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annamariemomof3

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How to deal with noisy neighbors
« on: April 14, 2013, 06:16:35 pm »

We have no firewall like those in the city it's a barely there chicken wire fence. I am trying so much to be patient. For the last six months merun sila inuman at sugalan on their yard and when you combine alcohol with gambling sa away ang uwi Kung Hindi man maingay pa rin at wala silang  oras minsan 7 am till 2 am. Ngayong election time natigil siyempre papapogi kala ko matatahimik na kami. 2 days na ngayong nagvivideoke from 6 am till 3 am San ka pa? NASA open space pa sila ha at dalawa ng dipa lang layo sa room namin. La silang pakialam sa ibang Tao kasi feeling nila Sobrang powerful nila kasi mahilig silang kumabit sa mga pulitiko. Hay I feel so depressed right now. All I want is a nice place for my kids to grow up, Hindi naman ako mahilig makipagtsismisan o manira ng ibang Tao, I try to be friendly and civilized with my neighbors but still keeping boundaries. I try to be very considerate why can't other people do the same?
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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #1 on: April 23, 2013, 03:53:01 pm »

ay sis baka pwede mo na sila kausapin ng malumanay at direchahan? yung tipong "mawalang-galang na po, pasensiya na po sa abala, baka po pwedeng hinaan po ng konti ang pagkakantahan or kwentuhan ninyo kase po hindi po makatulog ang mga anak ko. salamat po."

hindi naman siguro magagalit kase in the first place, magalang ang delivery mo di ba? hihingi ka pa nga ng pasensya eh.

try mo lang sis. kase suggest ko sana lumapit ka sa baranggay kaso sabi mo nga malakas sila sa mga pulitiko.  :( :(

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Mommy Jazz

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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2013, 08:32:06 pm »

Suggest ko na din, say it with a pancit (or any cooking you can share). Parang peace offering ba. Once lang naman, huwag naman sana sila mamihasa. I got this idea from our neighbor na magasawa laging malakas magaway. The wife would give us pancit the day after just to be friendly pero na gets naman namin ang hidden message niya. I do not guarantee na totally or matagalan sila titigil but at least you expressed your dissatisfaction. Just make sure na yung kapitbahay mong maingay ang pagbibigyan mo, hindi yung family member lang at baka hindi makarating ang message sa concerned person or baka maiba ang content ng message na pinaparating mo. Also, try to be friendly with the other neighbors and get a feel kung naiinis din sila sa ingay.
Goodluck!
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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2013, 09:41:36 pm »

meron din kaming neighbor na ganyan as in grabe talaga at walang respeto or talagang nanadya ha..nakipag usap na rin kami sa mga brgy officials pero wala din naman sila magawa or ayaw nila gawin ...so ang ginawa naming mag asawa since hindi naman talaga nag papa awat..bumili kami ng liquid ass at spray namin dun s front gate nila at sa likod..the smell stayed for 3 days and hindi nila alam kung saan nanggagaling ang smell...kaya d sila makapag videoke and makapag sugal kasi yung mga dabarkads nila eh ayaw mag punta na..
And because of liquid ass, natuto na rin silang mag linis ng front and back ng house nila.
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annamariemomof3

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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #4 on: May 01, 2013, 04:56:29 pm »

@ dianne_gwa@yahoo.com hahaha that is so funny, wish ko Lang kaya ko yun kaso ako pa naman kahit bad thoughts or ill wishes towards another naguiguilty na ko as if naman nabasasa nila Isip ko. Nagawa ko na ring magbigay ng food like mommy jazz suggested Baka sakaling Tubuan ng hiya wa epek. Sinubukan ko na ring  direchahan na wag naman sana araw araw ako pa ngaun ang iniismiran. Hay I guess I have to accept na di lahat ng Tao may etiquette. Buti na Lang di naman Amin tong bahay so once na ok a yung Lilipatan namin hopefully yung mga Tao dun may trabaho at di puro good time Lang.
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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #5 on: March 27, 2014, 02:12:31 am »

ipa-barangay mo na yan.
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Re: How to deal with noisy neighbors
« Reply #6 on: March 27, 2014, 02:30:23 pm »

Oo nga ipa-barangay na yan. Kung hindi sila umaksyon, isumbong mo yung barangay chairman kay tulfo.

Mommy Diane, san ba nakakabili ng liquid ass? Meron ba sa Pinas niyan? That might come in handy. Hehe.
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