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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #15 on: March 05, 2012, 07:06:26 pm »

oh, yes! my bad.  ;D
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #16 on: March 27, 2012, 12:15:03 am »

Mga mommies paano naman kung nakasunod siya sa surname ng dad niya then ngayon ayoko na, gusto ko surname ko na. Pwede ba yun?
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #17 on: March 27, 2012, 12:51:54 am »

haizz sis parang magkakaparehas tayo ng concern kasi ako din gusto ko pabago last name ng anak ko..
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #18 on: March 27, 2012, 02:20:50 am »

@tiny_yabbi

bat naman sis? hehe

oo sis puede naman yon, papa atty. mo nga lang 5k ata yong every letter sis bsta kaya naman bsta gagawa ng affidavit na nagsasabi na kahit declared sya ng father na anak sya, pero etc...
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #19 on: March 27, 2012, 02:40:30 am »



sis kasi yung father ng 1st child ko foreigner un wala sya dito e nakaapilyido sa kanya un..  so iba last name niya gusto ko sana papalitan mahirap kasi sa skul iba last name niya magstart na sya magschool lam mu un mjo complicated lang yung set up..
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #20 on: March 27, 2012, 02:57:41 am »


what bout dun sa mga benefits ko like sa sss and philhealth ko ipapachange ko nalng din un tama ba? sa totoo lang gusto ko na sya ipaaus para habang 3 palang si selina eh mggng ok na.. Pinaguusapan din naman namen ni hubby un pero syempre pagdating sa ganun bagay ako pa din masusunod nahihiya kasi akong magask kay hubby regarding that lam muna.. Though lam ko magkakaroon ng confusion yung bata kasi now magaral na sya after holy week summer plaschool lang pagtinanong mu lam niya apilyido niya kahit hirap banggitin Selina Srinivasa..  Kasi naman dati ok na ok kame nung papa niya eh now biglang naglahong parang bula wala ng say bout sa anak niya, take note friends pa kame sa fb ni hindi man lang makamusta anak niya.. so bad awa tuloy ako anak ko bute si hubby hindi naman nagkukulang at di niya pinapakita na mas luv niya si miggy pero siyempre hindi naman maikakailang un talaga mas luv niya kasi anak niya talaga haizz hirap din sis..
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #21 on: March 27, 2012, 03:20:30 am »

same process din sis, kasi if updated na ang NSO at nakakuha ka na ng new NSO birth niya, update mo nalang din ang SSS etc mo para kasama pa din sa benefits mo si baby, change of surname lang naman kay baby. pero together with NSO is yong copy din ng affidavit na notarized para read nalang ng HR nyo regarding sa special case bakit na iba ang records ng beneficiay mo.

OO hirap din, pero sana in time kahit let say apelyedo mo na ang bata, magawa ng hubby mo na i.adopt din si eldest, or bigyan ni hubby mo ng apelyedo si eldest diba para naman she fully feels na whole family adn kasama talaga sya sa family. nahahalata na kasi yan ng bata though hindi pa marunong magpinpoint ano ang na feel niya pero na sense na niya na there is something different talaga.
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #22 on: March 27, 2012, 03:47:47 am »



thats true sis.. actually kaya hindi ko mapapalitan ng apilyido si eldest kasi plan ni hubby iadopt sya so pra hindi na magdalawang gastos.. thanks sa advice atty.. hahaha chika lang dame ko natutunan sayo sis chococream..
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #23 on: March 27, 2012, 03:58:33 am »

hahaha ok lang yon,

oo nga maganda yon so plan na pala, makapagbudget nalang para pag process diretso nalang sis, kunin nalang ang apelyedo ni ex at palitan ng apelyedo ni mister, para retain pa din ang middle initial. mas madali din yon i.process hindi  maraming gastos,

slow paper work nalang siguro ang simulan sis, kasi i think meron affidavit para kay hubby mo, at isang affidavit para sa ex and then another affidavit para sa change of surname and adoption. pirmado kasi yon ng lahat, so kay hubby's half, and your ex ...din pagawa ka din ng affidavit na isa sis para sa sustento or any obligation niya sa anak mo, or otherwise no touch na affidavit. nalimotan ko name nun, nakapagawa ako ng ganun kay hubby before e, 50p lang nabayad ko kasi matandang abogado yon, nakulitan siguro yon sa akin at notario lang pinabayad.
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #24 on: March 27, 2012, 04:11:04 am »

ang problem is si ex nasa ibang bansa ang super cannot be reach.. ewan ko pero bahala na.. sis hindi pa din kame kasal ni hubby so ang confusion here is yung 2 ko anak magkaiba ng last name haizz kaloka pero ganun tlaga wawa naman sila dahil sa kata***** ng mommy nila eto medyo magulo tuloy.. pero pag ok na kame ni hubby yung sa eldest ko naman iaaus namen..
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #25 on: March 27, 2012, 04:17:50 am »

ai ganun bah,

uunahin mo pala talaga pa si hubby pero ok lang yan, in time maiintindihan din naman ng bata bakit iba ang apelyedo sa isa at ang sa isa. mas maganda sana if ma work out, ill pray for you and your hubby sis sana ma enlighten for the good sa lahat ng parties. hai nko, akla ko ako lang ang me problema ng ganyan, madami pala tayo sa barko. hahaha
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #26 on: March 27, 2012, 05:03:42 am »

uu naman count me in.. hindi ka nagiisa sis.. ;D
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #27 on: April 17, 2012, 10:28:10 pm »

mga mommies, sino po nakatry na dito nagpachange na nang fam name ni baby?

yung akin kasi, yung famname niya nasa dad niya kasi he was the one who paid nung pinanganak si baby. ngayon na nasa bahay na ako, my mom is kinukulit ako to change my abby's fam name kasi he suddenly stopped giving sustento when he knew na binibigyan na ako nang mom ko. ayaw din kasi ni mom ko k SD and my mom wants to apply my baby nang visa na dapat nakapangalan samin para d na need nang authorization letter everytime aalis nang bansa. ok naman k SD kaso yung mama niya ayaw naman, ipagpapalit ba daw nung fam name nila para lang magkavisa si baby,

kung pwede ko nga lang sumbatan yung mom niya , ginawa ko nah .. d naman mabibigyan nang magandang buhay nang anak niya etong apo niya, ano bang alam niya, d nila mabibigyan nang visa eto. hahayzz

sorry mommy naglabas talaga ako nang hinanakit. if ever kung sino dito may alam, advice naman po kung pano. tia :)
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #28 on: April 17, 2012, 11:14:42 pm »

@raizah14, I just want to ask sis, what is the real reason why you want to change your baby's name?

My son is also using SD's surname. Before we went home here in the province I made sure I can take my son anywhere in the world and his father wont have any say on this. You don't need any authorization from SD to take your baby out of the country. Kelangan lang ng authorization if your baby will travel without a parent. And you can give that authorization if ever your baby will travel with out you. Your baby having a different surname than yours is not a hindrance for issuing a visa. I have a pending petition in the US and my lawyer didn't even bat an eye when he learned that my son has a different surname. I read US Embassy's site regarding this: "Philippine authorities advise the American Embassy that generally the Philippine courts will give custody of children under the age of seven to the mother, provided there is no evidence that would indicate that the mother is unfit to raise the child."
http://travel.state.gov/abduction/country/country_514.html

And you are not married to the father of your baby, legally, you have the parental authority to your baby. I applied for a CENOMAR lang, just in case hanapan ako.


Changing a name/surname is a legal issue sis. One member here already did that but sobrang haba ng process and magastos. I am not discouraging you. You just have to realize the reason why you want to do it. Who will benefit from it?

I dont have anything against mommys changing their baby's surname to theirs. I understand the pain, I have been there too.
But sana we should have have let our babies use our names in the first place. But since nakalagay na, registered na si baby, then just let it be nalang. This is my personal opinion lang naman. It would be more complicated to explain to a child baket in his birth certificate iba yung surname tas may note lang na pinalitan yung surname. Im not sure if they will issue a new birth certificate or just make a note lang. And it will be my triumph once my son will opt to change his name by his own.
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Re: Kelangan pa bang baguhin ang apelyido ni baby?
« Reply #29 on: April 18, 2012, 09:01:41 am »

@mommy ilovegabe

Its my mother's choice kung bakit need palitan yung famname ni baby. Siguro sa thought na ayaw niyang dalhin fam nme ni SD. And about the visa, we had thesame issues kasi when we applied for visa and my dad doesnt want to, hinanapan kasi siya nang consent from my father na i.allow mom ko to bring us without him to the US.

Ano kaya process nito?
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