.
pero nagkabalikan din..nagiging okay din kami ni SD nun mga nakaraan dahil nga sa umasa asa pa ako. paasa din kasi sya.(pinaka kinaiinisan kong ugali niya) di niya ako kayang dretchuhin..

I've decided na ipakita si baby kay SD kasi even tough hindi sya naging Good BF sken before. gusto ko pa din sya bigyan ng change na maging good father sa anak ko.. alam ko na mahal niya talaga baby namin..

magbi-birtday na baby ko nextweek..
kaya lumuwas sya.. luluwas din parents niya.
yesterday we went to mall kasi binilihan niya ng damit baby namin for the party.. ang hirap pala mga sis noh.. ang sakit.. naramdaman ko talaga kahapon na si baby lang talaga concern niya.. kaya ko naman pero siguro after ng birthday. iwas muna ako. kelngan niya maintindihan na hindi naman madali sa akin to. kaya bigyan niya muna ako ng time para totally maka-move on. sana talag dumating na yung araw na yun. para wala ng pain :(


pero napansin ko lang din. after kong mabasa mga post nio, swerte na pala ako kay SD sa lagay na yun. kasi yung iba wala talaga eh.. hay. dapat sa mga ganoong lalake di na magka anak ulit. at tumanda mag isa. naku!!
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #80 on: September 15, 2012, 02:53:08 am »

in my part nagiisip pa ako kasi nung nagsisimula ang pregnancy susuportahan daw niya at tutulong sa pagpapalaki, nung malapit na ako manganak hati daw kami sa gastos,  a wk after ako manganak accidentally kaming nagkita at mag-uusap daw kami re sa anak niya...well...wala namang nangyari sa lahat ng binitiwan niya at ang magaling na lalake nalaman ko from her current gf na itinanggi niya na siya ang ama...so ano sa tingin niyo?

4mths pa lang naman ang angel ko so i still have years to think... ;)



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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #81 on: September 15, 2012, 07:54:33 am »

Right now im 34 wks pregy & wala ko balak ipakilala sa baby boy ko ang daddy nyang soooobrang irresponsible na iniwan na lang kami out of the blue. Sasabihin ko sa anak ko ang totoo, no sugar coating at bahala na sya kung magalit sya sa daddy niya or not.
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #82 on: September 15, 2012, 12:11:56 pm »

Hi guys! im back!!!
after almost 3 yrs ngaun na lang ako ulit nag Online..

Sa ngaun, I am a better person.. MUCH BETTER after healing wounds from being a singlemom 4 yrs ago up to present!! IF my son will look for his Dad/SD Ko..Y not! mahirap ang i deprive ang kids :)
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #83 on: October 11, 2012, 06:33:11 pm »

yes sis i will let my anak know her dad.  to be whole siguro for her, to know her past and to move forward -- these are all benefits for the anak.  parang kay steve jobs, kahit ampon daw sya, pinaalam pa rin ng nag ampon sa kanya yung tunay nyang magulang kaya altho may parang emptiness in his heart, parang napunan na rin kahit papaano nung nalaman niya kung kanino sya nanggaling.  pwede rin kasing alam ng anak ko, pero hanggang doon lang, hindi namin ipagsisiksikan sarili namin sa kanya kung ayaw ng real dad niya.
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #84 on: October 11, 2012, 08:22:34 pm »

well,, I will let her know her dad, kasi kahit naman anong gawin nating baligtad ng Mundo, hindi natin maipagkakaila na sila pa rin ang ama..  nung buntis ako nasabi ko rin na hinding hindi ko ipapakita sa ama niya ang anak ko, But everything had changed when my daughter starts asking me Where and why  questions..
But then again its between father and daughter relationship nalang.. at tsaka, sa case ko,, mahirap makita ang taong ayaw magpakita..
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #85 on: October 28, 2012, 08:55:35 pm »

One of my best friends got pregnant after a one night stand with a guy from her office. Nung sinabi niya na buntis siya, the guy suggested for her to get an abortion. From that moment, she decided not to have anything to do with the guy anymore. Her baby is now 3 years old and my friend has no intention of introducing her to the dad. I guess it depends on the circumstances.
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Re: will u let ur child know their dad?
« Reply #86 on: April 10, 2013, 04:50:19 pm »

ako oo papakilala ko in the right time pro hindi rin naman sakin manggaling yung effort.
either he exerts REAL effort or pag laki ni baby maghanap sya.
I'll do it for my daughter and not for anyone else. I believe she has the right to know her birth father, kahit ano pa history namin.

correct! ganun din po balak ko eh... kung gusto ng anak ko na makilala papa niya pag dating ng time ay ok lang kasi karapatan niya yun...
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #87 on: May 07, 2013, 03:34:57 pm »

Based on my experience, i think it is right for you na imention mo sa kanya ang name ng tatay niya.  At least alam ng bata na may tatay sya hindi niya lang nakakasama. 

Kasi ako never akong nagmention about sa tatay niya.  So lumaki sya na may uncle's niya lang ang kinikilala nyang tatay niya.

Nun time na nameet niya ang tatay niya, sobrang tuwang-tuwa sya at nagboost yun ng kanyang personality.  Meron naman daw pala talaga syang tatay.

Mahirap for us kasi kahit na anong sama ng Tatay nila, they still have the right to know sino ang tatay nila.
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #88 on: July 12, 2013, 03:26:45 pm »

madaling sabihin na 'it's okay na makilala ng bata yung tatay niya' lalo na pag wala ka sa sitwasyon.

kanya kanya tayo ng pinagdadaanan. well ako, I know the father of my baby for a very long time.. and when I got pregnant, wala na.. hindi niya daw kaya. still, sabi ko sa sarili ko 'baka naman pwede pa kami maging magkaibigan kahit para sa bata lang' but when he started denying the baby.. hindi na ko nagdalawang isip na hindi sila magkakilala. siguro one day. bahala na. madami pa naman pwedeng mangyari. I'm 4 months pregnant now and worst is magkalapit lang kami ng bahay kaya kahit anong tago ko sa bata, baka magkita pa rin sila.. bahala na. :)
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Re: will you let your child know her dad?
« Reply #89 on: July 13, 2013, 03:30:47 pm »

kapag hinanap ng baby ko dun ko na lang ipapakilala yun totoong tatay niya. , pero parang magiging complicated din kasi yun mismong tao hindi naman nagpapakita
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