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charmainebuy

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Re: Two families in one house, good idea ba?
« Reply #30 on: April 12, 2013, 02:27:53 pm »

Mga Sis, I just had a fight with my MIL today dahil sa kasambahay na 18 years na sa kanila.

Sobrang rude and hambog na ng kasambahay na ito kasi siya na ang nakakaalam ng lahat ng kelangan sa bahay.. magalaga sa lola ni hubby, luto at mag-alaga ng mga kids.  Ginagawa na rin niyang assistant ang newly hired ko na kasambahay na ako nagpapasweldo.  Mas pinapanigan siya ni MIL kaysa sa amin ng hubby ko kasi daw matagal na daw siya sa kanila and siya daw ang tumutulong sa lahat ng kelangan ni Lola kaya di rin niya kayang paalisin.

I have been living with them for almost 4 years now and ganun na rin ako katagal nagtiis para lang maka SAVE ng money.  But now, I told hubby na the only solution for this is lumipat kami ng ibang house because I can never change the decision and the opinion of MIL.  Also, di na rin namin mabago ang ugali ng kasambahay nila.  I told him na if money lang ang reason kung bakit kami nagtitiis sa house nila, I would rather spend more to have peace of mind kaysa sa everyday akong galit.

Lesson learned:  Never stay in your in-laws or with other families in one roof. 

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Re: Two families in one house, good idea ba?
« Reply #31 on: April 12, 2013, 02:30:41 pm »

Mga Sis, I just had a fight with my MIL today dahil sa kasambahay na 18 years na sa kanila.

Sobrang rude and hambog na ng kasambahay na ito kasi siya na ang nakakaalam ng lahat ng kelangan sa bahay.. magalaga sa lola ni hubby, luto at mag-alaga ng mga kids.  Ginagawa na rin niyang assistant ang newly hired ko na kasambahay na ako nagpapasweldo.  Mas pinapanigan siya ni MIL kaysa sa amin ng hubby ko kasi daw matagal na daw siya sa kanila and siya daw ang tumutulong sa lahat ng kelangan ni Lola kaya di rin niya kayang paalisin.

I have been living with them for almost 4 years now and ganun na rin ako katagal nagtiis para lang maka SAVE ng money.  But now, I told hubby na the only solution for this is lumipat kami ng ibang house because I can never change the decision and the opinion of MIL.  Also, di na rin namin mabago ang ugali ng kasambahay nila.  I told him na if money lang ang reason kung bakit kami nagtitiis sa house nila, I would rather spend more to have peace of mind kaysa sa everyday akong galit.

Lesson learned:  Never stay in your in-laws or with other families in one roof. 
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Re: Two families in one house, good idea ba?
« Reply #32 on: October 30, 2013, 01:09:20 am »

“I live with my husband’s family — his parents and his brother’s family of five. We have only one child. He and his brother have been splitting the household expenses equally between them. I think it’s an unfair deal, since my brother-in-law’s family consumes more.”
14 Money Problems of Couples and How to Deal with them


http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/home-living/moneywise/14-money-problems-of-couples-and-how-to-deal-with-them
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Re: Two families in one house, good idea ba?
« Reply #33 on: October 30, 2013, 09:51:03 am »

hello! para sa akin, hindi ok! :)
pag sa side ko.. madami comment mother ko partikular sa aming mag-asawa at sa pag-aalaga ko sa anak ko. kasi sobrang mahal niya lang kami.
pag sa side naman ng asawa ko.. makalat sa bahay, madami kasi silang magkakapatid. maingay, kaya di makatulog baby ko.
at sabi nga di dapat magsama ang 2 reyna sa kaharian!
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Re: Two families in one house, good idea ba?
« Reply #34 on: April 20, 2014, 12:44:37 am »

No matter what the circumstance is, its a big NO!
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