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mommynikyle

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dry and lack sex drive
« on: November 21, 2011, 11:58:52 pm »

i need your opinions and experinces sisters. did you experienced vaginal dryness?

i noticed kasi ang dry ko. we always use lubricant whenever we do... is that normal or ako lang? na-aarouse naman ako during foreplay pero dry pa din pag gusto ko na or ni hubby. we use condom for protection so di pwede dry kasi di ba useless ang condom pag nagkataon. at syempre ang hapdi nun. napansin ko din sa undies ko di na rin ako nagwewet unlike noon na may days na wet.

i already consulted my OB, she gave me meds for vaginal infection. after a week sabi niya wala naman na infection. but still the same dry pa din. im 31 pa lang, di pa naman siguro symptom menopause to di ba? normal lang ba to? parang we cant have sex without the lube. nahihiya na din ako k hubby kasi parang ang abnormal ko or baka mamya di na sya na satisfy sa akin.  :( i search the internet and encountered repHresh, replenish and sylk does anyone of you knows this? help mga sis  :)
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Re: vaginal dryness
« Reply #1 on: November 22, 2011, 03:48:35 am »

we all undergo hormonal changes and even emotional changes that could lead to dryness. dumaan din ako sa ganyang phase. just give it time and it will getr better. why not use this opportunity to experiment and use those lubes that adds pleasure di ba. if it doesn't get better in time then just talk to your ob again.
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Re: vaginal dryness
« Reply #2 on: November 22, 2011, 09:03:38 am »

baka sis stress ka lang at madami iniisip
kwento ng friend ko, she also experience that if shes really burn out and stress.
try to relax

try nio rin explore ibang place-
a date maybe, few drinks , then yun na
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mommynikyle

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Re: vaginal dryness
« Reply #3 on: November 24, 2011, 11:30:35 pm »

thank you for your replies. great to hear that some people also experience this, normal pa rin naman pala ako. maybe it is stress also or fear... mixed emotions. sometimes din kasi im worried kasi ayaw ko pa masundan si kyle or minsan naaalala ko yun first night namin ni hubby... masakit!  ;D thanks for your help sisters  ;)
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dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #4 on: January 26, 2012, 03:40:21 pm »

hi mga mommies good day. may i ask po kung sino ang nakaka-experience ng dry and lack of sex drive kapag malapit na ang monthly period.
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #5 on: February 29, 2012, 09:11:05 am »

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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #6 on: February 29, 2012, 01:44:27 pm »

u think pills could be the culprit of dryness? I do not lack or di na-lessen yung urge, na-heighten pa nga pero yun nga when i started taking OCPs dun nagstart magdry, that was like 2months after giving birth til now. How bout u mommynikyle? And we always use lube too, try the flavored ones in the meantime, hopefully its just a phase, kungdi ang malas ko naman, super aga ng menopause... 20s... :(
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #7 on: July 07, 2012, 08:56:39 pm »

mga sis, same problem here..nanganak ako last year october and until now breasfeeding,everytime magtry si hubby ang dry ko talaga and nahihirapan ako kasi kapag pinilit lang namin masakit...nahihiya nadin ako minsan kay hubby kasi nafufrustrate sya minsan kapag hindi natuloy...ano po ba maganda gawin...
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #8 on: August 10, 2012, 03:24:36 pm »

yes sisses! it happens- dryness! but it doesnt happen to me pa naman... you may try using "felina" its availble in watsons and mercury drug stores.. it helps to lessens the dryness.  :) :) :) :) most of the OBs recommends this product.
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #9 on: August 21, 2012, 11:39:11 am »

Hindi ko pa naman na.experience 'yan. Pero kung nagi.isip ka kung hindi nasisiyahan si hubby, ask him. Mas maganda may communication & if ever okey naman sa kanya ang lube then go, experiment na lang sa mga position para naman mas exciting at hindi na iisipin ni hubby ıang dryness na ıan.
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #10 on: August 24, 2012, 12:18:37 pm »

It happenned to me bigtime! Dry and lack of sex drive. At madaling uminit ang ulo. Ofw si Hubby, 3mos abroad, 1mo vacation, so I really tried to satisfy him kaso I didnt really enjoy kaya parang I felt really bad after the deed. Nakaka guilty tuloy. I tried looking for the culprit and found out it's the ocp! Nung una, hindi naman kaso nung continous use, yun na nga naging effect sakin. So I decided to stop na lang.
And nitong huling uwi ni Hubby, Im quite sure na super happy sya sa vacation niya, ako din! ;-)
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #11 on: August 24, 2012, 12:26:15 pm »

Read 50 shades of grey, it might help.
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #12 on: August 24, 2012, 10:17:29 pm »

Hi sis chinadoll. I have read the trilogy. In what part might it help? Bigla akobg ma curious? ;-)
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #13 on: September 01, 2012, 11:22:30 pm »

Try taking Vitamin E together with Vitamin C. It helps increase secretions.
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Re: dry and lack sex drive
« Reply #14 on: October 18, 2012, 04:49:03 pm »

try to imagine things you want to do para maexcite ka. ganun kasi ako minsan pag wala sa mood. after ko mag imagine masnagiging wet na ako.  ;)
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