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annamariemomof3

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i have always been flat chested and i was ok with that nung single pa ako katwiran ko take it or leave it pero when hubby admitted that he likes big breasts and can't help but stare at them i was really hurt and insecure. especially now that we have three kids and my body has changed a lot lalo ako nainsecure. i am afraid that he will cheat on me again
« Last Edit: October 30, 2011, 09:31:27 pm by Tiger Lily »
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mama louj

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Re: insecure about cup size
« Reply #1 on: October 25, 2011, 11:16:39 pm »

sis cheer up :) wag kang magpadala sa emotions mo,it will just give you wrinkles ;)

Starting now, pamper yourself and love yourself first ...so you can make yourself feel better... as an  SAHM ,we must be proud of ourselves...we must think positive no matter what...

I have a friend who is flat chested but she carry herself well kahit flatchested...so kaya mo rin yan sis...everyone of us meron kanya-kanyang asset, naniniwala akong meron ka rin so show it off ;)

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Re: insecure about cup size
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2011, 08:05:55 am »

do not focus on what you don't have, focus on what you have...this is my motto ;Di admit insecure din ako for having small cup size  ;D but i realize na may mga bagay na meron ako
na wala sa mga babaeng may malaking cup size..kaya dun na lang ako nagfofocus sa kung ano meron ako,
in this way, di na ako nakakaramdam ng insecurities ;)

I agree with mam louj, pamper yourself & love yourself, discover what do you have that could be more than having a big breasts..and like what mama louj mentioned, SHOW IT OFF, sis ;)

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Re: insecure about cup size
« Reply #3 on: October 26, 2011, 08:58:50 am »

lol sis, keri mo yan! ako din hindi malaki boobs pero keri lang, nabanggit mo na ba kay mister na insecure ka sa breast size mo? sinasabi ko kay mister na ang liit ng boobs ko pero laging sagot e "perpek nga sya sakin!"  ;D at di daw sya mahilig sa malalaking boobs  ::) (pero tingin ko echos niya lang to para di na ko ma-insecure pero it works ;))

tama mga sis natin, kung ano yung meron ka, yun ang pakita mo, feel good sis & you'll look good, may kakaibang glow kasi pag confident tayo lalo na sa appearance natin
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Re: insecure about cup size
« Reply #4 on: October 26, 2011, 02:15:51 pm »

Naku sis, flat chested or not, our husband should appreciate what our momma gave us!  ;) Anyhoo, if you still feel bad about it, wear clothes na lang na bandang chest area ang emphasis. Alam ko may mga clothes na ganun eh, pero classy ang dating, di malaswa. Pati push-up na lang ng bongga.

Another thing, like all the mommies said, focus on what you have. I'm sure all of us eh biniyayaan ni God in other ways than boobs. I'm sure may mga other body parts that your Hubby likes sayo. Focus on that na lang, be confident with what you have. :) Malay mo, you have very sexy legs pala or shapely butt... or nice shoulders...  ;)
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Re: insecure about cup size
« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2011, 07:34:23 am »

Hubby likes big breasts also and I'm just 72A in size.  But I was never insecure with my size. Ayaw mo nun? Forever teenager ang size mo? hehe

But I can proudly say, I have a 17 year old breast and a 12 year old "down there" (well shaven kasi). So ano pa ang hahanapin niya?

He may look at other women, it's normal. What's important is his still 'feeding' on yours.
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #6 on: November 03, 2011, 01:58:08 pm »

Ako din sis 28A size ng bra ko.  Lagi pa kong inaasar ni hubby na yung mga ex niya daw malalaki yung breast at ako daw ang pinakamaliit, pero in a joking manner. Nakakainis, pro dinadaan ko nalang sa pangaasar. Kasi pag pinatulan ko lalo pa kong aasarin nun. Tska tanggap ko naman na maliit talaga breast ko. Iniisip ko nalang na pag naging artista ko sa Hollywood mas mabenta ang flat chested! haha. Ambisyosa lang!
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #7 on: November 03, 2011, 03:38:49 pm »

For me, the best thing to do is talk to your hubby. Tell him na medyo nalungkot ka sa sinabi niya at nag-aalala na baka he might look for other woman... Then wait for his reply kung ano ang sasabihin niya
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #8 on: November 03, 2011, 04:54:55 pm »

sis ang insecurity na sa isip lang yan...labanan mo... ako nung dalaga pa na meet ko si hubby ,36b ,inamin naman niya gusto niya big breast,eh now kaka pa stop ko lang bf sa bunso namin naku naging 32a nlang breast ko,ask ko sya kung masagwa sagot niya ,"ganun tlaga,mommy ka na eh,ok lang yan" see ...our partners love us kahit ano pa size ng but at breast natin...besides hindi naman nasusukat sa palakihan yan nasa performance yan...ahaha...pinapatawa lang kita sis annamariemomof3.
sis mag pa beauty ka,pamper mo sarili mo at think positive ,lalabas sa aura mo ang ganda pag lagi ka happy...
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #9 on: November 03, 2011, 05:09:58 pm »

ako din after breasfeeding for i year and 6 months as in ang boobs ko ang una kong hinanap...feeling ko nawala eh,eh yun pa naman ang pinagmamalaki ko since di ganun kalaki but di ganun kaliit but now,maliit na sya though since dalaga ako eh di ko alam yung cup size ko....

Before di ko na sya hinahayaang lambingin ni hubby kase nga maliit na sya pero when I told him na maliit na,He said of course "Mommy ka na eh"he had naman daw yun nung di pa ako mommy so nawala lahat ng insecurities ko nun....Naku mare,kung lumiit man yan well maganda ka naman,at lalo kang paganda para di na mapansin yan ni hubby dahil mukha pa lang ulam na....

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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #10 on: November 03, 2011, 05:44:51 pm »

Hindi naman kasi lahat ng guys sa boobs ang focus e. :) Think positive! Hehe.
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #11 on: November 03, 2011, 06:58:06 pm »

mukhang mga flat chested ang mga sumasagot kaya magco-comment na rin ako.
kung meron man union ang mga flat chested dito sa office namin, ako presidente, kasi mukhang ako lang talaga ang hindi nabiyayaan...   ;D ako lang ang sole member.

wala pa naman nabanggit sa 'kin si hubby na mas prefer niya ang big boobies.. takot lang non sabihin sa mukha ko kasi alam nyang kekembutan ko sya ng bongga. hehe.. kidding aside, dati insecure din ako sa mga "mas biniyayaan", pero mas marami akong narinig na complain na mabigat daw magkaroon ng malalaking boobs... yung iba nga nakukuba pa... yung iba naman, nahihirapan maghanap ng damit... kaya sabi ko, nasa pagdadala lang talaga ang pagiging sexy... saka attitude.

sabi ng theology prof ko nung college, "you must accept what you are by acknowledging what you have."
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #12 on: November 03, 2011, 06:59:25 pm »

LOL  ;D. Flat chested din ako pero i never wished na lumaki size ng boobies ko. I'm ok and proud of my size feeling tween at hindi center of attraction ng kamunduhan hahaha. I never get insecured nung nagkababy ako medyo lumaki naging cup B pero liit pa rin, keri lang may dream bra and underwire bras naman. Kahit alam kong napapatingin si partner sa malalaki size deadma ganun talaga eh you can't have it all atleast i am blessed with nice balakang and behind naks! ;D
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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #13 on: November 03, 2011, 07:49:07 pm »

hi sis!! don't be insecure... We are not perfect but in our husbands eyes we are perfect for them... Sabi nga ng ating mga ka sis moms, normal lang sa lalaking tumingin sa iba (as in tingin lang) they can appreciate beauty kasi but that doesn't mean na ipagpapalit ka na niya...  :) :) :)

I'm 36b in size, admitted din naman si hubby na attracted din sya don pero it's not the main reason why he loves me.. ^_^ Bawiin nalang sa ibang bagay sis...  Aanhin ang boobs kung di naman malambing at caring sa hubby diba??

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Re: I became insecure about cup size when hubby admitted he like big "ones"
« Reply #14 on: November 05, 2011, 07:58:10 am »

sabagay may mga point kayo. when the time comes naman gravity will take it's toll and di apektado ang mga flat chested na katulad ko (bitter!). dati naman kapag may nang aasar sa akin about it sabi ko lang kung binigyan pa ako ng big breasts di perfect na ko kawawa naman yung iba hahaha. siguro medyo insecure lang ako now dahil my body is not quite where i want it to be after giving birth, need to work out lang muna.
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