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chardonnay

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How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« on: November 17, 2011, 12:36:55 am »

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Hello Mommies.

Ask ko lang how involved is your spouse in your pregnancy. From what I read, men are as excited but not that fully involved in the whole course of our pregnancy. Si hubby kasi naasar ako minsan. I even signed him sa baby center so he can received updates of my pregnancy as well as other helpful info for first time dad kaso nung una lang niya binabasa. Hindi ko na rin kinulit at pag related lang talaga sa work niya tsaka yun nagbabasa. Bilib lang kasi ako sa ibang daddy na nakiki forum pa esp pag me worries. Si hubby naman sabi niya basta sabihin ko lang daw sa kanya kung anong mga dapat niya gawin. Mas okay sana kasi kung sya makaka alam or basa para maka relate sya even sa tantrums nating mga buntis kasi minsan kala nag iinarte lang. Yun lang hehe, hanap lang ako ng kakampi :D or this could just be another episode of men are from mars & women from venus :)

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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2011, 08:09:59 am »

ako sis, di din naman ganun ka-active si hubby in knowing what I'm going through each week of my pregnancy. pero he wants to be there pag check up and sa pamimili ng gamit ni baby. di naman niya ko mashado inaaway, may mga instances lang na di nagkakaunawaan pero not pregnancy-related naman. Tapos nagdadala sya ng pasalubong paminsan.

di na rin naman ako nagexpect na he'll be fully involved. medyo busy rin sya sa business pero at least he checks up on me and the baby everyday.  :)
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2011, 09:46:59 am »

si hubby ko super involved sa pregnancy ko.. i dunno if it's just the excitement talking pero ganun sya talaga. nagstart nung naconfirm namin via TVS na i was preggy. since then sya na ang nagbabantay sa mga kinakain at ginagawa ko. binabawalan ako magkape, junk food, etc at pinapagalitan ako pag nagttry ako tumulong sa heavy housechores. nung sinabihan ako ng OB ko na magpahinga, sya ang nagluluto ng food and naglilinis ng bahay kahit pagod from work. ultimo pagtimpla ng milk ko every night inako niya na rin as his "duty". tapos we read this online resource site on the weekly progress of baby inside my tummy. now at 32 wks, nag-aadvanced reading pa si hubby. minsan binabasa niya na yung progress for the next 1-2 wks. magugulat na lang ako magkkwento sya na "alam mo ba next week si baby ganito ganyan na..." he also goes with me everytime may OB checkup ako, mas matanong pa sya sakin. haha. nakakatuwa. :)
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2011, 11:13:59 am »

super involved din si hubby nung time na preggy ako sa baby namin, from the time na nalaman namin na positive nafeel ko talaga ang excitement niya..sobrang tamad ko nun and sya pa nagtitimpla ng milk ko everyday saka papainom sa akin ng vitamins.. never niya ako pinabayaan na mag-isa pumunta sa lahat ng check-ups ko kahit pa may work sya talagang magpapaalam para masamahan ako..he always makes sure na di ako mauubusan ng vitamins..feeling ko spoiled to the max ako that time na kahit bag ko lang ayaw niya na ako nagbubuhat, and never niya ako pinagawa ng any household chores kahit na di naman maselan pagbubuntis ko...and since nasa work sya the whole day at ako and maids lang sa house, pati merienda ko or lunch pinapaakyat pa sa room namin para di na ako bumaba  (kahit MIL ko yun ang bilin sa maid kasi takot sila baka mahulog daw ako ;D)...everyday pag uuwi na sya from work ask niya ako kung ano gusto ko pasalubong...pati sa pagbili ng baby stuff supportive sya, kahit anong gusto ko for baby go lang sya, never niya ako pinagbawalan...until now na 1 year old na baby namin ganun pa din sya, super thoughtful, loving and caring maski na pagod na sya from work effort pa din sya na alagaan si baby once nasa bahay na sya...kaya super thankful ako na sya napangasawa ko, feeling ko sobrang blessed ako..madalas naiisip ko na pag yung ex ko siguro naging husband ko naku good luck na lang haha ;D
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2011, 11:36:18 am »

si hubby din super involved sa pregancy ko. siguro kasi tagal namin inantay ito. lahat ng household chores siya gumagawa esp. nung 1st trimester pa lang ako.

dun sa part ng gathering info about pregancy or being pregnant, akin yun puro kwento na lang ako sa kanya. yung mga dos & don'ts ayun sunod naman siya..

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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2011, 01:58:09 pm »

Hello Sisses,

Nung pregnant pa ko super involved din ang hubby ko as in, every checkup he was there unless may demand sa work. Until the day na naglalabor na ko pareho kaming gising ng madaling araw at napaparaning siya everytime na sumasama yung mukha ko sa sakit. Sarap lang alalahanin those days, because of him wala ni katiting na takot akong naramdaman at the time of delivery.
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2011, 02:24:12 pm »

yay! nice to hear super involved din mga daddies sa pregnancy nyo mga sis, mister ko din super involved sa lahat lahat, ginawa akong baby lol :D talagang alagang alaga niya ko plus yung nanay ko pa super alaga din sakin kaya ayun super spoiled na buntis ako before kaya mga kids ko happy babies nung lumabas, hindi iyakin  :D
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2011, 03:00:39 pm »

..hindi ko masyadong inoobliga si boss sa pagbubuntis ko.. pero sweet sya sa kin the whole time na buntis ako..
minsan sumasama sya sa check up pero minsan.. ako mismo nagsasabing wag syang sumama.. saka nalang pag manganganak na ko  ;D
pero sa pagkain.. kaasar! dami niya ipinagbabawal at para syang doktor na dapat ganito ganyan daig pa ang OB..
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2011, 03:20:19 pm »

Super involved si hubby. As in.  ;) Ayaw nyang mapapagod ako pati nagagalit siya pag kumakain ako ng foods na di healthy (pero di ko maresist).  ;D

Sobrang excited and tulala minsan kasi kaka-imagine niya sa kung ano itsura ni baby.. :P
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2011, 06:21:20 pm »

I see! Si hubby naman kasama din lagi every visit to OB. Binabawalan din ako mag kikilos kaso di ako sanay ng ganun bini baby hehe :D Sa food, pinipilit din ako mag gulay pero sa pagbabawal, di masyado kasi kahit si kahit from Dra., wala naman daw bawal kasi hindi rin ako tumaba.

Ang ayoko lang minsan magwoworry ako, pinapagalitan ako at wag daw ako negative thinker.
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2012, 11:56:34 am »

super involved si hubby. nung 1st pregnancy ko syempre ang dami kong di alam, tapos sya parang ang daming alam kaya nagtaka ako at binibiro ko na siguro nakabuntis na sya before kaya ang dami nyang alam  ;D pero sabi niya kasi daw involved din sya masyado sa pregnancy ng elder sister niya before. masyado syang maingat sa akin while i'm pregnant and i let him read What to Expect When You're Expecting.:)
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #11 on: April 09, 2012, 07:26:00 am »

I just gave birth lst MONDAY...
My hubby was very supportive during the entire pregnancy..
He did not miss any prenatal checkup..lagi ko siyang kasama.
Patient din siya sa mga moodswings ko and he gives in to all my cravings... :D
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #12 on: April 09, 2012, 11:24:37 am »

kainggit naman  ;D buti pa kayo involve si hubs sa inyong pregnancies ako for the second time wala na naman si hubs seaman kasi sa first baby namin 7mos. na ko noong nakauwi siya halos di din niya ako nahintay manganak kaya 7mos na ulit si baby nung nakita niya then now for the second time na confirmed namin na i was 2mos. pregnant kaso paalis na din siya kaya now by october ako manganganak dun pa lang sya uuwi hehe pero kahit malayo siya he always reminds me sa mga dapat kong gawin & ganun talaga for the sake of our family needs kaya need umalis kaya kainggit din ang ibang preggies na kasama ang kanilang mga hubs kahit sa prenatal checkup   :)
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« Reply #13 on: April 09, 2012, 04:52:35 pm »

Ang cute naman ng stories nyo about sa mga husbands ninyo :) Well mine is very supportive from the day na nalaman namin na we are having a baby. He makes sure na hindi ako napapagod and he always asks kung kamusta na si baby. Every hour syang nagtatanong. And then nung na bed rest ako he took care of me. Minsan nahihiya na nga ako kasi hindi ako sanay na sobrang alagang alaga. He makes sure na kumakain ako ng tama at umiiwas ako sa maalat na food. Like kanina nung nasa house ako ng parents ko sa Antipolo, my mom said na puwede akong kumuha ng cornick kaso inisip niya na baka maalat daw.

Syempre kasama din ang parents ko sa pag aalaga sa akin. Mas naappreciate ko yung love ng parents ko ngayon dahil sobrang alaga sila sa akin and I now understand how is it to be a mom. Nakita ko yun sa mommy ko.  :)
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Re: How Involved is your Spouse / Partner in your Pregnancy?
« Reply #14 on: April 09, 2012, 07:43:37 pm »

@thirds_mom

ok lang yan sis, hindi ka naman nagiisa...Im on the same boat din naman, plus hindi din expressive si hubby...pero i can see in his eyes the worry 4x siguro during the time na sakay sya and nagbubuntis ako. I was with my mom that time pa din para meron akong kasama, continued ang communication. OO naka envy talaga super yong prenatals na kasama mga husband, minsan nga umiiyak na ako kasi ako lang magisa ang pumupunta sa prenatal, sya is text lgn at call pero ok lang yan din naman kasama sa pagmamahal ko sa kanya. bali tanggap na ganun ang calling ng hehe

pero binawi naman niya nung nagforce talaga syang bumaba kasi malapit na ako manganak and bali nag10months na sya sa contract, papa extend pa sana sya pero hindi niya tinanggap...kulang nalang mageskandalo sya sa barko para lang hehe so appreciated ko talaga na laki ng effort niya..and sya ang nag.alaga sa akin and our daughter sa hospital until months na si baby..kung kelan sure na sya na hindi na ako masakitin and si baby dun na sya nag apply ulit ng work sa barko.

kahit malayo sya, every morning ginigising niya ako via ISP na call tapos after ko makakain he knows talaga na nilabas k na naman ang food sabi lang niya palagi.."kain ka lang hehe ok na ako dun it makes my day. hehe
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