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julia_18

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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #15 on: October 25, 2013, 01:29:48 pm »

@sis Jijiera meron din akong trust issues. hanggang sa ilang years na din kami marami pa ding doubts sa isip ko. lalagyan na nga daw ng barkada ng helmet si hubby kasi baka mauntog sa kagagahan ko eh. the fact na wala na din talaga sa akin if magkaron ako ng bf nun kasi i was hurt really bad and i was concentrating on my kids eh talagang destiny siguro. pray lang sis. kusang dumadating ang ganyan, hindi hinahanap. and when you think you found him, pray din for guidance.
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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #16 on: October 31, 2013, 12:43:23 am »

Sis how will you know ba if the guy is sincere in accepting u and ur baby? Ive heard stories kasi that some guys see single moms as someone na hindi dapat seryosohin due to "excess baggages" from our past. Kinda unfair pero as most of my friends say wala n nga daw matinong lakake sa panahon ngayon
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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #17 on: October 31, 2013, 08:12:37 am »

@sis Jijiera i really can't explain. hehe basta earlier in our relationship although hindi pa alam nung kids kasi parang barkada-barkada lang he would always include them in whatever he would be doing. as in father figure na talaga ang drama niya. saka right from the start, i told him na importante ang mga kids, 2nd lang sya. accepted niya yun. hanggang ngayon yung 2nd kid ko, sobrang attached sa kanya. she doesn't call him dad pero kita mo sa kanya na love na love niya si hubby. don't lose hope sis, meron pa. :-)
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ahyzeyuh

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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #18 on: October 31, 2013, 09:10:46 am »


hi mga mommies, im a single mom too. my daughter is 5years old.  SD deniedhis  paternal responsibility when i told him that im pregnant.

its always nice and uplifting yung mga happy ending na single parent story. hindi kc lahat ay nabibigyan ng chance . most sa mga lalaki kc, pag nalaman na single parent, iba na agad ang approach nila. kudos to your hubby sis

i am not in a relationship right now and i am not seeking either. but if given a chance, why not di ba  ;)
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Jijiera

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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #19 on: November 02, 2013, 10:39:44 pm »

@sis julia: congrats on finding a good man. Napaka rare na nyan sa panahon ngayon i think. help me and the other pray na sana may makita din kaming true love like yours. Its rare for a man to not only live you but to also accept yhe responsibilities na kkasama ng pagging single mom natin :)

@sis ahyzeyuh: hi sis! Same tyo ng sitiation kaya i really understand you. Iniisip ko na lang better na wala nalang si sd kaysa naman anjan nga sakit lang naman sa ulo dala. Happy and contented na ko na kami nalang ni baby. Ask ko lang. Until now wala talaga sya paramdam sa inyo ni baby? Hindi man lang ba sya nacurious about the baby he abandoned? Ako kasi i honestly dont know ano pwede ko magawa pag ngpakita sya samin ulit haha!
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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #20 on: November 08, 2013, 10:08:49 pm »

@Jijiera

It is! My sister will be getting married this Sunday. :)

She has three kids. First born was abandoned by his father. Nawala na lang parang bula nung umuwi dito si ate. Nasa ibang bansa sila, and di inacknowledge yung bata.

Then, she got married to a palikero/babaero where she had 2 boys din. Naghiwalay sila kasi irresponsible ang lalaki, di nagpapadala, wala naman work ate ko nun pero nasa ibang bansa yung guy. She has 3 boys in total.

Now, alam lahat ng bf niya ang tungkol sa past niya.. sa mga anak niya.. and I saw how they love each other..

There's still a happy ending sis. Just believe.. like me. hehe.
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« Reply #21 on: November 13, 2013, 06:24:56 am »

@sis ahyzeyuh: hi sis! Same tyo ng sitiation kaya i really understand you. Iniisip ko na lang better na wala nalang si sd kaysa naman anjan nga sakit lang naman sa ulo dala. Happy and contented na ko na kami nalang ni baby. Ask ko lang. Until now wala talaga sya paramdam sa inyo ni baby? Hindi man lang ba sya nacurious about the baby he abandoned? Ako kasi i honestly dont know ano pwede ko magawa pag ngpakita sya samin ulit haha!

after a year that i gave birth nagpakita si SD sa 1st birthday ng kiddo namin. we tried to work it out. Kahit walang sustento from him tinanggap ko siya, peru di talaga ngwork out. ngpapakita si SD during special event, like bday and graduation. Okay sila ng anak namin, they been exchanging calls and text, kamustahan with iloveyou pa but recently lang, we got a big fight na pati yung anak namin ay naapektuhan, when my kid tried calling him his not answering his phone.

my kid is now having some stress and anxiety. we been referred to CFAM( Center for family Ministries ) for Counselling.
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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #22 on: December 06, 2013, 05:32:49 pm »

Hi po! Yes, it is still possible... I was a single mom for 2-1/2 years but I have this friend/MU na who has been there before I got pregnant until I gave birth.. Hindi sya seryoso nung una dahil nga naging ganito ako pero still he's always there for me at napakita ko sa kanya ang katatagan ko, eventually ito kakakasal lang namin kanina and I'm so happy because God gave him to me.
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Re: Finding True Love as a Single Mom
« Reply #23 on: December 06, 2013, 06:13:13 pm »

Hello! I'm a single mom din hindi naman niya kami inabanduna or iniwan, hindi kasi siya gusto ng parents ko..And sa paghahanap ng One true love hindi ko na muna iniisip yung pagkakaroon focus muna ako sa son ko kahit na minsan nakakamiss magkaroon ng partner gusto ko kasi pag nagkaroon ako ng bf ule siya na eh. Last na! Oo nakakaworry din na baka kasi mahirap ng maghanap because of extra baggage pero nowadays mapapansin mo yung ibang single moms nagkakaroon pa din ng bf and ending husbie na :) Ipagppray ko na lang na sana may dumating na isang lalake na tanggap yung buong pagkatao ko and syempre si baby and now may gustong manligaw sa akin ngayon kaso ayaw ko pa talaga.. 1 yr and 3 months lang baby ko and hindi pa ako sure sa hehe.. SIguro next-next year ko na lang ipagppray at hihingilin kay papa jesus si right man for me..  Enjoy mo na lang muna pagiging mommy mo sis, hehe! Darating din siya :)
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