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ahyzeyuh

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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #45 on: December 09, 2011, 05:09:44 am »

@ mommyayie
we are leaving mamya for bicol, mamamanata mommy ko sa miraculous church ng our lady of salvation.
will include your mom in our prayers.
sana miracles will happen, mapalawig nawa mga buahy ng mommy natin  :)
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #46 on: December 09, 2011, 10:59:18 am »

Thank you sis ahyzeyuh, ingat kayo sa biyahe.
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #47 on: January 03, 2012, 04:37:35 pm »

Hi Sis ahyzeyuh,

How are you and your mom? Ako eto parang nung sumapit ang New Year bigla ako nakaramdam ng fear. During Christmas Season kasi medyo di ko naiisip ang sakit ni mama coz busy lahat. And now, I have to face the reality again. Ang bilis ng panahon. Kung pwede lang sana pabagalin ang takbo ng oras to prolong my momís life. My mom and I are not living together na since I got married. We just talk on the phone during weekdays and pag weekend ako at si baby umuuwe sa kanya. Everytime I hear her voice, I feel everything she say, I treasure every single moment I see her strong and alive coz Iím thinking that when she starts her chemo treatment, sheíll be weak. Iím teary eyed sis. Iím afraidÖ
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #48 on: January 04, 2012, 06:25:31 am »

Hi sis!
happy new year-

me and my mom we dont talk that much thou we live in the same house.
we dont talk about her condition.
but according to my tita my mom been telling her that her breast is getting heavy and its painful if she stress her self out.
cant stop her from doing household chores =)
shes suppose to visit her doctor for follow up but again my mom is hesitant to do it
sabi ng mga friends ko-hayaan na lang daw, what ever shes comfortable doing.
its like whatever her wish, so be it

my mom got a strong faith,shes hoping for a miracle. sad part she dont trust going thru operation or chemo

byw sis anong medicine take ng mommy mo
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #49 on: January 04, 2012, 10:23:11 am »

Hi sis ahyzeyuh,

Sheís not taking any medicine, I just instructed her to drink pinakuluang dahon ng guyabano (everytime may supply), green tea, fruits, veggies, green barley. Kaya lang Iím not at her side para man lang maasikaso ko siya kasi I have to work din. Di ko din mamonitor ang mga foods niya.

Sana nga magka-miracle at gumaling na ma moms nten.

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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #50 on: January 04, 2012, 11:02:11 am »

hi there!

just want to share something i know that might help your moms. di ko pa natry ito but maraming nagsasabi effective daw sya kahit nga un may mga kidney failures. listen to 92.3 FM Healing Galing, saturdays 6-8am and sundays 10am-12pm. this is natural medicine and marami na gumagaling by following DR. E's advice on natural healing. sabi nga discipline lang kelangan plus prayers para sa gamutan na ito. Dr. Calvario is a natrural medicine doctor and open sya for consultations kaya lang sa dami ng nagpapatingin sa kanya full sched sya lagi. try to listen and wala naman mawawala if itry nyo.
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #51 on: January 04, 2012, 05:32:23 pm »

hi sis momaye,

FM station b yan sis? Mostly kasi ng mga ganyan AM station diba?
Noted... Sabihin ko kay mama makinig siya dyan.
Thanks for the info.
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #52 on: January 05, 2012, 08:38:43 am »

@mommyayie: yes FM yan un sa TV5 AM sa FM. may mga contact numbers sila na ibinibigay, pwede ka din magtext then pag may chance na mabasa nagbibigay sila ng tips. pero mas okay sana if Dr. E would see your mom. alam ko sa Novaliches office nila e.  :)
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #53 on: January 19, 2012, 02:18:55 pm »

Hi sis
update lang sa mom ko

from her last mammo and bio nakitaan na rin pati right breast niya and yung bukol don sa left ay  lumake na rin-

she finally agrees to undergo operation this coming jan.28 and chemo to be followed

chemo is 6sessions- possible price is 87K per session geeez san kami kukuha nian

sad sad and devastated ako kasi wala man lang ako maitulong financially

honestly i dont know what to think
** ayokong magalit o magtampo o manumbat kay lord- iniiwasan kong isipin yun but sometimes i just cant help it  :'(  :'(  :'(
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #54 on: January 19, 2012, 04:42:32 pm »

hello mga sis, share lang po ako sa thread na 'to.  My sis in law had an operation last aug 12, 2011 in Makati Med.  10 years niya dinelay myoma operation coz of fear, financial, diabetic/hypertensive conditions. Nsa recovery room p lang siya ng ipatawag kami (her only daughter & me) ng OB-Onco about the initial diagnosis, it was Stage 3 Endometrial CA.  We were really in denial, advised ng doctor to wait for the official result bk iba naman daw. tumagal pa ng 1 wk ang result & it was really very hard for us to pretend kc we were living in the same roof. While waiting for the result, we kept on communicating w/ the doctor na malaman n muna namin result and discretion n namin ipaalam sa patient.  During the 1st follow up sa amin nireveal & same diagnosis, 350-450k ang chemo treatment plus the radiation.  At first, ayaw na niya magpachemo since kawawa naman daw anak niya maiiwanan pa utang. after 1 month she went to see her doctor and suggested her to even do radiation if wala p budget for chemo kc bk lumaki daw ang cancer cells.  On the same day when she had ctscan procedures, she went to see a second opinion about chemo and the same diagnosis kaya ipinagtiwala na Niya kay God ang lahat ng decisions na gagawin niya.  She had her 1st chemo last Oct, every 21 days ang cycle niya.  After the 3rd chemo, she went for a ct scan (whole body) before the year ends and thank God negative result lhat.  Now, she will be having her 6th cycle on Jan 31, even kami pag nagkkkwentuhan hindi mkapaniwala na nailusot ang chemo treatments. God is really good and the blessings come even in small packages.  If u will see her, hindi mo sasabihing may Stage 3 CA siya, halata lang kc naka-scarf siya or wig pag nsa labas.  Thank God also na magaan ang effect ng chemo drugs if not for the hair loss. It is a matter of acceptance sbi niya at positive thinking na magiging survivor siya para sa anak niya and alam niya na may purpose pa si God sa kanya...
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #55 on: January 19, 2012, 06:10:15 pm »

@sis ahyzeyuh,

Good luck sa operation ng mom mo. Sa ngayon kasi parang nawala na ang option namin for my mom to undergo chemotheraphy kasi i'm afraid sa mga magiging effects wala pa din naman kasiguraduhan aside sa napakamahal niya.

Sana gumaling ang mga moms natin.

@sis Julia Allison,

Saan nagpapachemo ang sis in law mo? Gentle lang ba yung chemo drugs? wala masyado side effect? how much per session? how old is your sis in law?
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #56 on: January 20, 2012, 11:28:22 am »

sis, try nyo maginquire sa east ave. dun nagpachemo un sister ng kumare ko. one year ata syang nagchemo. ngaun nagrradiation namin for one month kasi un other breast ay may malignant cyst na din na maliliit pa naman. nagchemo sya nun una kasi nga para maprevent pa un pagkalat nun cancer cells, pero inalis na din un isa nyang breast.
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #57 on: January 20, 2012, 11:36:28 pm »

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honestly i dont know what to think
** ayokong magalit o magtampo o manumbat kay lord- iniiwasan kong isipin yun but sometimes i just cant help it  :'(  :'(  :'(

I'm so sorry to hear about your difficult time. About God, it's okay to tell Him you are upset about things are, and even blame Him for it. I spoke a priest once and he told me that God can take it when we blame Him. It's okay to question Him on an emotional level.

Also, do pray to God for strength. Will say a little prayer for your family as well tonight. Hugs.
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #58 on: January 27, 2012, 05:51:11 pm »

hi mga sis nakikibasa ako, ako naman lumaking walang mom 1 1/2 yr old pa lang ako nawala na sya sa amin, yung dad ko 13 years old pa lang ako unang na diagnosed ang prostate niya, una through operation, pero after ilang taon lumabas na naman ang cancer niya, pero nagchemo na sya tulad ng iba out patient lang din sya, after the ilang session back to normal na naman si daddy,  after 4 years bumabalik, kasi di rin sya nag lilimit sa kinakain niya minsan nag smoke pa sa katigasan ng ulo, umabot din sya ng 12 years, alam ko pinag dadaanan nyo, takot na mawalan ng magulang lalo na both wala na.

payo ko lang sundin nyo doctor kung mahirapan kayo sa chemo meron sa PGH mas cheaper, pag di nyo pa din kaya pwede humingi sa PCSO tyagaan lang mga sis, May Awa ang Diyos, basta mag dasal lang kayo, ... Ipagdadasal ko lahat ng Nanay na gumaling, at ilayo tayo sa anumang sakit.

di naman siguro masama kung mag uminom ng herbal basta makakatulong go tayo!!! just keep on praying mga sis at be strong ! God Bless!!!!
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Re: Chemo or not?
« Reply #59 on: February 03, 2012, 08:08:45 am »

hi mga sis!
musta kayo?

my mom got her operation last saturday 28/jan
her left breast has been removed

this monday pa namin malalaman if the next procedure ba eh Chemo or Radiation ( wag naman sana umabot sa ganito)

@ pompz
yup sis lalapit kami sa pcso for assistance. good thing umabot ng 12yrs ang dad mo-- sana lumawig pa ganon din mga moms namin

@momaye
yung sa east ave my free chemo sila but hindi nagqualify ang mom ko. but will check din kung magkano ang opd nila sa chemo

keep the faith alive and stay positive..
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