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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #15 on: February 02, 2012, 01:44:51 pm »

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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #16 on: February 17, 2012, 06:03:05 pm »

Leaving your kid at home with a maid is nerve wracking so here are things you should consider to do:

- give her emergency numbers to call
- teach her how to lock the house
- teach her how to answer the door
- let her get classes on CPR and heimlech maneuver
- train her on emergency drills

There are a few others you can find here: http://goo.gl/b0ejD

Hope it helps!
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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #17 on: February 29, 2012, 09:06:08 am »

what i missed before yaya started working for us is to set rules or expectations..

ngayon, 1 year na sya samen eh medyo nagbabago na ang ugali..of course, i want her to feel at home and feel that she is part of the family kaso masyado na syang comfortable..

what i am planning to do is to appraise her performance one of these days..i bought SP's Yaya Manual and i will use the appraisal attributes to evaluate her performance and I am planning to do this every quarter..this will also include her giving feedback regarding how we treat her.. :)
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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #18 on: February 29, 2012, 11:43:58 am »

baka ganun talaga sila after a year magbabago na ugali nila, actually yung yaya ng niece ko ganun din nagbago na yung ugali niya and hindi na rin marunong sumunod sa amin gusto niya siya lagi nasusunod,mayabang na kasi eh.kahit na sabihin mo na marunong siya magalaga pero cyempra dapat ang ugali ganun pa rin kaya masyado na siya nakakainis. kahit na mahirap sa sister ko pinaalis na rin siya hindi na rin maganda trato niya sa amin...hanggang ngayon naiinis pa rin ako sa kanya kahit medyo matgal na siya wala sa amin...
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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #19 on: February 29, 2012, 12:03:14 pm »

overall kasi okay naman sya..medyo nawala lang yung politeness niya and loud na sya lately..before letting her go, i would like to know if i could help her get back on track..its not always about watching over my son but also for her personal development..if i have already exerted efforts in developing her tas walang nangyayare then we'll consider getting a new one.. :)
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Re: What's the BEST Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #20 on: February 29, 2012, 12:03:53 pm »

@mommy_tl,
Hi sis, kakatuwa naman yang helpful trainings mo sa yaya nyo. :) And I see your motivation and patience kasi syempre hindi madaling magturo. Kaya siguro masunurin sya kasi nakikita niya pagpapahalaga nyo rin sa kanya at ang considerations na binibigay nyo rin.

May mga helpful tips din ako binabasa dito sa SP mismo. Eto yung latest release nilang article about Yaya:
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/home-living/about-yaya/interviewing-a-potential-yaya-signs-to-watch-for

For more articles naman, check na lang etong list: http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/home-living/about-yaya/

By the time siguro na magbukod kami, need din namin kumuha ng yaya kaya I read articles and tips from SP moms. :)
« Last Edit: February 29, 2012, 01:27:34 pm by rozzy »
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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #21 on: February 29, 2012, 12:08:36 pm »

thanks sis rozzy..i bought SP's yaya manual and it helped a lot..aside from that, I am reading some leadership books so naisip ko na hindi lang pala dapat sa team ko sa office naaapply kundi pati rin sa kanya..i also encourage her to go to church and be involved in church activities..iba kasi yung may fear of a Higher Being, iba yung effect sa ugali nila especially if you quote verses from the Bible..hindi mo ganun ka kelangan ng madaming explanations..

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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #22 on: April 01, 2012, 04:40:47 am »

when hiring for meron akogn checklist

how is she in
cleanliness (paghindi sya mahilig magclean ng sarili) how much more yong anak ko e bata yan messy
attitude (ayoko sa mga negative na tao, complainers and masochistic) gusto ko positive si yaya always
patience (bata yong main focus ng work mo..so if hindi ka pasinsyoso..ano ka)
nanakit ba (worst scenario is if i caught the yaya hitting my daughter...sigurado sa kulungan tlaaga sya bad n kung bad)
lumalabas ka ba sa gabi? (natutulog kami ng maaga kaya early riser kami lahat, dapat same din with sa yaya)
malandi ka ba? or sa pananamit? (kami ni hubby ayaw namin ng ganun na babae most of all the yaya...hindi bar ang bahay namin dapat proper.)


rules ko with working for me
NO's ko talaga lahat to

going out with barkada or ano at night
text or call after baby is asleep at night or nap time sa araw (ayoko sa mga texters na yaya..nakaka init ng ulo yan)
malandi, chismosa, or parang gro kung makapanamit
bali ng bali ng pera...1 or2x lang umutang hidni every week
wasters (hindi marunong gumamit ng gamet ko, or mga gamet ng bahay)
complainers, sumbongera, at sinisigawan ang daughter ko

so far yan pa ang na set up ko sa rules ng yaya ko dito sa bahay recently lang talaga ako kumuha ng yaya for mydaughte r kahit homebased at fulltime SAHM ako. gusto ko kasi ng ka help sa pagbabantay kay anak ko at yong mauutusan ako agad pag meron akong kailangan pa kuha or what. naghelp out naman si yaya ko now, gusto din ni hubby kasi na meron yaya si daughter para pag tired na ako, meron makaka look over pero most of the time helping out nlgn si yaya kasi pag nap ko, nap din daugther ko...kung na saan ako andun naman ang anak ko.
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Re: What's the best Yaya-tip can you give?
« Reply #23 on: June 25, 2013, 11:55:56 pm »

Remind your nanny to model basic good manners so that your child will follow in turn. Remember that children learn most by following what they SEE, rather than what they hear.

How To Teach Your Yaya (Nanny) To Teach Your Kids
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/home-living/about-yaya/how-to-teach-your-yaya-nanny-to-teach-your-kids/page/1
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