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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #30 on: May 23, 2008, 02:26:49 pm »

eto mga mommies, natawa me, last sunday i scolded yancy for being naughty, she was provoking her older cousin, so i told her to stop or else...since alam na niya anong ibig sabihin nung OR ELSE, bigla nag crocodile tears na with matching go to the corner at eto and dialogue "tatay, tatay ko, si nanay o sungit".  i looked at her at sabi ko, "o yancy, you want to go to tatay, o sige you call air philippines. bili ka ng ticket nating dalawa". ang sagot sa akin, "nanay, bakit sasama ka? papasyal ba tayo? di mo ko isusumbong kay tatay na naughty ako ha? sasama na kita"

at bigla, nakalimutan na na naughty sya at play na ulit sila ng cousin niya who at that time was looking quite bewildered dahil ang bilis mag shift ni yancy ng mood. hay kids...
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #31 on: May 23, 2008, 04:42:40 pm »

eto mga mommies, natawa me, last sunday i scolded yancy for being naughty, she was provoking her older cousin, so i told her to stop or else...since alam na niya anong ibig sabihin nung OR ELSE, bigla nag crocodile tears na with matching go to the corner at eto and dialogue "tatay, tatay ko, si nanay o sungit".  i looked at her at sabi ko, "o yancy, you want to go to tatay, o sige you call air philippines. bili ka ng ticket nating dalawa". ang sagot sa akin, "nanay, bakit sasama ka? papasyal ba tayo? di mo ko isusumbong kay tatay na naughty ako ha? sasama na kita"

at bigla, nakalimutan na na naughty sya at play na ulit sila ng cousin niya who at that time was looking quite bewildered dahil ang bilis mag shift ni yancy ng mood. hay kids...

Cute naman story mo eve,how I wish my son can talk na din so he can answer me childish things hehe.

So far, sa spanking ko sa kanya medyo nagwowork na yong "who's the boss" ni mommyjazz. When he spanks me, I spank him harder in return.So parang sometimes pag gusto nyang magspank hindi natutuloy coz takot sya mapalo ko sya ulit...

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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #32 on: May 24, 2008, 10:00:50 am »

Cute naman story mo eve,how I wish my son can talk na din so he can answer me childish things hehe.

So far, sa spanking ko sa kanya medyo nagwowork na yong "who's the boss" ni mommyjazz. When he spanks me, I spank him harder in return.So parang sometimes pag gusto nyang magspank hindi natutuloy coz takot sya mapalo ko sya ulit...
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 ;Dhi maphine good am..naku, wait ka lang sister at pag nag start na magsalita ang baby mo, sasabihin mo Anak, hinay hinay lang ha at hindi nauubos ang words.  as in humanda ka sa napakaraming inquiries hehe. meron pang pahabol yun pag matutulog na kayo.  it'll come sister.  sabi nga ni hubby tagal niya wait magsalita si yancy ng mga complete sentences at nung nangyari na syempre natuwa sya pero eto na ang dialogue, pag me ask si yancy na medyo di sure si hubby:  Anak, go to nanay, busy si tatay."  ;D super nanay to the rescue!
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #33 on: May 24, 2008, 01:34:05 pm »

            nakaka tuwa naman ang kwento mo mommy eve. nko ako yung baby ko who is 1 yr and 4 months mahilig naman mamalo sa muka, tapos pag nag serious face ka naman ang gagawin niya puppy eyes tapos i ki kiss ka hay nko  ;) so yung galit mo mapapalitan nalang nang ngiti pero kinaka usap ko sya and i just tell him na that's not good, i don't resort to spanking hehe practice na ako dito sa US kc bawal mag spank nang bata pag may naka kita sayo you spank ur kid report agad sa pulis tapos kulong agad. kaya nga dito kpa pinapalaki baby ko hehe para pwede pa ma spank kahit papano.
               pero we have a family friend sa cali yung mga anak niya malilikot talaga sa house pinapalo niya mga anak niya. may preschooler sya at grade school grabe tinuturo na sa knila sa school na if you were spank by your parents call 911. eh pag pinapalo niya mga babies niya sinasabihan sya nang mga anak niya will call 911 thats child abuse. so sya ang ginagawa niya sa mga anak niya sinasabihan niya nang sige you call 911 they will put us into jail and you'll never see us again no one will feed you and buy you clothes. so yung mga anak niya titigil nalang magpapa spank nalang sila  :D takutan system ginagawa niya  ;D
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #34 on: May 24, 2008, 02:58:18 pm »

hi kizzia, true, you train your kids muna dito, my youngest sister is in LA and dun na ipinanganak yung youngest niya, girl, but her two boys dito til the eldest was 6 and the 2nd, 4. aysus, alam nila ang ibig sabihin ng BELT. hehe.  and til now, even if they're 14, 10 na, remember pa din nila na disobdience means punishment.  our kids kasi will really test us if we're keeping true dun sa mga threats natin, kaya when i tel yancy na: On 3 Yanc, may palo ka na. Pag nag 3x na siya ay wala ng sabi sabi, ang dialogue ko na, Yanc, ready your butt coz here comes your palo at WHAM! isang matindi. 1 palo lang na medyo masakit kasi more than that it becomes a negative thing na. then no cuddling, no hugs after the palo but time out for both of us. me, to cool down and she, to ventilate her feelings through crying (pero cry din ako patago). after a while, she usually comes to say sorry sa akin. pero ngayon, lessened na ang mga ganito kasi malaki na sya.
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #35 on: May 26, 2008, 10:17:00 am »

Cute naman story mo eve,how I wish my son can talk na din so he can answer me childish things hehe.

So far, sa spanking ko sa kanya medyo nagwowork na yong "who's the boss" ni mommyjazz. When he spanks me, I spank him harder in return.So parang sometimes pag gusto nyang magspank hindi natutuloy coz takot sya mapalo ko sya ulit...

 ;Dhi maphine good am..naku, wait ka lang sister at pag nag start na magsalita ang baby mo, sasabihin mo Anak, hinay hinay lang ha at hindi nauubos ang words.  as in humanda ka sa napakaraming inquiries hehe. meron pang pahabol yun pag matutulog na kayo.  it'll come sister.  sabi nga ni hubby tagal niya wait magsalita si yancy ng mga complete sentences at nung nangyari na syempre natuwa sya pero eto na ang dialogue, pag me ask si yancy na medyo di sure si hubby:  Anak, go to nanay, busy si tatay."  ;D super nanay to the rescue!
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Ngayon pa nga lang na baby talk pa lang alam ni baby parang kita na naman ang kakulitan,what more pa kaya kung mkapagsalita na... ;D

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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #36 on: May 26, 2008, 09:31:24 pm »

ako kasi hindi ako ganong namamalo kung baga puro bibig lang, lagi kong sinasabi sa kiddo ko na 2.7 years old na bad yun lalo na kung nakakasakit. Pero one time napalo talaga ni hubby kasi ang kulit saka panay ang iyak. after that nakita ni hubby na nag mark yung palo niya sa butt, kinausap niya ang kiddo at sinabing masama yung hindi susunod sa Daddy at Mommy, nakinig naman at sumagot ng "OPO".

AFTER NA KAUSAPIN NAG TREAT SI DADDY NAG MALL KAMING BIGLA AT BILI NG STUFF AND TOYS SA SON  niya. :D :D :D NA KONSENSYA YATA!!! BUMAWI!!!

kahit di niya sabihin alam ko nabigla lang sya. pero okay lang at least ngayon takot sa kanya ang kiddo kasi pag nakita niya ng nagagalit si daddy behave na sya.
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #37 on: May 27, 2008, 08:47:56 am »

ganda natin sa umaga!

yancy was takot na talaga from the start pag nagsalubong kilay ng tatay niya. kakaaliw nga pag tinatanong ko pag kaming 2 lang "anak, paano magalit si tataY" mag gagawa sya ng growling sound deep in her throat, with matching kunot ng noo. ganun kasi si hubby pag medyo asar na sa kakulitan ng anak niya hehe.
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #38 on: June 05, 2008, 09:13:21 am »

HALER MOMMIES!!!!!
An update lang po sa spanking ng anak ko everytime galit sya...
After your advises na sinunod ko, ngayon everytime he will spank me na parang nabibigla sya he would at once kiss me na parang he knows na its bad and he doesn't want to be spanked in hehe. :D  :D  :D
Natutuwa talga ako mommies.Imagine "I made it". I was able to discipline him at an early age.I thought kasi mahirap pang ipaintindi sa kanya about doing bad things at an early age(he is 1 year and 2 months na last june 1)


A million thanks talga sa inyo.

Di ko lang kayo maituturing na kaibigan,you're all my confidante and my advisers. ;)  :D  :)

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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #39 on: June 05, 2008, 09:34:02 am »

lately nagiging hard headed na talaga c jared so i introduce him to the word 'naughty corner'... i told him that if he doesn't behave i'll put him in a naughty corner, actually nagulat nga ako kc the first time pa lang that i told him that ang sagot niya 'no mommy mag stop na mag cry c jared' so i told him that everytime na he misbahaves he'll be put at the naughty corner... i wasn't expecting na maiintindihan niya na yun ibig sabihin ng naughty corner and i didn't even explain to him what it means, what's funny pa he asked kung c bernice, daddy, mommy, tita, lolo and lola eh may naughty corner din... ;) :)
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #40 on: June 05, 2008, 11:03:40 am »

hi maphine...congrats!  just take it easy ha and take note, discipline should also be changed as our kids grow up!

momy rmi, tell jared pag si daddy misbehaving meron ding naughty corner, nga lang kasama si mommy to console hehe. joke. ;D
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« Reply #41 on: June 05, 2008, 12:00:16 pm »

hehe... sabi ko wala kc nakikinig naman sila and si bernice wala din kc baby pa siya... ;)
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #42 on: June 05, 2008, 01:20:01 pm »

korek mommies.congrats maphine.when macky grows into toddlerhood niya,gagawin ko lahat ng advises niyo at lahat ng natutunan ko dito.pwede na ba paluin ang 8 months old hehe.hay,kaubos pasensya sa kulit at likot.

he now discovers the fun of banging objects together.diba i told u guys na i never give macky toys like xylophone or drums kc ayoko siya matuto mamalo,and evrytime he taps his hands in my face,i stop it at once kc ayoko makasanayan niya.i read in SPbaby magazine2006,na normal lang daw sa mga baby yung pag bang nila ng objects together kc they are experimenting with sounds,minsan pa nga,they throw object off to the floor to see if it makes the same results every time he does it,kung magbobounce back ba,or tutunog,they want to see if it does the same sounds everytime he throws it down on the floor.nasa ganung stage ngayon si macky,and he's 8 months old.pansin ko kc,pag hawak niya remote control,he would crawl to the edge of the bed and throw the remote! ::) minsan kinukuha ko nga nga yung remote e,pero ang bilis niya,iiwan ko lang sa tabi,tapos makukuha na niya and gagawin nanaman niya.nasisira na nga remote namin sa tv e.plus eto pa!when i was sleeping,medyo antok pa kc ako nun,pero si baby gisng na,he was sitting right next to me playing with a toy a gave him to keep him busy kc antok pa talaga ako.medyo bunubuklat ko mata ko to check on him from time to time,nakita ko,he was banging my cell phone against his carousel toy.sa sobrang antok ko,wala ako ginawa to stop him from doing it.aware ako na sinisira na niya cp ko hehe,peo super antok talaga ako,just then,he crawled right next to me,and he banged my cellphone to my head!.masakit mga mommies,nawala antok ko nung pinukpok niya cp ko sa ulo ko.grabe,sa asar ko napalo ko talaga siya,pinalo ko hands niya!.he didn't even cried,and he was smiling pa when he did it to me and nung pinalo ko siya sa kamay. hay ayoko sana kalakihan niya yon,.di mana lang natinag sa palo ko batang yon. ??? strange pero mukhang di takot sa palo yung baby ko..ilang aton baby niyo when u first started to spank him?
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #43 on: June 05, 2008, 11:41:45 pm »

from SP jan-feb 2008 issue about spanking

spanking only becomes negative to children if it is used ineffectively.when spanking,parents should only use it for specific,purposeful behavior.it should never be used out of spite and must only be used when all other methods fail.


when and why it works:some parents lay down rules and limits and give warnings before they resort to spanking.It is safe,they say, to keep atleast three things in mind to avoid any serious physical and emotional damage to the child..
#1, if u must spank,spank in private.
#2, two smacks on the buttocks or two flicks on the wrist should be enough to get ur message across
#3, anger and punishment don't mix.

when spanking isn't working,its time to consider other forms of discipline. ;)
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Re: on how to discipline a toddler
« Reply #44 on: June 06, 2008, 09:39:20 am »

Youngmom pareho tayo ng baby.He keeps on banging and smashing his toys to the floor.Thanks for the info.Ganon pla yon...
About the palo thing naman,Same here din.At first talga ngworry ako when he was just smiling and laughing everytime pinapalo ko sya kasi he thinks nakikipaglaro lang ako sa kanya.I started spanking him slight lang naman when he was 1 na.Kasi nong 8-11months niya kahit mkulit super pasensya ako kasi baby pa kako.Pero ngayon parang abusive na para sa mommy ang ginagawang spanking ni hehe. Napalo na din ako ng cellphone ko sa head.Naghiwahiwalay at nasira na ng baby ko ang isang fon ko na super fave ko.Pero syempre alang magawa si mommy... Nong una kahit anong pigil ko sa spanking niya hindi pa niya nagegetz na bad yon pero now na talga niya naintindihan na bad ang ginagawa niya dahil sinunod ko advise ni mommyjazz na to spank him ng mas masakit to tell him whose the boss.Kaya ngayon everytime ginagawa niya ang spanking automaic syang ngkikisss sa akin kasi ayaw nyang mas spank in return...Hope this would help! :-*
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