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mami che

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Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« on: January 14, 2012, 02:27:23 pm »

I dont kupit naman straight from the wallet  ;D kc sinubukan ko yun minsan, parang naguilty ako e hehe sinoli ko.. Nagmmark-up nlang ako ng hingi sa kanya. Like for example, yung milk ni baby na 850, sinasabi kong 1k... Mali ba?  :D hindi naman parati...sine-save ko din for future use...para may madukot ako na hindi hingi ng hingi sa kanya... Btw, im a full-time mom  ;)
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2012, 03:29:01 pm »

for me, to have a healthy relationship with your husband, you have to be open with everything and do everything in all honesty...=)
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #2 on: January 15, 2012, 12:30:38 am »

Hindi... kasi kahit may work ako binibilihan pa din niya ako ng mga bagay-bagay.
Pero i understand yung situation mo na full time mom ka.
Question ko lang - nagtatanong ba yung husband mo kung may sukli or OK lang sa kanya?
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #3 on: January 15, 2012, 01:26:32 am »

Haha! Never. Kasi don't do unto others.... ako ayokong gagawin sa akin yon., besides, wala naman siyang makukupit sa akin (har har har).
MInsan nakakalimutan ko ibalik ang sukli pero hindi sadya yun.
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #4 on: January 15, 2012, 01:32:28 am »

so far hindi pa :) kasi binibigay lahat sakin ni mister pera niya, old school kasi to, gusto niya naka-intrega lahat pera sakin tas everyday humihingi sya ng baon bago sya pumasok sa work  ;)
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #5 on: January 15, 2012, 06:08:49 am »

Hahaha nakakaguilty naman kayo mga mommies  ;D hindi ko na nga gagawin ulit hehe  ::)

@ mommy france, never syang nagtatanong ng sukli.  :) minsan naman sinosobrahan niya yung binibigay sa akin na budget. Pero pag walang pasobra, saka ako nag mamark-up hahaha...  ;D

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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #6 on: January 15, 2012, 10:53:27 am »

ako nope... i dont need to make "kupit" kasi he gives me allowance naman for myself.. our set-up is like this.. im a sahm by the way and heworks abroad.. he gives me money for these separately

baby's monthly needs
baby's savings
my personal allowance/savings


the rest of it, siya naman naghahandle

payments for insurance and educ plan
his monthly needs
family savings
his personal savings


if we want to buy a big thicket item, we talk about it... but for smallthings lang, my allowance and his pretty much handles it so no worries
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #7 on: January 15, 2012, 12:45:38 pm »

Like for example, yung milk ni baby na 850, sinasabi kong 1k... Mali ba?

Opo... :(

Siguro kung may kailangan ako, mag request nalang siguro ako na kung pwede, kung kaya pa, mag set siya for me ng "petty cash" fund/allowance.

Pag ganon, may madudukot pa rin ako na hindi rin hingi ng hingi  ;)
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #8 on: January 15, 2012, 02:13:46 pm »

Nope. Never pa.

Pero pag may gusto ako bilhin sinasabi ko yung amount na kailangan ko. Nag-ask ako talaga. Bihirang bihira naman kaya more than willing sya magbigay. Then ang budget sa food sa bahay ako ang nag ha-handle. Binibigay niya na sobra. Feeling ko lang nahihiya syang sabihan ako na para sa akin yun. Then kadalasan pa nag-iiwan sya sa cookie jar (Alkansya ko) para daw may emergency money ako dito sa bahay. Parang yun na rin talaga yung ipon ko na money dahil hindi niya na binabalikan. SAHM din ako.
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #9 on: January 15, 2012, 03:03:05 pm »

ako naman never ako nangupit ng pera, fulltime SAHM din ako pero meron akong homebased na work. wala pa din akong yaya until now pero na manage ko naman ng maayos.

upto the last piso, nilalagay ko sa coin bottle namin kung baga, lahat ng coins nasa pockets and sukli dun mo hehe ayaw ko din kasi ang feeling na pagngupit ako, baka kupitan din niya ako which is I so Hate the most yong walang transparency and honesty most especially sa pera.

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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #10 on: January 15, 2012, 04:43:39 pm »

Hahaha nakakaguilty naman kayo mga mommies  ;D hindi ko na nga gagawin ulit hehe  ::)

@ mommy france, never syang nagtatanong ng sukli.  :) minsan naman sinosobrahan niya yung binibigay sa akin na budget. Pero pag walang pasobra, saka ako nag mamark-up hahaha...  ;D



Mami che... para di ka ma-guilty, sabihin mo sa kanya kung magkano na yung naipon mo dun sa mga sukli tapos i-treat mo siya ng something. :) After that, don't do it na. Humingi ka na lang sa kanya para may dagdag na feeling sa kanya na kaya naman niyang ibigay yung gusto mo, aside from sa mga needs sa bahay.
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #11 on: January 16, 2012, 12:55:54 am »

joining...

Ako never..hehe
Kasi si hubby ang madalas na mangupit sa akin.. ;D ;D
Ang set up kasi namin ako ang may hawak ng sallary namin dalawa (sa atm), so nanghihingi lang sya ng everyday allowance niya going to their office..Kaya minsan ang ending mga sukli pag nagpapabili ako wala na minsan bumabalik or pag may laro sila sa basketball every sunday (sporty kasi  :D) kumukuha nalang sya sa wallet ko ng pera at sinasabi nalang sa akin after...
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #12 on: January 16, 2012, 02:02:37 am »

Hmm ako never.... pero pero umuutang ako sa kanya kasi when its for our own vanity normally no questions kami about it..so lets say im out and i want  2 buy a jacket  sabihin ko pautang naman  ..tas somehow nakakalimutan ko hehe well sometimes di rin niya naman pinapabyad :D
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #13 on: January 16, 2012, 10:20:53 am »

Never din ako kumupit kay hubby..  :)

Kahit may work ako, I make it sure na pag may gusto akong bilhin para sa sarili ko e nagpapaalam pa rin ako sa kanya bago ko bilhin para alam niya kung san napupunta yung pera namin. Sa akin kasi sweldo naming dalawa means pera namin yun so kung iisipin ko pang kumupit para na ring kinupitan ko sarili kong pera. Ok po sa amin yung ganung setup kasi kahit siya pag may gustong bilhin nagpapaalam din sya sa akin. Merong times na pag may lakad ako, humihingi ako ng dagdag sa kanya or siya naman humihingi ng dagdag sa akin. Nasa paguusap niyo naman yun mommy e. Maging open lang po siguro kayo sa ganun, para maliwanag. ;)
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Re: Kinukupitan nyo ba si hubby? :)
« Reply #14 on: January 16, 2012, 10:38:58 am »

kinukupitan ko ba si hubby?

hindi, kundi hinoholdap ko siya tuwing sahod niya weekly  ;D

pero kidding aside, pag may binibili ako like grocery eh sinasabi ko sa kanya agad, kung hindi man before eh after na. ako kasi ang humahawak ng pera eh. as a full time stay at home housewife, pag may gusto ako bilhin, [hindi ito gamit], sa food eh sinasabi ko naman sa kanya  8)
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