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louvellemarcaida

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4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« on: January 24, 2012, 01:26:18 pm »

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Hi, I'm new here at smart parenting and i have a problem with my 4 years old son who's still on diaper all day as in 24/7, and his already at pre-school... kahit sabihin namin na sya nalang ang nagddiaper sa school ayaw pa rin niya tanggalin. Should i wait nalang pag-ready niya sya?

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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #1 on: January 24, 2012, 01:55:18 pm »

hi sis.. welcome to SP...
Sa totoo lang, when it comes to toilet training, our children will never be ready until we're ready for the hard part.
The transition part and the tantrums when it comes to toilet training.

Siyempre talagang aayaw yan kasi hindi naman nila alam yung difference and they don't understand why they have to.
Baka pag time na na maintindihan niya, eh napahiya na siya sa classmates niya which will have a bigger impact sa anak mo.

Be firm and don;t let your child decide if he needs to stop using the diaper.
You can start by doing it at home. Kayo lang muna. pag-uwi ng house, bawal na mag-diaper. Mababasa at mababasa ang kama pero ganun talaga. Wag mo din ipakita yung diaper sa kanya. From time to time ask him if wee-wee na siya. Kapag nagsisimula na siya at di pa rin nagsasabi, itakbo mo siya agad sa CR. I would advise na at this time wag na siya mag-toilet trainer. Diretso na sa toilet bowl, bili ka na lang yung may seat na pambata.

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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2012, 04:01:16 pm »

Hi Mommy France, Thank you for your advise, i should have done it siguro in his earlier years.. im a working mom kase kaya di ko rin natutukan... sige i'll try your advise sana mag work hehe thanks so much  :D
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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #3 on: January 24, 2012, 04:44:11 pm »

dilemma ko rin yan dati, nung nag two years old na yung son ko, feeling ko ang tanda na niya para magdiaper, lalo na nung pinasok ko siya ng summer class, 2yrs and 6mos. siya nun, parang siya na lang nakadiaper nun. so sabi ko, need ko na tanggalin talaga diaper, nagtry ako for almost 3weeks yata, as in no success, punas lang ko ng wiwi at linis. sobrang stress ko. so huminto ako pero sinasabihan ko pa rin siya and fortunately, before siya mag 3yrs old, nagsabi siya ng wiwi at nagwiwi nga sa toilet. before kasi kahit sabihin niya wiwi or pupu, tapos na niya gawin nakaihi na siya. so simula nun, no diaper na talaga kami sa umaga, then after nun sa gabi naman, though may mga accidents pa rin nung umpisa kasi hindi pa niya nacocontrol wiwi niya pag tulog siya, then last yung pag lumalabas kami, wala na rin. so graduate na rin kami sa diaper.  :)

it takes time talaga, may mga bata na as early as 1 at 2 yrs old, no diaper na talaga, pero may mga bata din na medyo late. pamangkin ko, 4yrs old na siya nagstop magdiaper sa gabi, pero yung kuya niya 2yrs old wala ng diaper. same mother lang yun, so magkaiba talaga ang mga bata.

since working mom ka, ibilin mu na lang sa nagbabantay na walang diaper sa morning, tapos tanungin lang kung magwiwi or pupu every 2 hours. kaya start mo pa lang ng weekend para maturuan din nagbabantay. my thead dito about potty training, dami ka dun mababasa na techniques.  :)
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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #4 on: January 24, 2012, 04:49:52 pm »

Tama si Michi.. kausapin mo yung nagbabantay sa anak mo.
I'm working din ang talagang kasangga ko yung yaya ng anak ko sa pagtoilet-train.

Kaya mo yan!! :)
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« Reply #5 on: January 24, 2012, 05:09:41 pm »

Actually mama ko kase nagbabantay sa anak ko but meron din naman yaya but most of the time si mother dear ko... medyo spolied kase kaya inisip ko rin si lola may kasalan hehe  ;D thanks talga for the advise and support!  :D
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« Reply #6 on: January 24, 2012, 05:18:19 pm »

natawa naman ko sa kasangga france,  :) pero true talaga yun kasi nung nagsummer class nga anak ko, tinanung ko yung yaya nung classmate ng anak ko, na buti wala ng diaper alaga niya, kaidad kasi yun ng anak ko. sabi nung yaya, bilin daw yung ng ate niya na wag suotan ng diaper para matuto nga daw. so teamwork talaga dapat kayo ng nagbabantay.

convenient kasi talaga sa nag-aalaga pag nakadiaper ang mga bata pero yun nga hindi sila matuto unless maramdaman nila na wet sila. mahirap lang talaga sa umpisa pero nakakatuwa pag natuto na.

^buti may kasya pa na diaper sa kanya, bilhan mo kaya ng maliit na size para malaman niya na wala ng kasya sa kanya na diaper. hehe!
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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #7 on: January 24, 2012, 11:11:57 pm »

share lang po, with my baby, kaka-graduate lang namin 3 months ago sa diaper 4 y/o & 3 months din yun.  takot din kc ako na bk magkalat siya esp sa public places kaya talagang nkdiaper siya. until pag uwi ko 1 night sa house, wala n pla diaper & hindi ko narecvd txt kc lowbat ako.  It all started there maya't maya tanong if wee-wee siya, panay bilin na she has to call me if she needs to wee wee.  though there were times "mommy, wee wee pero tapos n pla or kasarapan ng tulog na wet bedsheet at pajamas n kami parehas but it doesn't matter, turo ulit & in the middle of the night after ng milk or juice niya, ibabangon ko talaga para mag wee wee.  ganon din sa poop though mas madali sa akin kc even before nakadiaper siya, sasabihin niya "mommy, ouch tummy."
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« Reply #8 on: January 25, 2012, 09:41:35 am »

Michi - Nagawa ko na yan e maliit na diaper pinasuot ko, kaya lang medyo magaling sumagot ang anak ko sabi lagyan daw belt  :D
Julia Allison - You gave me hope!  ;D
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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #9 on: January 25, 2012, 11:42:58 am »

nung december ko lang inumpisahan i-potty train yung son ko. he's 2 and 4mos old. every 15mins pinapa wee wee ko siya sa dipper nung una then 30mins. actually hindi pa siya madalas magsabi if mag weewee siya sasabihin lang niya pag nakawee wee na siya. pati sa pag poopoo minsan nagsasabi minsan hindi.  twice a day na lang siya magdiaper tuwing nap time and sa gabi pagtulog. naiirita na rin siya sa diaper hindi na siya sanay. so tiyagaan lang talaga mommies.
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« Reply #10 on: January 25, 2012, 01:10:11 pm »

Over 4 yo na boy ko when he totally got potty trained. Before getting trained, I need to keep him on diaper kasi nadudumihan lang yung brief. Even on diaper, marunong naman siyang mag wiwi sa potty. Pupu lang talaga problem. I take care of my own kids. Wala akong yaya and inspite ng lahat ng pag apply ko sa mga natutunan ko sa SP, baby books and magazines, late talaga natuto boy ko. In the book I read about toilet training without tears and trauma, it says that the baby/toddler will learn at his own time. Most toddlers learn at an early age. Siguro isa lang ako talaga na nabiyayaan ng late bloomer.
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« Reply #11 on: January 25, 2012, 01:20:36 pm »

My son swas potty trained when he was arnd 2.5yo. Sa daytime. Nightime mga 3.5 na. Dati nung pinopotty train ko sya dami ring linis linis at punas punas. dapat alisin montlga ang diaper kasi di niya madifferentiate abg meron at wala. Pag nalaman niya na sticky at yucky ang magwee wee sa brief or short, eentually malalaman niya na dapat sa toilet na. Isa pa, malaki rin ang tulong na meron lalaki sa inyo na tuturo sa kanya. Sa akin ang husband ko everytime he goes to the bathroom sinasabihan ko na ipakita sa anak ko.. May time na nafrustrate ako, kasi tinatrain ko sya for 1week, nagstop ako for 1week then ulit uli.. Bigla na lang sya nagsabi na sa cr na sya magwee wee :) mas mahirap sa nightime kasi ang mababasa foam ng kama :) ginigising ko talaga sya sa gabi, para mag wee wee. Ngyon 4 yo na sya, diretso na sya matulog, sa umaga na lbg ang cr. Ipawee wee mo rin before goin to slip :)
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« Reply #12 on: January 25, 2012, 02:00:00 pm »

@louvelle - iba na talaga bata ngayon, natawa ko sa belt.

medyo mahirap nga pagboy tuturuan kasi pagwiwi niya gusto din nakaupo siya kasi nakikita sa kin. hehe! pero sabi ko nga kay hubby, ipakita niya kung paano magwiwi ang boys.
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« Reply #13 on: January 25, 2012, 04:07:27 pm »

@Michi - Korek sis lalo na pag na spoiled  hirap pakiusapan :) .... Thanks!
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Re: 4 yr.old Toddler still uses diaper
« Reply #14 on: January 26, 2012, 08:00:58 pm »

natawa din ako sa belt. hehe. ang SMART na ng mga kids ngayon.

kelangan ko na pala talagang kausapin yung nagbabantay sa anak ko. Ang prob lang is magkasunod sila, isang 1 1/2 yo, and isang going to 3. Sabay ko ba silang ipapotty train? Edi dobleng hirap yun? hehe
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