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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #15 on: December 23, 2011, 03:16:45 am »

ang cute naman ng thread na to...dont we all feel the same...here's my situation naman on the friendship aisle

1. I have lots of friends, barkda even those childhood friends who live stones throw away from the house pero lagi sila absent
2. Pag sila naman present ako absent
3. its always about them..theyre never ending ups and downs and I have no problems listening to them its just that sometimes I want to vent out too..kaso they cant relate...or even if they can parang they cant really offer any unique solution to my problems
4. mas magastos sila than sakin I can only spend much so literally I have to adjust and pick which gimmik I can join or not

are we on the same boat? anyone from the south? maybe we can get together for coffee or chitchat  I may just have to add new meaningful people in my life... :D
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #16 on: December 23, 2011, 03:03:31 pm »

OT:  ^^ Southern Belle here.. Nag-organize kami dati kaso alam mo naman kapag mommies... maraming changes sa sched.

Dito tayo usap sa kabilang thread sis...
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parentchat/index.php/topic,32094.150.html
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #17 on: December 23, 2011, 07:24:11 pm »

@sis two-time single mom im not closing my heart naman kaya lang yung mga friends ko na tinuturing sa ngayon dont feel the same way for me..im just one of thier colleagues kasi malakas ako magjokes sa work pag medyo bred na lahat..Parang nakakalungkot lang na nakikita ko silang masaya with the company of each other and gusto kong sumali sa company nila na un pero hanggang friend lang ako na pang katuwaan at biruan lang.. :(

Parang ang drama ko na.. ;D :-[ (senti mode..)
ok lang magdrama sis :).. kakalungkot naman talaga pag feeling mo friend mo sila tapos kaw hindi naman pala ganun for them..atleast u know now hindi sila for true friend material..kasi true friends will be there for you in sad and happy times..and will welcome u all the time ng hindi mo kailangan ma-op pag kasama mo sila ;)
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« Reply #18 on: December 26, 2011, 12:00:00 am »

 we're on the same boat wala din ako matatawag na tunay na friends. siguro nasanay na din ako palaging mag-isa parang okay lang sa akin pero minsan  sad ako kasi pag may problem ako regarding sa hubby/ or kwento tungkol sa baby di ko ma-share sa iba lagi kasi  sa bahay lang ...  :'(
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #19 on: December 26, 2011, 05:31:09 am »

I belong... ever since I started my own family... iba na ang priorities ko. Iba na rin ang life styles nila from mine.

Mahirap lang when you have major problems and your friends will be there to listen pero they can't relate and won't be able to give you applicable advice.

Madalas hindi na rin ako invited because palagi na akong hindi nakakasama because I have kids to take care plus I can't spend the same way, as my single friends.
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« Reply #20 on: December 26, 2011, 07:34:31 pm »

i felt the same thing when my family kicked me out from our house.. ouch! :'( :'( that was april last year. i was homeless.. i never bothered asking for help from my friends kasi my boyfriend (my hubby now) offered their place for me to stay. after a year in their house, me and my MIL had an argument, so i left. respect na din sa kanya. i asked help from my friends, they never responded. i found out na lang na galit pala sila saken because of my decision. i didnt communicate kasi sa kanila the entire time na nakatira ako sa house ng hubby ko. ayoko lang na kung ano ano ang sabihin nila saken.. that time i felt so alone. homeless na nga, friendless pa. ang saklap.  :'( no one to share my feelings and thoughts. worst case: i stayed in a boarding house near hubby's house para lang may matirahan ako, and ang alam ng family ni hubby break na kami, pero hindi pa kaya laging tumatakas si hubby para puntahan ako. i met some friends sa boarding house pero hangang dun lang. parang kakilala lang din.. ayun.. now, im staying with hubby with our baby here sa apartment. i texted my friends again, and ayun ok naman na. we're good again but not like before. ok na din. kesa friendless ulit.  ;D kaya sobrang babad ako dito sa SP, para kahit hindi ko mashare sa mga friends ko ang feelings and thoughts ko, alam kong may magbabasa ng post ko. hehe! ayan. thank you sa nagbasa ng story ko..  :-*
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #21 on: December 27, 2011, 12:02:26 am »

i felt the same thing when my family kicked me out from our house.. ouch! :'( :'( that was april last year. i was homeless.. i never bothered asking for help from my friends kasi my boyfriend (my hubby now) offered their place for me to stay. after a year in their house, me and my MIL had an argument, so i left. respect na din sa kanya. i asked help from my friends, they never responded. i found out na lang na galit pala sila saken because of my decision. i didnt communicate kasi sa kanila the entire time na nakatira ako sa house ng hubby ko. ayoko lang na kung ano ano ang sabihin nila saken.. that time i felt so alone. homeless na nga, friendless pa. ang saklap.  :'( no one to share my feelings and thoughts. worst case: i stayed in a boarding house near hubby's house para lang may matirahan ako, and ang alam ng family ni hubby break na kami, pero hindi pa kaya laging tumatakas si hubby para puntahan ako. i met some friends sa boarding house pero hangang dun lang. parang kakilala lang din.. ayun.. now, im staying with hubby with our baby here sa apartment. i texted my friends again, and ayun ok naman na. we're good again but not like before. ok na din. kesa friendless ulit.  ;D kaya sobrang babad ako dito sa SP, para kahit hindi ko mashare sa mga friends ko ang feelings and thoughts ko, alam kong may magbabasa ng post ko. hehe! ayan. thank you sa nagbasa ng story ko..  :-*
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Hi sis nakakarelate ako sa feelings mo sad lang talaga noh..Ask ko lang ngayon ba ok na kayo ng family mo?? Try to be in touch with them ulit lalo na ngayon na xmas na.Im sure magiging ok na kayo lalo pag nakita nila ang baby mo..Dont worry you can count on me..I am now one of your friend..

Nwy taga saan ka pala? kasi you look familiar..
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #22 on: December 27, 2011, 09:39:17 am »

^ sis our family lives in fairview qc, sa feu ako nag aral, pakalat kalat ako sa morayta dati. tapos sa las pinas naman ako nagstay with hubby and his family before, and now dito ako sa proj 4 nakatira sis. hehe! pakalat kalat din ako sa cubao bago ako manganak.  ;D
hindi pa din alam ng parents ko about baby and kung asan ako ngayon, pero my sister went here last saturday. ok naman, gusto na daw nila akong umuwi. nadiagnose kasi na may cancer ang mom ko.  :'( :'( matagal ko na gustong umuwi pero baka ireject nila ko. hay..

thank you sis lhani.. so much appreciated.  :)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #23 on: December 27, 2011, 10:53:38 pm »

trinity_ata - hi sis, i've read your story.
sisterly advice here, go to your house, show them your baby, ireject ka nila o hindi, it's up to them. basta ikaw you tried. Cancer is not something to be taken lightly.

do it for your baby to motivate you more, im very sure she wants to hug his/her lola and lolo. ;)
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #24 on: December 27, 2011, 11:53:28 pm »

^ sis our family lives in fairview qc, sa feu ako nag aral, pakalat kalat ako sa morayta dati. tapos sa las pinas naman ako nagstay with hubby and his family before, and now dito ako sa proj 4 nakatira sis. hehe! pakalat kalat din ako sa cubao bago ako manganak.  ;D
hindi pa din alam ng parents ko about baby and kung asan ako ngayon, pero my sister went here last saturday. ok naman, gusto na daw nila akong umuwi. nadiagnose kasi na may cancer ang mom ko.  :'( :'( matagal ko na gustong umuwi pero baka ireject nila ko. hay..

thank you sis lhani.. so much appreciated.  :)
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ahh ganon ba..about sa condition ng mom mo ngayon mas kailangan ka niya,,im sure she'll forgive you lalo na may apo na sya,huwag mo sayangin yung time na pwede pa kayong magkasama ng mom mo,,just admit your fault and say sorry malalambot ang mga puso ng ina..Remember isa ka na ring ina ngayon..Mas kailangan ka niya sa tabi niya at wag mo ipagdamot na makita niya ang apo niya..Alam mo sis my mothr died in cervical cancer i was just 13 years old at that time pero hanggang ngayon namimis ko pa rin ang mama ko at hinahanap-hanap ko pa rin sya..Love your mom..
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #25 on: December 28, 2011, 12:36:53 am »

OT sa totoo lang maswerte talaga tayo at may SP dahil kung wala hay naku baka nasira na ang ulo ko.

parang ganyan din ako pero not totally. meron kasi akong tinuturing na super close friend kahit na hindi kami lagi nagkakasama kasi introvert ako at extrovert siya pero in case of emergency, problems etc pupunta yun kahit anong mangyari pero syempre iba pa din pag madami friends maraming kadamay.

salamat na lang at nakilala ko ang SP MomS na naggagandahan at matatalino. dito pa lang solved na ko. naks! **group hug** (tapos outcast pala ako sa sp noh? joke!) :-*
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« Reply #26 on: December 28, 2011, 11:30:55 am »

sis babyblair and sis lhani: thank you so much..  :D

kwento ko lang mga sis. yesterday my youngest sister called me, she told me that my family knows about me and baby already. parang nabunutan ako ng tinik. so relieved because i thought they still have some anger in their hearts but according to my sister, wala na daw talaga. nung pumunta sya dito sa bahay namin, i told her that we're doing our own laundry every week, sometimes nag papalaundry na lang kami pag tinatamad, pero most of the time kami talaga ni hubby naglalaba. :o nagulat ako na sinabi ng sister ko na nakaready na yung spare washing machine namin sa bahay if ever daw gusto kong kunin. pati daw yung extra aircon at ref. haha! nilinis na daw ng tatay ko. i was really shocked kasi my father was the one who kicked me out but then he still did those things for me. i was a bit teary eyed when i found that out.  :'( and eto pa, my family really loves babies, its our weakness. my mommy will buy things esp clothes for my baby daw, i think later. she's so excited daw to buy baby stuffs, and see baby. hay...... i really plan to go home after giving birth but i just dont know how to start explaining everything. until nga na malaman ko na may cancer si mommy kaya i really have to go home ASAP. i know this is out of the topic pero i wanna share this to you mga sis.. i dont know how to let my happiness out kaya dito na lang.. hehe!!!
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Re: ..Yung feeling na walang kaibigan... : (
« Reply #27 on: December 28, 2011, 02:27:04 pm »

^sis sori to hear bout ur mom..well, alam mo talagang ganyan sa bandang huli family mo pa din talaga ang matatakbuhan mo..u may lose all ur friends pero yung family mo kahit ano pa mangyari they will always be there for you..kaya wag mo na patagalin sis uwi ka na ;)
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« Reply #28 on: December 28, 2011, 04:46:16 pm »

^yes sis. i told my sister na that i'll go home on the 31st to celebrate new year with them.. thank you.. :)
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« Reply #29 on: December 28, 2011, 05:07:00 pm »

thats good to hear sis new year new life..goodluck!
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