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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #30 on: December 28, 2011, 05:07:00 pm »

thats good to hear sis new year new life..goodluck!
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #31 on: May 30, 2012, 09:36:23 am »

Lonely women who don’t have friends or are socially maladjusted that they are likely to derive their satisfaction from their children. “In the process, they over constrict and overprotect. You have no friends so you turn your three-, four-, five-, or six-year-old into an adult.”

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #32 on: May 30, 2012, 09:48:06 am »

Wow.. i find you all sweet sissies..  :D The first reason why I joined SP is because i felt very accepted.. nasabi ko na sa ibang thread na i had the most of all kinds of rejection in my first pregnancy.. Now that i have the 2nd unplanned (but very much accepted), the Lord used SP to make me feel that I am not alone.. kaya, if you need a friend, count me as one too!!  ;D
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #33 on: May 30, 2012, 12:03:08 pm »

Malungkot man pero madalas ganito din ang feeling ko... :(

I have friends naman, pero wala akong nung masasabi mong best friend. Yung tipong makakausap mo regularly about everything and anything under the sun. Yung tipong puede mong yayain anytime ng 'halika kape tayo. chikahan mode lang'. I have my college barkada pero we rarely see each other, siempre may kanya-kanya nang careers at buhay. I have friends naman from my previous work, pero since hindi na ko nagwowork dun, minsan na lang din kami magkita-kita...

Simula nung mag-work ako from home, para kong nawalan ng kaibigan, I feel so out-of-touch with the 'outside world'. Ang lungkot lang. Gusto ko din magkaron ng bestfriend, yung tipong pag na-tegi ako merong isang taong alam kong iiyakan ako ng bongga maliban sa pamilya ko. Pag iniisip ko kasi ngayon, parang wala namang ganun. Hehe. Morbid lang.

Pero kidding aside... iniisip ko nga minsan, masama ba kong tao? boring ba ko? pangit ba ang ugali ko? or masyado lang akong 'closed' at limited ang mundo ko sa pamilya kaya ganito? Di kasi talaga ako ma-bokang tao. Hindi ako yung tipong friendly, hindi naman suplada, maingat lang. :) Like sa office before, ingat ako kasi I super hate chismis, and gusto ko positive ang surroundings ko palagi.... So ok na sa kin yung may ka-batian ako, pero yung talagang super ka-close sa opisina, bilang ko lang sa kamay ko.

Promise, there are really times na naaawa ako sa sarili ko dahil sa dami ng tao sa mundo, wala man lang akong matawag na best friend. I want to call my hubby my best friend, because in essence, he is, pero siempre iba pa din yung girl na bestfriend. :)

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #34 on: May 30, 2012, 12:49:36 pm »

joining :)

akala ko dati, ako lang nakakaramdam ng ganito. salamat at may kasama ako sa bangka :)

i posted once a thread here about loosing my bestfriend -- http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,41071.msg431917.html#msg431917

palakaibigan ako eh, sa mga kinaibigan ko talaga. I gave my all. elementary to college name it.. pero nun nagbubuntis ako last year, no one was with me. not even my bestfriend whom my mom invited to come visit me to the clinic where i gave birth. pero wala na yun, its all in the past now. kahit wala akong real friends, i have my family.  Salamat sa SP at kahit wala akong "human" friends at least dito. I feel welcomed and accepted :) dito I really belong  ;)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #35 on: June 01, 2012, 10:43:35 am »

akala ko din ako lang nakakaramdam nito. hehe

ako kasi unang nagka-baby sa min sa barakada, so i guess can't relate sila. naramdaman ko to lalo na nung 1st few years after ko manganak. may mga dumalaw naman nung nanganak ako, and i'm grateful for that. pero after nun parang nagdrift friends ko. hindi ko alam kung sadyang busy lang sila or wala lang. ngayon pinipilit nila ako mag-FB para updated daw ako, e ayoko naman. hello, sa FB lang ba pwede magchikahan? naiinis ako pag sinasabi nila yun.

well at least close kami ng officemates ko dito sa work ko. na-miss ko lang yung high school barkada ko.

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #36 on: June 01, 2012, 11:48:48 am »

Same here ganyan din ang feeling ko simula nung nag asawa ako at nagkaanak 2 yrs ago parang wala n ako masasabing best friend o yung close mo talaga.
Kasi nga naman napakalayo ng place ng husband ko,  cavite from novaliches eh halos lahat ng relatives ko at friends nandun. Nung nasa abroad na ang husband  i feel so depressed lalo n pinagbbuntis ko panaganay namin although very supportive mga inlaws ko iba parin yung may nakakausap ka na alam mong pwede mo pagkatiwalaan.
Kaya laking tulong ng SP site sken maraming kang makikilala at mag eenjoy k dahil marami ka din matutunan dito.
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #37 on: July 03, 2012, 04:39:38 pm »

Na-sad naman ako sa thread na 'to. Made me wonder about my friends i gained and loss along the way. I have friends pero some of them drifted away. Maybe because hindi na 'ko naging active sa social networking site to keep in touch. Ex-abroad po kasi ako. I get to see their status but yung sakin forever offline. Until now, clueless pa siguro sila what happened to me at hindi na 'ko nakapagparamdam. Its hard on my part magkwento all-over again on something na masakit ng balikan. Kaya ayun, wala na ring nag-reached out to know why. Simula ng magka-baby ako and be a single mom, family ko na lang masasabi kong kaibigan. But i was grateful, sa two college friends ko who helped me up nung times na natakot ako na itakwil ng family ko because i was pregnant.

Bukod sa kanila, a long time friend and a colleague sa work ko before whom i looked up to as a big sister ang masasabi kong closest to my heart because sila lang napagtitiwalaan ko sa setbacks ko sa buhay.

I'm not really good at keeping in touch, kaya siguro some of them nangawala na. Masasabi kong may pagkukulang din ako kaya naputol yung communication lines. Basta alam ko yung nangyayari sa kanila hindi na baleng hindi nila alam ang nangyayari sakin. Weird ko 'noh? Oh well, kanya-kanya naman talaga tayo ng eccentricities kaya pagbigyan nyo na 'ko mga sis.

Pasalamat na lang talaga ako sa SP site at maraming mga moms/dads ang nakakapulutan ko ng aral at naituring ko na ring mga kaibigan hindi ko naman nakakasama. :)

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #38 on: August 04, 2012, 04:51:37 am »

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #39 on: August 04, 2012, 09:36:56 pm »

OT nga: ^^ Yes sis may SP group sa FB. :D
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #40 on: September 13, 2012, 06:52:56 pm »

feeling ko pasok ako  here.. hayss.. i do have a big circle of friends before, but then i dont know kung asan na sila now. or maybe pare parehong busy sa kanya kanyang pamilya..


na mi miss ko na rin ang lumabas with my friends.   :'(
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #41 on: September 14, 2012, 12:54:14 am »

I always feel this way. :(

Awkward wallflower, parang laging left out. Maybe others just don't find me interesting. :( Oh well. Life.

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« Reply #42 on: September 14, 2012, 09:22:40 am »

Hi

OT: Ive already views the SP moms sa FB.. need ba yun i approve pa ng admin? after i clicked the "join group" dko pa din maaccess

Same here moms.. i have a group of friends in HighSchool and another one in college.. sa FB lang kami nagkikita d din kami nagkakausap usap dhil busy n din.. me mga times na d mo mailabas yung mga sama ng loob mo.. minsan i wrote it sa isang papel para lang talaga marelease mo.. after nun susunugin mo or isshred.. nkkagaan kahit konti..

and meron ako isang pinagsasabihan.. dati ciang parish priest namin.. a very loved one.. sobrang lungkot namin nung umalis cia to migrate to US.. kahit d niya ako msyado close.. familiar ako sa kanya.. ive been sending messages sa kanya parang confession ba ang dating.. and im very much thankful kc nagrereply cia.. and lagi niya sinasabi na "prayers lang ng pray" and isasama din niya ako sa prayers niya..

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #43 on: September 14, 2012, 04:24:05 pm »

^^oh well, thats why we have SP ayt mommies? no matter what happens, we can vent/whine/share/cry & laugh here. so for us to not feel this way, stop forcing others or our friends to like us. let alone, we have our family. although its sad and frustrating at times. when the world is on your weight and you cant cry your heart out to anybody. andian si god mga sissies. so if you feel like your in this batteship alone. smile, because. hindi kayo nagiisa, mas madami padin sa atin at mas malaki at malungkot. do what you think can comfort you instead of grudging over the facts, malalagpasan din natin yung ganitong feeling :)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #44 on: September 16, 2012, 12:19:59 am »

habang andito kami sa middle east ramdam na ramdam ko talaga to
tagos hanggang buto :'(
kasi naman SAHM ako at at paglumalabas naman... kami lang din tatlo hubby,baby,ako
may mga pinsan naman si hubby dito puro naman boys.saka dito sana yung wife ni BIL di naman kasi close :P
ayun tiis nalang talaga puro FB lang ako   :(
sana nextyir magpapaiwan na baby para pwede na sya mag-iskul para naman
may makakalaro at makakausap na syang ibang bata.kasi nakakaawa din yung
puro iPad nalang sya :(
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