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chesa

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #60 on: April 23, 2013, 01:51:06 pm »

I have friends naman and best friends pero same situation na bihira nang nagkitakita since me kanya kanya na din silang family and most of them nasa abroad or malayo na. So nakaka-sad pa din.

Pero what I do is to continually seek friendship. Di naman ako napapagod na mag initiate ng meet up or kahit na anong pedeng gawin like coffee lang. Dun ka nat-test kung sino yung interested na maging close friend ko talaga hindi yung acquaintance lang. Then di ko na inaaya yung mga di naman interesado and I stick to those who are willing na lang. So ok naman. Mahirap din kaseng si hubby lang ang friend since me sarili din shang set of friends and me times na me lakad din shang sila lang. So gumagawa din ako ng lakad ko with my available friends.  :D

Sometimes naman yung lagi kong kasama sa carpool, nakaka-kwentuhan ko. And since lagi ko silang nakakasabay nadidiscover namin yng mga likes and life ng isa't isa. then dun na nag-s-start na magka-ayaan mag coffee or dinner. Usually food naman ang common denominator natin eh. hehe.

Wag lang kayong mapagod to make new friends mga sisses. If ever man merong di naman kayo tinuturing na friend, eh di look for another friend. Madami dyan gusto din ng friend, nahihiya lang mag initiate.  :D
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #61 on: April 23, 2013, 08:44:09 pm »

About "virtual friends", ingat nalang po kasi hindi natin alam ang totoong pagkatao nila. Maraming pagkakaibigan ang nabuo dito sa SP pero meron ding mga conflicts. Ganon talaga when you put different minds together in one room, or in this case, in one forum. In any case, it's up to us who to select for our inner and outer circle.
Hang on there mommies. Friendless din ako when I had babies pero now na school age na sila, I got to make friends starting from the teachers, then fellow moms of students. Not much pero I feel na I'm being led to who who my real friends should be. God fearing and not hesitant to share about their faith and blessings.
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #62 on: April 23, 2013, 10:16:54 pm »

Yun sa akin naman sis parang natatawag kong virtual friends kasi gaya sa FN,madalas rin ako mag post,natutuwa lang ako na meron mga nagbibigay ng advice,kahit di ko kilala personally mas totoo pa sila,hindi bias.kaya ayun..pero hanggang dun lang naman,kahit paano may nahihingahan ako ng sama ng loob  :)
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« Reply #63 on: April 23, 2013, 11:11:58 pm »

Yeah.. cause some of my friends have new sets of friends na rin dito na lang ako sa SP talaga nakakahinga..Pag may sama ako ng loob.. ok lang naman dahil yung iba ko friends in touch pa rin.. pero iba pa rin pag close talaga.. So as of now masaya na muna ako dito sa SP..

Tama si sis @mommyjazz.. we have to be very careful sa mga kakaibiganin natin lalo at virtual freindship lang.. mas nagrerely ako sa mga true friends ko na nasubukan na talaga through years..

 daming beses na ako na back-stab kaya ingat talaga ako makipag-kaibigan na.. pero Im always open for new friendship.. and tama nga kayo mga sisses.. mas madalas totooo pang friends dito sa SP kesa dito sa atin.. at speaking of cp.. wala ring kwenta tong cp ko.. gamit lang pantawag sa asawa ko.. tapos bato na siya ulit!! hahaha
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« Reply #64 on: April 25, 2013, 11:11:38 am »

As long as me mahihingan tayo ng advise and we can share what bothers us, we should be ok. If SP is the best avenue at the moment then there's nothing wrong with that basta makakagaan ng loob natin. Often times din kase mas madaling magshare dito sa SP kesa sa mga personal friends since here in SP, we know that we won't be judged right away. But still we need to be careful as what mommy jazz said.  :)
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« Reply #65 on: April 25, 2013, 01:21:31 pm »

Sharing the same sentiments sometimes ..Friends came and go and we  will meet new friends again. Ako since I got married, at nagka baby na agad, nawalan na ng time to go out with friends. We seldom talk na rin kasi lahat busy but we see to it that we gather even during special occassions like Christmas or baptismal or birthdays. Minsan nahihiya din ako mangulit sa ibang friends. Minsan malalaman mo din talaga kung sino ang real friends. The one who stays with you or tries to contact you pa din inspite of busy schedules. At iyong mga taong kahit hindi kayo madalas mag usap ay willing makinig sa iyo pag tinawagan mo or kinausap mo.
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« Reply #66 on: April 26, 2013, 11:43:40 am »

True na true sis laies. :)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #67 on: October 25, 2013, 09:12:20 am »

ganyan din naging situation ko nagyon..per ok na lang kasi may iba ka pa naman/akong kaibigan..konti man sila atleast totoo sila...haba kasi ng story kung ikukuwento ko pa hehe ako lago\i lang ako sito sa SP parang lagi akong may kausap pag nandito ako...since hindi rin ako mahilig sa social life kasi mas gusto ko sa bahay lang kasama ang baby ko at asawa:) nakakasad kung sino pa yung mga totoo sila yung malalau:( sana maging friends ko kayo lahat, or magkaroon ng taong pwdeng madagdag sa mga true friends ko:)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #68 on: October 25, 2013, 11:11:04 am »

I know how it feels sisses. Yung mga friend ko na akala ko super friends ko dati, ngayon wala na. di ko maramdaman. Ni kamustahain ako wala. sobrang nakakasama lang ng loob. Dati nagreach out pa ko pero wala naman pa ring nangyayari kaya ngayon lumalayo na lang ako. May iba naman akala mo super friends kayo yun pala ikaw lang ang nakakaramdam nun. meron naman kahit ang layo nyo na sa isat isa at minsan na lang kayo magkausap at magkita ramdam mo pa rin na talagang magkaibigan kayo. iba iba talaga ang mga tao. dun sa mga inakala kong kaibigan ko talaga, masama ang loob ko sa kanila at ngayon ayoko na sila halos makita. haaay
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #69 on: October 25, 2013, 02:13:39 pm »

SheIsErika tama ka kung sino pa yung malayo sau sila pa yung lage andyan..kesa dun sa malalapit lang na puwede mong lapitan pero hindi na lang kasi alam mo irereject ka lang...
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #70 on: October 25, 2013, 03:45:25 pm »

Meron po kasing mga tao na di talaga matuturing na friends mere acquaitances lang. Ako naman hindi kasi ako magaling mag-update ng friends yung tipong ako yung unang mangungumusta, kasi naghehesitate ako baka di naman comfortable yung tao na makipagkumustahan. Tsaka nasanay na kasi ako na hindi masyadong lumalabas with friends ever since. Siguro nasanay na rin sila na ganun ako kaya bihira yung nagyayaya sa akin.
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #71 on: October 25, 2013, 08:36:33 pm »

i can relate much to this topic..during school days, i had buddies and group of friends to hang out with, pero nawawala din sila eventually after few mobths to years na hindi na magkita., kakainggit talaga minsan mkkita mo mga socalled friends mo ng ssocial life sa fb, ako din kasi ang tagal ng family and baby lang ang ka bonding ko ;)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #72 on: November 29, 2014, 02:26:12 am »

ganito rin yong na.fe.feel ko ngayon...nobody's reaching out... :( pero madami din naman akong na.realize about friendships, at nakikita ko na anong klaseng relationships meron ako ngayon..
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satchie

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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #73 on: December 02, 2014, 11:48:44 am »

When I was in highschool I never really had this so-called barkada. I had friends but not as close nung mga nakilala when I was in college. My bestfriend and I met when we are 17 until now kahit based na sya sa Sg we still see each other if our schedule will allow. Both of us are married and I am hoping na sana magka-baby na sila para may kalaro na si Miguel ko.

Furthermore, I also have housemates na kahit once or twice a year lang kami nagkikita I still think we're good friends. Nung kinasal ako kahil civil lang sa Palawan pa.

Finally, I have also office friends. Maraming acquaintance pero meron din totoo... Yung tipong kahit iba't ibang company na kayo you still keep the communication line open. When I was about to give birth my housemates and officemates gave me a surprise baby shower. Hindi sila magkakakilala but with the help my hubby ayun they pulled it. What so touching is that some of them are married, with kids while others are single.

Now we all complain na wala tayong kaibigan but the bigger question mga mommies, ano po bang klaseng friend din tayo? We all want to be cared but do we care about our friends?

One thing I have learned about friendship is that the truest form of it is not how often you text, talk or hang-out but how the other person make you feel. 
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #74 on: September 14, 2015, 02:16:00 pm »

So far I never experience this when I was in highschool days. There was a time na we're fighting pero nag kakabati din naman agad by the end of the day.
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