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mommychie

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Re: what is really important job or family ?
« Reply #105 on: September 17, 2012, 06:01:18 pm »

Both are important of course. In my case, I'm really not happy as an employee. I've been running my online business for two years and I like the feeling that I can make money without having an employer. Plus the fact that I can devote most of my time to my family. Medyo sakitin kasi si baby kaya I really feel she needs me more. She's already 2yo but she still weighs 10kgs. I wanted to give it a try and take care of her full time because I know she will feel better pag ako nagalaga. And so I already tendered my resignation two weeks ago. I feel liberated. I'm excited at this new phase of my life. Tapos by next year I plan to join bazaars para mag-grow business ko. Maraming nanghihinayang kasi maganda na daw work ko pero I really feel na mas madaming advantages to be a full time parent and an entrepreneur. I always believed that being an employee is not the only way to earn money and I wanted to prove that.
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Re: what is really important job or family ?
« Reply #106 on: September 26, 2012, 07:59:54 pm »

both. i'm a single mom and if i don't work anong mangyayari sa anak ko?  :o pero if you're gonna ask kung ano priority ko, syempre anak ko. good thing my company and job allows me to work from home several times a week so nakakatipid sa pamasahe, katabi ko pa rin matulog baby ko at bawas sa pagod sa byahe kaya mas marami kameng bonding time  ::)
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Re: what is really important job or family ?
« Reply #107 on: September 28, 2012, 01:31:37 am »

Ilang beses narin nag isip si Hubby na mag work abroad. Pero di din niya kaya. And I believe kasi na as long as comfortable kami sa buhay na meron kami, ok na yun. Basta magkasama kaming lahat. I'll be turning 5 years sa work ko and I never tried to apply for a higher position. It's because I don't want to sacrifice my time for my family para lang maging mataas yung position ko and to have a higher salary. Madami namang way para ma sustain namin yung needs namin.

You have to talk to your husband. Kailangan ba talaga na mag work siya malayo sa inyo? Afford ba niya na malaki nga sweldo niya pero hindi naman niya nakitang lumaki yung mga anak niyo?
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Re: what is really important job or family ?
« Reply #108 on: October 07, 2012, 04:51:27 pm »

Family is the utmost important...ang job, nawawala, ang family hindi.  And if ever (wag naman po) mawala ang family...that's it.  Unlike sa career or a job...I think you can still find ways of earning money, just be creative and patient.  But don't get me wrong, a job is also important.  I think it's a blessing so you can provide for your family.  But here's the thing, your job is not your source...God is your source.  Tested and proven ko na yan...hope this helps! 
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Re: what is really important job or family ?
« Reply #109 on: October 07, 2012, 05:04:30 pm »

family ang mas importante.

ang buhay raw para kang juggler yung tipong marami kang bola na jina-juggle, so isa run family, pwede ring isa run ay job.  ang job parang bola raw yan na made of rubber na pag nahulog - ibig sabihin nawala - pwede mag bounce back sa iyo kasi pwede ka uli maghanap wag lang mapili.

pero ang pamilya raw ay parang bolang babasagin, na pag nahulog ay hindi mo na maibabalik ang dati -- mas importante ang relationships kaysa mga materyal o iba pang bagay.
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« Reply #110 on: October 07, 2012, 08:57:56 pm »

family...pero really need a job to sustain your family...in our case ako ng give up ng career because hubby is working abroad,and he said na since wala siya gusto niya matutukan ko maigi daughter namin, since super kulit ng baby namin,hindi talaga pwede ipagkatiwala sa iba...so i decided not to work,minsan nakakainis din pag sasabihan ka ng iba na sayang pinag aralan mo (i.e. grad kc ako) pero i dont mind them,sabi nga ni hubby as long na he can provide sa mga needs namin,tutukan ko lang daw si baby..maybe pag nasa school na si baby,i can go back to work na.:)
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